I d like to ask a few whys. Ask a few more whys

1.When others are happy, they get bored because the thing that makes them happy has nothing to do with you, and this is caused by a lack of team awareness.

2.Being afraid to meet your relatives and former classmates because you don't know what to do with them, what questions they will ask you and how to greet them is a sign of mild inferiority.

3.You don't look for old classmates and don't want to practice old classmates because your heart is stronger, and you have a kind of arrogance in your heart from time to time, and you feel that practicing with them is useless.

4.The lack of topics and embarrassment are also due to too much self-expression. I always feel like others are watching me and I'm afraid I'm going to be cold.

The latter is probably the same as the previous one, in fact, this is a common problem of only children in today's society. will have a self-mentality and do not know how to get along with others, it is recommended to participate in more social activities, do not freeze yourself. I'm tired of my phone, I hope it can help you.

I used to have the same mentality as you, always when there are many friends, they (they) are very happy to chat, I always want to let them (her) find themselves when they are silent, become their (her) focus, but often it backfires, they (she) will always ignore you, and you yourself will sulk on the side, and then feel bored.

If you meet relatives and friends who are the same as what I have met, they live better than you, have a wider social relationship than you, and talk with them and they are always talking about people or things they don't know.

It's not that you really lack topics, it's just that you haven't met a spiritual friend who can make you talk about everything, and if you do, you'll find that you have this endless topic.

Let's not talk about a person who doesn't want to do anything, why do you want someone to accompany you in everything. If you want someone to accompany you, you are too dependent on someone, we are not small, in fact, it is time to try to be independent, although a person will be lonely, but you can also do what you want to do, try to make yourself more mature and independent.

This is the selfish psychology of many people, and it is not only you who think this way. You always want others to pay more attention to yourself, in fact, if you try to pay attention to others, you will find that others will actually pay more attention to you.

You should prefer to be alone, right? I used to be like that, but then I've changed a lot. What you care about should be the process of doing it yourself, don't care too much about other people's opinions, opinions, just be yourself, well, try to change slowly.

My body is not very strong, I like a very remote thing, and my family cares too much {good fortune}

Reading "The Noble People in Life", from the three teachers told by Mr. Wei Zhizhong, I saw the compassion of the teacher, the selfless dedication of the teacher, and the achievement of others.

Threesome, there must be my teacher, choose the good ones and follow them, and change the bad ones. "In addition to the teachers who teach us knowledge and skills, there are also many teachers in life who teach us skills and how to behave in the world. Everyone has strengths and something to learn from.

With the rapid development of the Internet, the era of "everyone is a teacher" has come. As long as you have the knowledge and ability, you can become a teacher even if you are only three years old.

There was a sentence in the morning meeting that made me feel a lot: "It is happy to meet an excellent teacher in life, and if you can't, it is also lucky to meet a qualified teacher." "Yes, there are not so many excellent teachers after all, but there should be many qualified teachers. As long as we are more responsible, more loving and patient, everyone will become a qualified teacher.

Then keep improving, continue to improve yourself, and become an excellent teacher is actually just around the corner.

We are teachers, what do we bring to our children? What do words and actions affect children? What did the children learn with us?

These are all questions that we need to think about. It is better to teach a fish than to teach a fish, how to teach? What to teach?

How to teach? Ask yourself a few more reasons every day, and reflect on the strengths and weaknesses of education and classroom management, and you will naturally grow faster.

May you and I be treated gently by life!

Why do you do these things? What's the value?

If we have to get to the bottom of everything, then it is estimated that our minds are full of question marks, and this kind of life is also boring.

Although people are rational and can control their own behavior. But after all, a human being is not a machine, and when he receives instructions, he can carry them out.

A lot of what we do doesn't have a concrete meaning.

Even if they know that it is harmful, such as smoking, it is harmful to their health, but many people smoke it correctly.

The above is the point of view that I insist on, and I always feel that people can't be too rigid in life, and they can't pay attention to utility in everything.

So, I still haven't done anything big.

People who are strict with themselves are different, they don't say things that don't hurt, they don't make friends with people, they don't do things that are not clear, they know very well why they do this thing, why they don't do that.

If you are not satisfied with your current situation, should you ask a few more whys? Although, the results can be dismal. Not hungry.

But facing up to the problem is the premise of solving the problem.

And once the problem is solved, our prospects will definitely get better and better.

Today, I read Cheng Jia's "Study Well", talking about a commonly used critical knowledge, and it is also a sharp tool for thinking - ** thinking circle.

**The circle of thinking is often said to be the 2w1h of the shirt, now let's explain it with 2w1h!

What: What is a circle of mind?

The author points out that it is our way of knowing the world. It is divided into three levels:

The first level is the what level, that is, the appearance of things, everything we do specifically;

The second level is the how level, which is how we achieve what we want to do.

The third level is the why level, which is why we do such things.

Why: Why use ** Thinking Circle?

How: How can I better apply the ** circle of thought?

Practice deliberately. Whether it's communicating with people, reading and learning, or parent-child education, you can try to use it.

For example, I read "The Happy Prince" with my daughter before bedtime, and after reading it, I reviewed it with her

What: What is the book about?

Why: Why did the little swallow fall asleep?。。 Why did the prince give all his belongings to the poor?

Beginning with the end in mind, I asked my daughters one by one.

HOW: So what kind of person do you think the prince is? What can we learn from?

After such an interaction, I can see whether my daughter has listened carefully in the process, whether she understands the call of the mausoleum, and whether she has gained something after understanding.

However, I also suddenly discovered my own problem, I always ask what others ask, but rarely ask what I ask.

At work, when I develop the communication skills with customers, I constantly ask why, in order to better understand the customer's innovation motivation and principle;

In life, sometimes asking a little more why, it can seem aggressive.

The point is, I always ask others why, waiting for others to give me answers, and I rarely ask myself what to ask, so I lack thinking a lot of the time, especially deep thinking. Even with diligence to cover up the laziness of thinking.

Use the spirit of asking others why they want to get to the bottom of it, and deliberately practice your thinking skills!