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Maybe the distance between your mother and daughter is too close, like a thorn on a hedgehog that pierces each other because it is too close. There is also a need for some "safe distance" between close people.
Every mother and daughter will have the experience of quarreling, but every time it is a process of trying to "run in".
Don't say anything, just report to your mother from behind when she washes the dishes: "Mom, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to be angry with you." I love you. ”
If you are next to face, you can write a small note to your mother and tell her. When necessary, ask Dad to help mediate.
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Probably because the things she does every day are very trivial, so she is upset, but if you have the conditions, you can choose to live outside or not in a city, the distance will produce beauty, give both parties a little time, maybe he has too much hope for you, but I feel that you always can't meet her standards, so there is a feeling that the hatred is not in the air.
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I also often quarrel with my mother, but it will be fine for a while, maybe there is a generation gap between the two generations, tell her what you think, try to be calm, it will definitely get better!
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Maybe you and your mom are the kind of people who can quarrel with each other together, no way, my mom and I are the same, it's good to get used to it, of course, it took me almost 20 years to get used to.
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I'm the same as you, I often quarrel with my mother. Anyway, I don't know why my mom often disagrees with me, it's really infuriating. But what can be done then?
Is she my mother after all, but one thing is for sure, my mother must also be thinking about our children, and she will still care about us. Don't be too sad, take care!
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She's for your good, but it's just in the wrong way, and she shouldn't hurt people.
I was also often scolded by my mother, who also had a bad temper. I'm 22 years old, and my mom beats me when she's in a hurry, and it's good for you if your mom doesn't beat you.
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My mom and I used to be the same. I've thought the same way you do.
But when I grow up and become well-behaved, I will be considerate of her.
only to find out. Mom and Dad actually love us.
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My mom used to play me a lot, but sometimes she would talk to me, and I finally realized that every time she was just impulsive, she actually loved me too. After beating me, she also regretted it.
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You are really too full of food, tired to death at the end of the day, and there are mental quarrels, I can only say to you: cow
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Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky.
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I only have six words: Mom is for your good!
You are still in the rebellious period, you don't understand the love of your parents, maybe she expressed it in the wrong way, maybe she beat you, but she was in the bathroom with tears of heartache, people, only if you are a parent, you will understand your parents, if your homework is very good, do things measured, how can she always take care of you, you communicate with her more, noisy can't solve the problem.
This is still your wife's problem, why can't you do it with your elders? The family is happy to do education work on both sides, especially the wife, to educate her, people say that the family has an old man is like a treasure, your mother should still be very good to say, because of the age, they are very open, let the wife apologize, probably it will be fine.
Don't worry too much about it, just do your part. As for the criticism of your mother, if it is reasonable, you should correct it, and she will see it; It's unreasonable, there's no need to argue, just be yourself. If you really can't stand it, it is recommended to board in the school, after a long time, she will miss you, and many complaints will disappear. >>>More
Think about the past, think about yourself. Especially when there are contradictions and quarrels, what he does, how you do it. Understand who is right and who is wrong before you can understand the reason for "breaking up". Then I know if you're too noisy, or if he's too flowery. >>>More
Life is not about whom, quarrels should be normal, but you can't take it as life, if you often pinch and can't get by, remember that you have a man, he is still a son, I want to ask you if you dare!! Have a heart-to-heart chat with your mother-in-law, as for what to talk about, you still need to control it, you can treat her as a mother, she will treat you like a daughter, at least not an enemy.