After the divorce, is it the man who is miserable, or the woman who is miserable

Who is worse off after divorce? Not necessarily, but generally speaking, men don't live as much as women. The biggest impact is on the children.

Among the people I know, most of them are able to start a new family after a divorce for various reasons, and they are all very happy.

But there are three couples who divorced and the woman quickly remarried, and they are doing well. But none of these three men were able to remarry, and I think they are certainly not as happy as their ex-wives in getting married and having children.

Marriage is a lifelong affair, you must be cautious when looking for a partner to marry, and divorce must be considered carefully, because divorce hurts the most children, and it is difficult for children to get father's or mother's love at the same time after divorce, and the love of stepparents is somewhat inferior to that of their parents.

After a divorce, it is possible for a man to have a miserable life, and it is possible for a woman to have a miserable life. But most of the time, it's the men who are miserable. Most men are working-class, and as long as they are not rich or noble, they have to do everything on their own.

When I came back from work, I was busy doing housework, I was alone, and my life was a mess. If a woman has no income, she also starts miserably. However, as long as a woman looks for a new partner, her life is still guaranteed.

Both men and women have had a miserable and comfortable life, but it still depends on personal ability!

It depends on the individual's situation and personality. For example, some people will take care of themselves very well. And some are too sad and too bald.

After the divorce, both men and women can say that the most suffering is the child, so both of them must live a good life and let the child have a happy home.

I think it's generally worse for women, because I feel that men are doing well and are freer.

I think it's still a bit worse for women, because many women are not financially independent, and it is very difficult for them to live alone.

In contrast, men will have a worse life, because women really understand what is most important, so they will really make themselves better.

Male. Generally, after the divorce, there is no one to cook for you and do housework, and the quality of life will decrease a lot.

If a woman is not self-reliant, no matter if she gets married or divorced, she will not end well.

After divorce, men tend to regret it more than womenSociologists have surveyed 300 couples of recently divorced and those who have been divorced for 12 years, and the results are staggering: of the 150 men surveyed, seven committed suicide and three went to prison. Could it be that men are victims of divorce?

Scientists in the United Kingdom have found that divorced men are 76% more likely to die when they are young and strong than women.

The German men surveyed admitted that the biggest pain they suffered was the difficulty of seeing their children, followed by the financial pressure caused by "subsidizing" their ex-wives. Many men in Germany find a new life partner after 10 months of divorce, but they just don't get married. Sixteen percent of the men surveyed said that divorce was a mistake they regretted a lot.

According to a German statistic, 2 out of 3 divorced men and women are able to start a new family.

So, how to beat the divorce crisis? Of course, there is no "magic bullet", but psychologists give divorced men and women a few "pieces of advice": first, don't put all the responsibility for divorce on the other party; Second, hatred of the other side is not enough; Third, don't fantasize about the so-called "happy breakup", because divorce itself is intertwined with multiple emotions - hatred, anger, grievance, sadness.

If these feelings are not vented and become subconscious, it will be very dangerous. Such a person cannot get out of the cycle of divorce even at the last moment of his life. So, what love and hate do you have in your heart......Just let loose as much as you want!

After a period of self-catharsis, you ask yourself: What was wrong with me?

Divorce is due to various reasons, and they are not happy in life.

Life after divorce may be better, and the chances of happiness are greater.

Here's why:

First, after the divorce, the economy is independent, and there will be no more conflicts over economic issues. There are many reasons for divorce, and some of them may be due to financial problems. When the economy is independent, the financial power will be theirs.

You can use your money however you want, and you can buy whatever you want.

Second, after the divorce, his personality can be brought into full play, and his habits of life are free. I will no longer be angry because of the difference in my three views. You can do whatever you want with your lifestyle and habits, and you don't have to look at other people's eyes.

Eat as much as you want, drink as much as you want, and take a journey that you can take as soon as you go, and you can achieve it immediately.

The third is that after the divorce, if you want to love, you will love, and your feelings may have a good home. Because I once loved, because I once hated, after all, it has passed, and there is no good ending. Now is your chance, take advantage of it!

When you meet someone who is destined, love boldly! Enjoy life!

In short, after the divorce, there are many opportunities, and happiness may come to you!