My boyfriend and I are separated from each other in two cities, and my boyfriend and I work in two c

Updated on psychology 2024-06-19
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think he really wanted you to cry, because I left Zhengzhou to go to Guizhou and also wanted my friend to cry, but she didn't, and she was still very calm, but I know that it may be out of different considerations, because your crying will make him feel uneasy. Isn't it? Who wants to leave their woman without worry, so the consideration is different, the choice of action is also different, and we should consider it from a different perspective.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hehe, everyone has their own way of expressing love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    。People don't feel the same way.

    Some will hide him in their hearts.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My girlfriend and I feel the same way, we are happy when we are together, miss when we are separated, we never feel that there is any big problem, and we spend much more time apart than we spend together. Maybe it's because we're used to it, because we know that we have to separate for our respective studies (graduate school) now, but eventually we will come back together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Me and my boyfriend too

    I didn't cry either, he knew I loved him very much

    So, we've been waiting and delivering on a promise of love

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That's because you don't depend on him! I'm in this state now, when he left, I cried for 1 week, and it took 2 months to return to normal life, because we lived together in a city, and we were used to it, and suddenly there was no one around me, and my heart was empty.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't wait, believe me, distance produces beauty.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello, if you don't work in the same city as your boyfriend, you can't be separated, love must insist on being separated for a period of time, and then find a way to develop in a city, and the love will continue to be a happy marriage.

    Whether to continue to go on is related to your attitude towards this relationship, if you really give your feelings, how can you be willing to let go easily, the relationship between two people is deep enough, and distance is really not a problem.

    First, how to keep the relationship fresh in a long-distance relationship.

    Everyone's fear of long-distance relationships is nothing more than that they can't see each other often because of distance, and they are afraid that the relationship will become weaker and weaker. I think that as long as both parties keep their relationship fresh enough, the two of them will definitely go on until they get married and have children.

    So how do you do that? Two people can plan for the future, such as setting a goal, both parties promise to meet every once in a while, no matter how busy they are, they will get married in a few years after their jobs are stable, and they often look forward to their married life when chatting, and the two of them work together for this goal.

    Second, trust each other and don't have suspicions.

    Long-distance relationships are sometimes cranky because the other party does not pick up their ** in time and reply to their own messages. Especially girls, who are more delicate and think more. To give each other enough trust, trust is also the basis of feelings, always believe that the hearts of both parties are together.

    Good luck. <>

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1.Whether the long-distance relationship can go to the end mainly depends on the determination of both parties, as long as the three views are in line with the same goal, and both parties love each other deeply, I believe that if you persist, you will definitely be able to go to the day of sunset.

    2.Two people must only have each other in their eyes, share the joys, sorrows and sorrows of life every day, share happy things when they encounter happy things, encourage each other when they encounter setbacks, and do what they decide to do, don't give up.

    3.We all know that long-distance relationships are difficult and painful, but if you can survive long-distance relationships, let's get married! The difficulty of a long-distance relationship is that it cannot be seen clearly, it cannot be touched, it cannot be helped, and it is difficult to endure if it is difficult to get married.

    4.The most important point of a long-distance relationship is trust, because some things in a long-distance relationship are easy to hide, if you really want to be together, open your heart and don't have anything to hide, trust each other, don't have misunderstandings, whether it's true for a long time, you can naturally feel it, for example, you want to know the other party's life and death, and don't easily say that you break up.

    5.Boys must not give up love because of lack of money, some boys think that long-distance relationships can not do anything except send things, only send things to gain the favor of the other party, things are not not can not be sent to the person who loves you as long as you have a heart, so a long-distance relationship with more money and less money can not determine anything, as long as both parties work together to be self-motivated in this era, money is indispensable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After graduation, I worked in two cities with my boyfriend, which was not a reason to break up. Long-distance relationships are the hardest of all loves, but they still happen every day, especially during graduation season. So how to maintain a long-distance relationship that is difficult to maintain?

    What are the tips for running a long-distance relationship? Why does communicating a long-distance relationship work out of the equation? Why did it end up with a breakup?

    The biggest reason is communication, two people are in two places, it is difficult to have intimate communication. Look at the couples around us, which one is not tired of being together after work? Even when they are at work, they will send each other a WeChat chat for a while.

    It is important for two people to trust. The biggest threat to long-distance relationships is distrust, and the biggest root between people is trust. Originally, the two of them were very good, and they communicated as usual every day, sharing the things and things around them.

    But because of your suspicion, your relationship has also gone to the wrong result.

    And in our lives, there are too many long-distance couples who break up because of trust. So, if you are in a long-distance relationship, please put away your doubts and believe them since you love them.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Long-distance relationships are a very difficult gap in the eyes of lovers, but in fact, the main problem is a sense of crisis and insecurity that cannot be close to each other to get feedback. Plus when you're lonely, when you're hurt, and so on... will have scars on feelings and doubts about the union with each other.

    So how do you fix it?

    1: Maintain a positive connection. Don't get tired, don't be cold, communicate normally, find balance.

    Because they are not together, you don't know if he is busy, so don't play too hard, it is easy to cause a sense of burden; Don't be cold, as you will be suspected of empathy and other negative emotions.

    2: Create conditions to meet. If there are conditions, you have to meet, and if you don't have conditions, you have to meet!

    The hidden dangers mentioned above are unavoidable, so we need to try our best to minimize the impact. All kinds of surprises and unexpected encounters will make each other's hearts bloom and their feelings deepen.

    3: Communicate correctly. Don't be suspicious, don't be suspicious, don't be suspicious.

    Say the important thing three times! Suspicion of distrust breaks down at an accelerated rate and can cause a lot of mental stress (to each other), so don't be suspicious when communicating. Give each other more good memories and thoughts, do your best, the other party will naturally not empathize with other love, take 10,000 steps back and say, do your best, the other party empathizes, and you will not blame yourself, so Baili is harmless.

    4: Try to keep the time you don't spend together. Two people fall in love, although there will be various reasons to scatter the two places, but we have to create all kinds of conditions to get together, some sacrifices and accommodations are inevitable, feelings are like this, it is impossible to be so perfect in the right place at the right time and the right person together.

    If these conditions are not met, you need to create them yourself, after all, it is your own feelings, a lifelong thing.

    Okay, that's all there is to it, the feelings are too complicated to cover all possible situations, but these will help you, I wish you happiness.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Long-distance relationships are indeed prone to problems.

    It is recommended that you contact each other on a daily basis. You meet once every two weeks or once a month.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Rest assured, there will definitely be problems!

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