Only if you are not doing well now, will you miss the past?

It's not that it's just that it's not good now, but that we all have to look forward and miss the situation we used to have with you. Reminisce once in a while.

Some people say that only people who are having a bad time now like to reminisce.

I used to agree with this sentence, and I think it was, because I was not doing well at that time, I didn't know the direction of the future, I didn't know how to choose, no one could answer the confusion and confusion, no one was responsible for me, and I couldn't be responsible for others. So I often recall things during school, I feel that the feelings of the student number are innocent, not mixed with too many interests, there are arranged things in the school, you should go to class, you should write homework, you should play when you should play, but now in the society, the work is a relationship at every turn, no one will kindly call you if you don't understand things, and you don't know where to start, then I understand what the teacher said - no one is responsible for you after entering the society, you should first cherish the present time.

After going through that time of confusion and confusion, I have a new perspective on this sentence, and I think I don't agree with this sentence, because we pursue memories, in fact, we want to find our once innocent selves and former close partners. Being crushed by the society round after round, the company's exploitation over and over again, the suppression of the predecessors again and again, after crawling and rolling, we have long lost the appearance of the past, only the incoherent memory of the smile we once left, just like Iron Man, even if it is so powerful, but I can never see his smile in the first part again, the more experienced, the more burdens the corners of the smile's mouth are full of.

Memories have become the anchor for us to maintain our original intention, anchoring us not to lose the most essential and principled things, otherwise you will not be you at all.

And now, I have a new layer of understanding, I don't approve but I don't disagree. Memories are a part of life for us, there are Paul Kochagin who said that he will not be ashamed of doing nothing when he recalls his life, and Zhang Xiaoxian said that life without memories is inevitably a little pale, and Zhang Ailing also said that if you know me in the past, then you will forgive me now. It can be seen that memories are a part of people and life.

No matter whether this memory is good or bad, the good can make you nostalgic, the bad can make you awake, the dark will make you afraid, the bright will make you warm, and your tangible body is the carrier of the memories of the five elements.

With people as a mirror, you can see the gains and losses. The "person" here, as a reference, is the influence of this "person" in your memories, and countless memories make up the "person" you use as a mirror, so you can compare and reference.

Therefore, people who are not good now like to recall, this point of view is right, because they are not good, so they want to miss the past, and the beauty of the past is still good, and the beauty in the memory is compared with the frustration of the present, which can indeed make people cry; And then what's wrong is that even if it's not good now, our memories are actually just to make ourselves understand that whether we have lived well or not will become memories, and it is the right thing to let ourselves grow.

Therefore, we will recall whether we have lived well or badly, because we recall the past to anchor ourselves, and even if we go farther, we will understand the starting point.

I don't think it's because I'm having a bad time now, so I always miss the past. I think people will like to miss the past, whether it is in the good stage or the bad stage, if the present is good, in fact, they will recall the hard days before, remember the bitter and sweet, and let themselves cherish the happy life now. So in fact, it's not that if it's not good, you'll miss the past, and if you're doing well, you'll want to miss the past, but this nostalgia is more of a happy smile.

Sometimes nostalgia is the result of an automatic filter in the mind. Sometimes the past is a kind of strength that has been supporting us to move forward, he may be sweet memories, or it may be bad memories, but it is precisely because of those pasts that I have the present, but most people miss the past, and will always miss those good days. Maybe those good days are in stark contrast to the momentary sadness now, so it makes people feel that they are having a bad time now, and they were so happy before.

There is a filter function in our minds, which automatically filters out the past, those unpleasant things, and then deepens it repeatedly through the filter of recollection, putting the good picture in our minds.

Nostalgia for the past is a feeling. Sometimes the feeling of nostalgia comes up suddenly, not because the present is not good, it may be to see things and think about people, see a thing, remember some people and things in the past, thus evoking the memory of the past period of time, it is possible to see a landscape that touches a soft point in the heart, and recalls the past. These diseases are not because of a bad life, but because of the softness of the heart, I think everyone is soft, there is a point in the heart that will be touched, but that point is touched, we will have tears in our eyes, we will have thoughts surging, we will unconsciously think of the past.

Sometimes I feel that I am addicted to the past, too pessimistic, and can't find an outlet, but I think it's good to look at it rationally, everyone will have a time period of nostalgia for the past, give yourself a time period to miss the past, in fact, give yourself a time to relax.

Not really. It's like the days of the past are much better than when I was a child, but I still miss the time when I was young, and that's because the life I had when I was a child was carefree, and it was a pure happiness.

It's not that people are having a bad time now that they will always miss the past. There were a lot of bad things in the past, but as time passed, people forgot about the bad ones and only remembered the good ones, so they will always miss the past.

There is a kind of person who is indeed nostalgic for the past and remembers the past because of his bad life, and there is another kind of person who will miss the past because of his true feelings.

We are all nostalgic for the past, we only know how to cherish after loss, some people or things have long been gone, but we will still remember the years we once had, it will be a joy, it will be a regret ......Our young years have left too much happiness and pain, after these years maybe we are no longer in touch, maybe we have forgotten each other, the figure that was once together has long been forgotten, and that relationship has also faded with time, in fact, it is not that we deliberately forget each other, forget everything we once had, but life is too realistic, no one can do anything: in fact, we are very concerned in our hearts, that trace of touch, that warm smile, that moving eyes, we all remember, remember all the warmth, It's just that we can no longer afford to go back to the past, back to that innocent time, nostalgia for the past will only make us more depressed and helpless, it will give us a heartache feeling, no matter how beautiful the past is, it is the past after all. Every time we miss it, it will make our hearts ache once, why didn't we cherish the time together, because we were really happy, and that feeling was really missed!

Maybe we know how to cherish some people or things after they are lost, maybe when we have them, we think that they will always be ours, but at a moment of turning, what belongs to us is no longer there, leaving only regret and pain. Now I really regret the stupid things I have done, but no one can change the reality, and the past is finally over. Life still has to go on, we still have to grow up, the people who leave hope that you can be happy, don't miss the past anymore, your heart will hurt, don't torture yourself anymore, let all the good pain be buried!

I remember the mountain alliance and sea vow, saying that we will always be friends forever, and we will grow old together, but we still leave each other, start a new life and a new environment, meet new friends, sometimes to recall the past, sometimes not to remember, it seems that there will be some heartache, as if the things in the memory are beautiful, but why are the eyes always moist? Why is my heart a little cold, or I miss my former friends late every night, I don't know where they are, how are they doing? Will you remember me?

Do you still miss the past?

I don't even know what I've been saying all the time? Is it nostalgia for the past or not for it? It seems to be really distressing, I am a person who is easy to miss, I will always live in memories, remember all the things that have happened, the beautiful and painful, in fact, have passed, maybe they still remember me, and they are also missing me, but the reality is impossible, who and who will always be together forever, people always have to leave, parting will always hurt, but we always have to live, life is like this, so learn to adapt to all these arrangements.

There is nothing wrong with nostalgia, and only when you know how to remember the past will you cherish the present.

It makes sense, the reason why I miss it is that I can only say that I am not very happy now, not necessarily I was good before, but it should be even worse now.

Yes, in addition. Old nostalgia used to be called nostalgia, indicating that you are old.