After a man divorces, what does it feel like to see his ex wife having a bad time?

I guess you might feel very happy, because many people get divorced very unpleasantly, and both parties are like enemies, and he is happy to see that the other party is not having a good time.

Generally, when a man sees his ex-wife doing badly, he will have some feelings of pity, and he will feel that his ex-wife is very pitiful and wants to help her.

I will not be very happy in my heart, after all, I used to be my own pillow person, even if I am divorced, I hope that the other party can live better.

Basically, it's a feeling of schadenfreude, thinking that she had to divorce at the beginning, but now that she's like this, she will feel that she deserves it, which can be regarded as a kind of revenge.

The way to treat an ex-wife after a divorce varies from person to person, but there are roughly three ways that are suitable for the public: respect the ex-wife and don't interfere with her life. The contact on the Internet is limited to the topic of child rearing, and do not chat and greet if you have nothing to do.

Don't hide when you go out, say hello with a smile, and don't stop arguments and noises. When the ex-wife encounters a big difficulty, she should take the initiative to reach out and do her best to help. You can't sit idly by and watch the fall of the well.

Although divorced, after all, they once loved each other. Therefore, be kind to the old and be worthy of your heart.

If two people did not have children in the previous marriage, then there will be no intersection between the two people after the divorce. If there were children in the previous marriage, then the fact that the two people are the parents of the children will not change, regardless of which party the custody of the children is given, and both parties should also raise the children together on the premise that the children grow up healthy and happy.

It's best to always be nostalgic, not to be in touch, not to disturb each other. Now that they are divorced, let's live their own lives, all the grievances and grievances. Love, hatred, and hatred are all over the moment the Civil Affairs Bureau comes out, even if there is still the residual warmth of love or unwillingness or hatred, it should be buried in the deepest corner of the heart.

Treat each other with a normal heart and bless each other. There are many reasons for divorce. But the result is the same.

The two of them can't be together anymore, saying that the other party can only be the ex. First of all, let's talk about the first situation, if it is said that the husband proposed for divorce, it may be that the woman is wrong, and the man has no choice but to file it. In fact, as a man at this time, he must have a grudge against his ex-wife.

He will feel that he is very good to his wife, and he will pay for this family in a down-to-earth manner, but he really doesn't want to be the first to go, why would his daughter-in-law treat him like this? This side chain thing is the last thing that men can accept. If it takes a long time, as a man, his heart should slowly calm down.

If it is because the man has done something wrong, the woman has no choice but to file for divorce. In this case, women are often heartbroken and even desperate for men. She thinks that all men in the world are the same, so she will have a feeling of distrust in marriage.

This wound will need to heal for a long time. Until she meets a man who is good to her.

If a man has children after the divorce, he can treat his ex-wife as an ordinary friend, and if the two have no children, they can be strangers directly.

You can treat your ex-wife in the same way as a friend, so that the two people will not be embarrassed, and the relationship between the two people will not be affected because of the marriage.

Adjust your emotions well, and don't let the rush move and do stupid things.

The main thing is to carry out a psychological adjustment. Divorced people should adjust their mood in a timely manner, devote themselves to work to divert their attention, find close friends to confide in Nalu's troubled feelings, etc., so as to eliminate the negative emotions caused by divorce. The other is to work hard, earn money well, and take the next relationship happily.

In married life, it is necessary to respect each other, and He recommends that both parties should be at least loyal in a marriage relationship.

Once they embark on the road of divorce, it means that the relationship between the two people has been worn out by life.

So, negotiate all the issues before the divorce, and then, the bridge returns to the bridge, the road returns, no entanglement, no noise, quiet, and each lives its own life.

A high divorce rate means a high regrouping rate, and many couples now choose to start a new family after a divorce. If asked what a divorced woman fears the most, most people will answer that it would be awkward to meet his ex-husband and his new wife.

You can imagine that when a divorced woman goes shopping alone and finds her ex-husband and his wife in front of her, if the other party also finds out about you, one is the ex and the other is the current one, both parties will be embarrassed. This is also the reason why most people now choose to divorce, and the two people will invariably choose to die and never get along.

Any woman who encounters this kind of man who still haunts you after divorce should not be able to stand it.

He is not a simple strongman who wants to remarry, but uses a harassing way to force the other party to remarry him.

I have to say that such a man is a security hazard, not only will anyone who marries him get divorced, but also after the divorce, he can't get rid of his haunting entanglement. In fact, the more scared and weak you are to such a man, the more he will pester you, and his purpose is to entangle you so much that he can't stand it and remarry him. If you don't want to remarry him, you can't let him do whatever he wants.

Now that the choice to leave has been made, it means that it has been well thought out and is a mature decision. After that, you should learn to face the consequences of this incident rationally. If you are always pulling and pulling, you will not be chic at all, and it will leave a very bad impression in the other party's heart.

No one will be able to afford to catch up with the person who pesters him.

We sometimes see this kind of thing, after a couple divorces, the ex-husband will entangle the ex-wife, it may be that the ex-husband suddenly repents, it may be that the ex-husband needs someone to take care of the housework for him, or it may be that after many years of marriage, there is a gap in the sudden divorce, and he has an obsession with his ex-wife.

So he may try to get his ex-wife back in a variety of ways, but this situation will be very distressing to the parties in front of a person who is firmly divorced. Because people uphold the idea that after the divorce, "you take your Yangguan Road, I will cross my single-plank bridge", entanglement is one of the most feared things to meet your ex-husband and woman after divorce.

In middle-aged divorce, the biggest problem encountered is probably the issue of child custody. Nowadays, women generally have a later result, so when they reach middle age, their children are often not very old. They have different views on child custody, and if the couple has a dispute and both parties say that they cannot give up custody of the child, then it is likely to lead to a court case.

It is undoubtedly ironic to meet her husband again after the divorce, but in the courtroom. The previous affection became a joke, which was a huge blow to a woman who had just divorced. The most important thing is that the parents go to court, and the child becomes the most hurt person, which neither the father nor the mother wants to see.

If your bottom line is not clear, others will not take it seriously, whether it is for the child or other reasons, you have to talk about it. If you don't act in your heart, you can't solve it.

This must be true, but as a man, you should be aware of these issues

There may be the following psychological reasons why a man wants his ex-wife to do well after a divorce:

1.Have feelings for your ex-wife and still want to care for her after the divorce;

2.divorced on the spur of the moment, regretted the importance of understanding his ex-wife, and hoped to save the situation;

3.Moral cultivation of one's own wrongdoing, and wanting to make up for one's conscience by ascending to the stage;

4.Seeing the happiness and beauty that he once had in his ex-wife, I hope she can continue to live well and comfort her heart.

In short, a man wants his ex-wife to live well, which reflects his care and love for his ex-wife, as well as his maturity and sense of responsibility.

After a man divorces, he still hopes that his ex-wife will live well, which is a mature and responsible psychological manifestation of reverence. This may indicate that the man realizes that he may have hurt his ex-wife by leaving her, feels guilty and regretful, and hopes to alleviate his guilt by caring about his ex-wife's life and well-being.

It shows that he is a relatively kind person, and I hope that the people I met before are doing well is a manifestation of his kindness, and such people are still relatively good.