I didn t accept it, I didn t say yes, I didn t admit it, and you just felt good about yourself all t

It seems that the other party completely denies your feelings, it's just your wishful thinking, the other party should be angry with you when he says this, deliberately saying some cruel words, it seems that you have to give the other party more care to be able to save your relationship.

Sometimes, silence leads to misunderstanding. If there is something to discuss, everyone will say it.

To do things, you have to be clear and decisive, procrastination will become painful.

Not necessarily, because you don't give exactly, so make others feel good about themselves.

You didn't accept it, you didn't agree, and you didn't admit that he felt good about himself all the time, which means that his mentality is still relatively good, and although you can't get him, you may still feel like you got it.

But you didn't say no! Prove that he still has hope, so he feels good about himself.

Then you make it clear, it's not good to misunderstand people like this, it's better to make it clear as soon as possible, after all, it's not a bad thing to be liked!

Then you make your attitude clear to him, don't make people feel that you are a little bit of something for him, since you don't like it, make it clear and don't let him misunderstand you.

I didn't accept it, I didn't agree, I didn't admit it, you just stayed there and felt good about yourself, in fact, if this person is really so narcissistic, you can ignore him at all and let him continue to be good himself.

Is he serious when he confesses to you? If yes, it can't be a joke.

Don't accept or refuse, continue to keep in touch, this is just the right time for both parties to think twice, you can get to know each other according to your own selection criteria, and see if you should accept it.

If he officially confesses to you for the second time, don't miss the opportunity.

If you like it, you will be happy together. Love, love vigorously.

Ask him frankly, this is the most direct way. If you don't know whether to refuse or not, just like before, be friends, but by the way, the longer you delay, the deeper the hurt. [I'm sorry that what I said may hurt you to some extent.] 】

The ego is something that no one needs to judge me.

In fact, it's a gem of its own, and it's good to put it there. Others say hello, say you're a genius, forget about him. Don't say you're rotten, Adou who can't be helped, forget him.

You are you, you have to know what you really care about, what you are after.

When a man has pursuits, he lacks nothing.

This is the ego.

Dignity is an excuse for something that is difficult for you to accept.

Stupid, if you don't refuse, you just acquiesce. You're welcome.

Explain that she is waiting for you to attack further.

Show her your heart many times

And you have to ask her what she thinks

I'm a guy I liked a girl She also said she liked me But I haven't chased it I hope you don't have to work hard like me In fact, she is hesitant Maybe she still has someone she likes Now hesitating Whether to choose you Come on Don't let yourself regret Actually, I regret it now I think of the past when I see your question Hehe, I support you to chase Wish: early success.

Does the girl you're talking about have a boyfriend? Maybe she's hesitant to accept you herself.

Then you'll have to hurry up and get things done.

1 How can you just make your chat history public?

2 A girl's mind is not always so difficult to guess. If she really likes you, she will try her best to get close to you, talk to you, make trouble with you when she has nothing to do, and want to be with you. Otherwise, no amount of language will be pale.

3 I have already made it clear to you that I don't like you, I didn't reject you so completely, I just want to save you some face. If she really admires materialism, someone more handsome and richer than you will appear and dump you. When the time comes, will you be sad and sad?

4 Let go before it's too late, there will definitely be the girl who appreciates you waiting for you!

After reading it, I felt a little speechless.

I think that at first, the woman may have some mystery and interest in you, but at that time your steps were not on the same front, you were always one step away, and I thought that the woman must have looked forward to between you, but later on, you had no inner meaning, so I gave up, and when he had a new lover, I was still unwilling to want to know if you were interested in him, and see if you felt right, and then you said what you wanted, but he couldn't step on two boats, he could only go into this side In this way, the chance of you being rejected increases, and if there is fate, it will still come back to you.

What you can do now I think is to work hard.

Although money is not everything, but in this real society, it is really not possible to do without money, if you really love her, except for love, you have to be able to meet his basic material needs, although it sounds pedantic, but material things make people happy.

It's like having feelings and no money, maybe after living together for a long time, because of a series of different values, there will be disagreements, there will be quarrels.

If it is the other way around, it is very bland, but the material life of the two people is very happy, and the relationship will naturally be cultivated, of course, what I am talking about is not absolute.

I hope you have a happy life.

Sometimes you don't lose your attachment to things when you look forward and walk forward, because sometimes the tighter you and me, the faster it passes.

Now that you are developing well, and your level has improved, people will naturally come to you in the real society. It's true that it's hard to go on together with feelings alone.

Because love can make two people struggle and fulfillment, but after a long time, each other is tired, but it can't make the two of them happy.

First of all, I want to tell you: it is immoral to publish Q chat history without the permission of the other party. will be banned and fined.

For your question, please refer to:"Eleven years"

I have traveled eleven years later, approached you, but could not enter your life. I hope you travel back eleven years ago, get close to me at that time, and come into my life.

Forget it, buddy, find a down-to-earth one, and it will definitely be ...... run with people in the future

Oh, my God... What a cumbersome QQ conversation, don't you have a brain? Won't you analyze it yourself?!

Speechless...

I'm a girl. My understanding is that maybe this girl likes you, but it's a thing of the past. Because you didn't take the chance. Missed it, and now it doesn't make any sense to ask if you like it or not.

You're very dedicated to people, but if you don't do the right thing at the right time, you can't blame anyone else. Love her, why get her? You can wish her happiness too!

People's hearts are too crowded, if he is happy, if he talks and laughs every day, then you will also be happy, truly love someone, not necessarily get, learn to let go, can't hold the sand, it's better to raise it!

There should be a little bit of a miss, but it won't be long, because there has never been a place for you in his heart, so you should be determined and leave completely.

Yes, maybe he once liked you, but you didn't say it, he gradually thought that he didn't have a chance, he gave up, maybe looking for a girlfriend was just a test of you, if that was the memory of love, or maybe he really didn't like you, and he remembered that you were just that kind of good friend or sub-family affection

He will. I liked someone for 10 years, and in those 10 years, he fell in love twice, both of which were marriages. I encouraged him no matter what setbacks he encountered, we lived in two cities, we saw each other less than 10 times in 10 years, but we kept in touch with him and stayed with him like his relatives.

My love for him was giving, and in the end he still knew that I was good to him, and he came back to me, and we were together like this, married, and now I am more than 6 months pregnant. Love is like that. It also gives sex, gets sex, and has a comprehensive type.

Your love for him belongs to giving, and giving love is too difficult, but a person grows up slowly in order to protect his love, slowly matures, and in the end, he may not get the person he loves. But the love that belongs to you starts out perfectly, because you have learned what love is and what it is to give.

Yes, because after all, after three years of getting along day and night, the girl has already had an indelible place in the boy's heart, and it is impossible to say that she doesn't miss it.

When he is not happy, he will remember you. Now that he doesn't have you in his heart, don't be sad about him anymore.

How can I answer! If it were me, I would have left, I had been holding on for so long, and I would have given up, and second, even if I left, it wasn't a matter of missing it, it was painful, and third, I felt that what I had done before was meaningless, and I felt ridiculous, and I laughed at myself.

I think of you when I want to share something with you, and I may have regarded you as a brother for many years.

If you like it, why don't you confess it? What do you think about when someone else has a girlfriend?

Yes, people have feelings, and if he has a conscience, he will treat you as his best friend

Maybe, maybe not. If he has a feeling of love for you, he will miss you.

No. People in love are in a honey pot entirely, who cares about you.

It should be, whether it's love or not depends on your relationship.

Definitely, will definitely miss you as a little henchman.

Definitely, it's human nature.

Yes, three years of relationship is not something that can be forgotten all at once.

Yes, but not love, just nostalgia between friends.

Affection for your brother and sister, but you will be a good person and happy.

No, you have yourself in his heart, and you have no status.

Whether it's emotions or something else, everyone has their own preferences and cognitive opinions, and this is something that others can't impose, just like a piece of clothing if she doesn't like it, no matter how delicate and expensive it is, it can't change the fact that she doesn't like it, it's not that she doesn't know how good it is, but it's not suitable for her, so you can't force it, since it can't be changed, then let it go with the flow, don't cling to anything, learn to let go, know how to give up!

Since you don't recognize it, no matter how much you do, it's a waste of effort. Unless you think your attachment can impress the other person.

Perhaps, everything, any factor, depends on it.

If you don't feel it, see if there's any.

That love.

It may be that the attributes of the five elements are repulsive, jump over bravely, don't waste time.

No one is born insecure, and every insecure person is a person with a sad story, because of the sad experience in the past, he lost faith in a certain thing, and as a result, the sense of security is gone.

The lack of security also has its individual differences, because everyone's life experience is different, and their hearts need to be filled with something that is emptyThere is no one-size-fits-all antidote to everyone's insecurity, so the first thing you should do is to find out the demon in your heart that you feel insecure and beat to death.

Taking my personal experience as an analysis, the factor that makes me insecure for me is the uncertainty of the future, I am in an awkward stage of life, people are middle-aged, old and young, if the God of Wealth suddenly appears, he solves all the material needs of my future life, after a thousand thanks, I will feel a strong sense of security, and I also firmly believe in one point,Material satisfaction can solve most of the insecurity

But emotional security can not be obtained by material things, first to draw a big pie for yourself, first of all, you should choose to believe that the future is worth looking forward to, there will always be someone to fill the emptiness and loneliness in your heart, everything is settled, you have a warm family, there is a harbor for you to shelter from the wind and rain, at that time I believe that the insecurity will disappear.

I think this kind of person who has insecurity, and at the same time is a person who has no hope, his future may be confused, so please be a positive person, keep yourself busy, when you can see a colorful world in your eyes, that kind of insecurity has nowhere to hide in your heart.

Many people in modern society are insecure.

This is anxiety caused by stress, and many people explain that it is necessary to have a financial foundation for wealth, to have foresight, to have a good network of relationships, and so on. It's really ridiculous, often the person who says these things is already insecure in his own heart, so he will put forward a lot of requests and strange opinions to others.

In fact, a sense of security comes only from your own heart, and only inner abundance and strength can have a sense of security, not everything that can be given by external things.

It is not uncommon for wealthy businessmen and tycoons to go bankrupt overnight and have nothing.

Today's love and the Ming Dynasty broke up like the sand of the Ganges.

Today's health and tomorrow's terminally ill are even more numerous.

In the Ahama Sutra, impermanence, suffering, emptiness, and non-self are often talked about together, and sometimes it is said that "impermanence is suffering, and suffering is not self". Why does impermanence have to suffer? In fact, it's not necessarily bitter, but if you treat it as me or me, you will feel bitter.

A sense of security is suffering, and it is precisely because of the impermanence of the world that we will be constantly anxious. Many patients have been paying attention to the darkness of the heart of the flower, but unlike normal people, they are not concerned about the ray of sunlight passing through the petals.

Only when you see and understand clearly will you let go and understand. No matter which of the books of Buddhism, Taoism, Dharma, and Confucianism expounds the same truth, read and think about it more, and you will not feel insecure after putting it down.