I was too lazy to quarrel with my mother, I quarreled with my mother

You are still in the rebellious period, you don't understand the love of your parents, maybe she expressed it in the wrong way, maybe she beat you, but she was in the bathroom with tears of heartache, people, only if you are a parent, you will understand your parents, if your homework is very good, do things measured, how can she always take care of you, you communicate with her more, noisy can't solve the problem.

It's not optimistic that this will happen, and of course it's not just your family that will have a fight. Please understand this one thing first, why does your mother care about you. She doesn't want you to make a mistake because she thinks you're doing something wrong.

At least I'm a girl, and I've had a fight with my mom. I was also very angry and angry and wanted her to understand. But she's only in charge of us for our own good!!

I suggest you talk to your mom when she's happy, and tell her boldly; I want to give you a space for privacy. I'm sure your mom will accept it when you say it. Unless she has a really bad personality.

I'm sure your mom has a good personality. And then I wish you this wish to be fulfilled, okay?

The love of parents is unquestionable, but the way of love is sometimes difficult to accept. Your mother is asking you too much to follow the path she envisioned.

There are many parents like this, when they are not capable enough, parents are quite harsh, and once they have enough ability to take care of themselves, take care of their families, and take on the heavy responsibility of starting a family, their parents will not care about anything at once. It's a way to love, whether you accept it or not, like it or not. Maybe it won't be understood until later.

Don't be too your mother, try to communicate as much as possible.

I just finished arguing! She threw my things, and she picked them up while throwing me. In the end I was annoyed.

Girl, I'm a thirty-year-old man. I knew the preciousness of mother's love when I went abroad for a few years, so I wasn't annoyed when she got angry when she came back. But just now I was annoyed.

I will go again and come back as little as possible. Conflict avoided, she is the United States, I am Iraq. I'll run!

You'll be fine when you get married. Probably the reason why I'm not married.

It's too real, and my mom is too, and every day is inexplicable, and then her personality is very bad, and I don't want to communicate with her more and more now. She's nice at times, but we can't really say anything. I really didn't bother to talk to her, every time I felt so annoyed that I couldn't say anything, and she kept pushing her.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

Then you don't have to! Either way, our relationship with our parents is a fixed fact! Parents don't understand the thinking and ideas of our young people, many times they do some things that we are disgusted by love and care, in order to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and generation gaps, we still need to communicate more.

There is a generation gap, but you can find some common topics to communicate, parents and children should be on an equal footing to get along and communicate, so that the generation gap will be less and less.

Are you still young? If you don't want to communicate now, you can avoid it as much as possible, and one day you will feel that it would be nice to be able to communicate with them.

Calm down, even if you don't want to communicate, don't talk, go help before dinner or something.

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world. Do you have filial piety? Mother has her reasons, you have to understand.

Calm down and don't let anger get your mind to the ground. You have to be different.

I've experienced some of your things. I also had some of your thoughts, and at that time I also felt unfair, wronged, and sad. Now that I'm grown up, I am grateful for coming out of society, because it makes me more independent, I don't talk about society, I don't adapt to anything, I don't know anything.

People who have endured hardships will cherish it, and it is easier to make friends.

You just have to be happy and don't think about unfairness. It's like doing laundry, you think, my sister won't, I will, I'm not afraid of a lot of dirty clothes when I live alone. Like cooking, I will, I'm not afraid of starving, I can eat whatever I want, and I can eat as much as I want......

Whenever my friends talk about my childhood, I tell it as a joke, and my friends say that you have experienced so much hardship and can be so cheerful, and you don't look like a person with these experiences at all.

Also, didn't you quarrel with your mother, in fact, sometimes it's not that parents want to do this, and it's not that parents don't want to communicate with their children sincerely, but parents don't know how to communicate with their children, just like you don't know how to talk to your parents. In the past, I didn't have any concept of Mother's Day and Mother's birthday, but then I came out to read, and I gave her a ** every Mother's Day, New Year's Day, and my mother's birthday, and told her Happy Mother's Day, Happy New Year, and Happy Birthday. Every time she hears it, she is happy to me, she is good to me, and when she sees me more sensible, she is even better to me!

Mother's Day is still more than a month away, when you arrive, buy a small gift, give it to her, and say happy Mother's Day to her. Then tell her that you want to have a good talk with her, and we can talk about it openly and honestly. Maybe the relationship will improve, maybe waiting for a month is too long, you can also point directly, just say Mom, I want to talk to you about something, but don't say too much, speak softly, don't quarrel again.

The main thing is to be calm, otherwise things will not be resolved!

Of course this is just my suggestion, because I have tried to work, but it may not work for everyone. But if you don't try, you don't know if it's useful!

1. Awkward child, apologize to your mother first, in fact, your mother has high expectations for you.

2. Whether you remember your name or not, at least, your name may be more complicated and awkward, your parents often call you by your name, and you may be used to calling you by your previous name.

3. Remember that your parents are always good to you, if there is really something annoying, your parents will read you next to you and go to the side.

4. Control your temper, I guess your temper is the same as your father, more irritable, my mother often says this about me, and she can't see my dedication, she will only say what my sister is. I'm annoyed too, it doesn't matter anyway.

5. No matter how you are, it is right to be yourself, because people are more popular than others.

6. Take your time, I often quarrel with them, and the noisy relationship is good, at least your mother will still miss you more in the future.

Don't be prejudiced against your mother, I thought my mother was only good to my brother when I was a child, and she didn't care much about me, but when I grew up, I realized that I was wrong, and she also cared about me, and you will slowly understand!! You have to put aside your preconceptions and find a leisure time to talk to him and talk to him about your opinions, in a better tone, and when you talk to each other, everything will be fine. Come on, believe in yourself, I've got your back!!

I also often quarrel with my mother, every time I quarrel with my mother, my father will take me out to play, buy food, play a lap back I will ask my mother to open the door, my mother will bring me delicious food, just like what happened just now, I quarrel with others, and I will reconcile soon, not for long.

The love of parents for their children is the same, but how to treat their children is different, just like you said, you can get a full attendance award to show that you are very serious and diligent, the same thing, your sister doesn't do it, but you do it, it becomes a habit after a long time, your sister is used to it, and your mother is used to it, one day you are occasionally lazy, it will make people feel wrong, and the person who has not done it is nothing, you can say your dissatisfaction out loud, otherwise it will accumulate more and more in your heart, maybe your mother is too tired to have something to say about you.

It'll be fine in a few days, and your mom won't be angry with you.

How old are you now, you are still in school, maybe your parents really neglect you, but you don't take it too seriously, after all, they are your biological parents, and blood is thicker than water. When you grow up, you'll be fine. Don't compare yourself with your sisters, you can work hard in other aspects to be excellent, so that everyone can find your shining point.

Go out and travel to get closer to each other.

Let me guess, you're about fourteen years old! When you grow up and experience life, you will naturally deal with these problems, I think my mother may have been in a bad mood at the time, maybe you usually face the computer all day long, the room is very messy, not like a girl's room at all, your mother has reminded you many times, the combination of the two, your mother is also a person, it is inevitable to lose control and smash your mouse, you shouldn't say that your mother cares about your business, let you whole the room or something, maybe you are also very angry, so that there is a quarrel This is a very common life scene. But no matter what, the best thing in the world for you is your parents, your parents can forgive us for any mistakes, I used to be the same as you, but now that I have grown up, I don't report good news to my family outside, when I get home, I don't let my parents do any housework, I feel very happy to be able to solve problems for my parents, one day the years will steal your parents, we should all learn to cherish!

I think you know how to do it because you care so much about your mom! You will be a filial person in the future!

Communicate. Spend more time with each other.

Parents are all about their children.

There are parents in the world, your mother is not wrong, she is just strict with you, but her strictness is definitely for your good, and one day you will understand. Find a time to communicate with her, she cried for you, no matter how not, it's yours. Soften each other, and wish you and your mother to be reconciled as soon as possible!

You should communicate with him ...

I guess your mother is also worried, so she will spill her anger on you and pick thorns on you... She's your mother.,Bow your head and admit your mistake once.,It'll be fine soon.。。。 Mom is actually very easy to satisfy.

Every time my mom and I had a fight, as soon as I took the initiative to admit my mistake, she melted immediately.

How old are you, how can you start a temper with your elders, from an outsider's point of view, your mother is not wrong, your mother worked hard to raise you, and now you are talking back to her because of this, if I (I am a man and then a father), I will be very sad, really. Listen to me and apologize to your mother! May your family be happy and harmonious!

Blood is thicker than water!! The best people for themselves are always parents!! Let's be humble with each other, and it will be okay slowly.

Parents always think about us, maybe something is wrong with them, or we should be more considerate of them! May your whole family be in peace!

Before seeing my answer, you should first ask yourself whether you are self-motivated, whether you have the heart to be admitted to a key high school, whether it is not for vanity but for a better self, and whether you are worthy of yourself and your parents when studying? Your parents are also good for you, let go of learning and the like, the knowledge of junior high school is very simple, you have to tutor now, let me tell you what are you good at? Wait until the high school entrance examination in case you have a subject that you don't study well, your parents will spend more money, you say that your family's family situation is not very good, why do you have to burden your parents, physics is not difficult at all and you have to go to tutoring, you want to have a new starting point in the new semester, in fact, it is not difficult at all, you only need to borrow books for the next semester to study and research, people who really have a heart can understand, my classmates around me are all high school people, they are all as self-motivated as you, but their only thing is different from you, Borrow books by yourself, study the knowledge you will learn by yourself, I believe you know that the knowledge of high school will be difficult, want to learn, not necessarily spend a lot of money through cram school, your parents must be very difficult to earn money, you must not feel this feeling, I took my parents' money to tutor during the period when I felt guilty and guilty, it is really not easy for parents to earn money, child, listen to my words, you can save a little, physics is very simple, you can preview the book yourself, In the next semester, when the teacher talks about it, you will definitely be able to learn well, if you want to learn physics well in advance, you can study the book thoroughly by yourself, and people who really love to learn can do whatever it is!

If you really want to learn, you can borrow books to learn by yourself, there is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people, many of my knowledge and skills are self-taught.