I have given birth to 4 daughters, if I want to divorce, do I want to have at least 2 daughters?

You don't necessarily have to share at least two daughters, it depends on your father-in-law's wishes, maybe he wants custody of all four daughters, but if you want to share the maintenance of your daughters, you can only bear two at most. Rather than having given birth to four daughters, you will have to share some alimony, and the court will make an appropriate determination based on the different financial abilities of the two spouses.

This issue needs to be negotiated between you and your husband.

There is no standard answer, it depends on the outcome of the negotiation between the two of you.

The maintenance of the child depends on the financial situation of both parties, and if the negotiation fails, the court will make a decision.

This has to be combined with the parents' opinions to let the court decide.

This is not necessarily, the two parties negotiate a settlement, and if the negotiation fails, they can only sue the court.

In this case, as you said, it is also necessary for the court to divide the custody of the children according to the ability of both of you to support them.

Yes, of course you can also do without.

Not exactly, because the court has to consider not only the mother's love, but also your ability to raise you!

If you are in good condition, you may raise them all.

The woman filed for divorce first, and she didn't want any of the two children?

It doesn't matter who files for divorce and who files for divorce, do you have two children, according to the way of the current court, it must be husband and wife, one person raises the other, whether it is right or wrong, it doesn't matter who marries first and who files for divorce later.

About child custody.

There is no absolute standard, first of all, it is up to the husband and wife to negotiate, and if the negotiation fails, the court can make a judgment.

Under normal circumstances, most children under the age of two are awarded to the woman, and children over ten years old can listen to the child's opinion, that is, if the child intends to follow whom, the possibility of awarding to whom will be greater is greater.

For children between the ages of 2 and 10, it is generally judged comprehensively by the economic income of both parties, whether the job is stable, and whether they can provide a better environment for the child to grow up.

In addition, if the couple has two children, usually one per person.

Therefore, the woman is not responsible for child support.

What is the rationale?

Too poor to have no income? Can't work because of a disability? If so, even if the court awards child support, the woman can refuse to pay it, and the court cannot enforce it.

Or that the woman thinks that the child is not her own after the divorce, and she just rented the uterus to the man during the marriage and gave birth to a child for the man once, so the child has nothing to do with herself after the divorce. The court will not do this reason, divorce is the end of the relationship between husband and wife, not the severance of the relationship between parents and children, and the mother of the child still has the obligation to support the child until the child is 18 years old.

In addition, the mother of the child, who doesn't even want to give child support, hopes that you can take the child's quality of life seriously, and don't ignore the child's growth environment with the excuse of low income and conflicts with your in-laws or ex-husband.

The child was shouted by the stepmother.

or there are too many news of abuse by stepfathers, and the biological parents of these children will not have a tragedy if they have a little sense of responsibility for their children.

Legal analysisIf the parties can divorce by mutual agreement, then they can decide for themselves. If you sue for divorce, the custody of the child also depends on the specific circumstances, generally one for each party. The rest of the specifics include:

Children under the age of two generally live with their mothers. In any of the following circumstances, the mother may live with the father: suffering from an infectious disease or other serious illness that has not been cured for a long time, and the child is not suitable to live with her; There are conditions for raising and the obligation to support is not fulfilled, and the father requires the child to live with him; For other reasons, the child is truly unable to live with the mother; Where both parents agree that a child under the age of two lives with the father and there is no adverse impact on the child's healthy development, it may be permitted; For children over the age of two years, both the father and the mother request to live with them, and one of the parents may be given priority in any of the following circumstances:

have been sterilized or have lost their fertility due to other reasons; There are no other children, and the other parent has other children.

Legal basisArticle 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China The relationship between parents and children shall not be extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother. After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. Where the parents of a child who has reached the age of two cannot reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

Summary. In the case of having two daughters, the divorce can be handled as follows: 1. It can be handled through negotiation between the two parties 2. If the negotiation fails, the people's court will make a judgment that the two daughters are generally sentenced to one by one person.

In the case of having two daughters, the divorce can be handled as follows: 1. The two parties can negotiate to deal with it as soon as possible 2. If the negotiation fails, the people's court will make a round of judgment for the two daughters, and one person will generally be sentenced to one.

Legal basis: Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: The relationship of repentance between parents and children is not eliminated by the divorce of the parents, whether the children are directly raised by the father or mother, are still the children of both parents After the divorce, the parents still have the rights and obligations to raise, educate and protect the children, and after the divorce, the children who are under the age of two years are under the age of two in the principle of direct custody by the mother, and the parents cannot reach an agreement on the issue of support. Where the people's court makes a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child, the child has reached the age of 8, it shall respect the true wishes of the child.

I just said that I was wrong, there are two daughters, one son is 10 years old, 9 years old, and 8 years old.

Hello dear is it two daughters and one son.

Yes, two daughters and one son.

Pro, Hello, yes, two daughters and one son are divorced, and the judgment of custody will be based on the following principles: 1. The child under the age of two belongs to the woman, unless the woman has special circumstances; 2. From two years old to eight years old, the two sides will discuss the comprehensive first negotiation situation; 3. The wishes of His Holiness over the age of 8 to value children.

In the event of a divorce, custody of the children can be decided by mutual agreement. If the negotiation fails, you can go to the court to file a pure collapse lawsuit and ask the court to make a judgment. Generally speaking, the principle of the court's decision is that it is most conducive to the child's development, and for children under the age of two, the court will award the mother's custody.

For children over the age of eight, the court will respect their true wishes.

1. At the time of divorce, if the husband and wife voluntarily reach an agreement on how to raise the child, then the court will also decide who to award the child to according to the wishes of both parties; 2. If the parties cannot reach an agreement on how to raise the two children, then the court will make a judgment based on the principle that the father and mother each raise one child; 3. The court will often consider the age and gender of the two children when making a judgment, under normal circumstances, if the child is not yet two years old, then the child will be awarded to the mother to raise, if the child is two years old but not yet eight years old, then the best interests of the child will decide whether to award to the mother or the father, when the child is eight years old, usually ask the child's wishes.

Hello, dear, under normal circumstances, a person over 8 years old should ask for the opinions of the children, divorce 2 children distribution standards will generally be sentenced to a man and a woman. The specific circumstances are as follows: 1. In the case of divorce, if the husband and wife voluntarily reach an agreement on how to raise the child, then the court will also decide who to award the child to according to the wishes of both parties; 2. If the two parties cannot reach an agreement on how to raise the two children, then the court will make a judgment according to the principle that the father and mother each raise one liquid and send one child; 3. The court will often consider the age and gender of the two children of the Qiao clan when deciding, under normal circumstances, if the child is not yet two years old, then the child will be awarded to the mother to raise, if the child is two years old but not yet eight years old, then the best interests of the child will decide whether to award to the mother or the father, when the child is eight years old, usually ask the child's wishes.

Hello, the three children are 12 years old, 19 years old, and 8 years old.

Dear, this depends on the child's choice.

Do you mean that he has his choice among all three children?

Dear, according to your situation, the child can choose which party to award to.

Dear, you can have the right to choose your own bright pants, because your child already has the right to choose, not who the parents can make a judgment to under the court and consultation, it is who the child asks to follow.

Dear, do you have any other questions.