How can I make my self righteous mom understand my shortcomings?

It's okay, she's your mother, just bear with it, I really can't do it, I don't know what you think: it's you and your dad leaving home.

For a month or two, ignore your mother. Hehe, it's a demonstration, of course pull, this is the next policy, don't use it if you don't really work.

Is this choosing a daughter-in-law or a nanny... What my mother said should be an opinion, how can there be a perfect person, who can go up to the hall and down to the kitchen... It's helpless...

Give her a certain son is a brother, it's very simple.

Don't rush, take your time, she will be more anxious than you then.

I don't know my mother, I don't know my mother, sometimes she will talk back, she doesn't really mean to communicate with you. So you don't know what's right and what's wrong? If you don't do what she wants, she will copy it from you, because she never really communicates with you, and that's mom!!

All I knew was that my mother didn't want me to know her suffering, and I didn't know that.

We may be a kind of mother, right?,Every time I never heard my explanation,,Sometimes it's her fault, I'm stubborn in my temper, I just want to give myself an innocence, so I've been reasoning with her.,When people are always impatient, I quarreled with my mother.,,At that time, my emotions really exploded.,Obviously it's her fault, she really picked up something and hit me? I shouted at her; It's not my fault that you're fighting, and I firmly don't admit it. Let her beat me.

From that day on, I continued to do what I was supposed to do, but I never said a complete sentence to her, and I summed it up in a few words at a time. I'm still optimistic about others.

I really hate it.,Never really encouraged me.,Even if it's encouraged, it's fake.,It's very uncomfortable to watch!

When I was a child, I liked my mother very much, and I thought she was very wise and gentle, and her body was also fragrant. But now I really feel that she is hopeless, that the conversation with her is not nutritious, that she never accepts my opinion, and that her last sentence is always anyway....That's it! I think she's disrespectful to me, and that's not something that would be allowed to give birth to me, is it?

And now she often doesn't brush her teeth and yawns and doesn't cover her mouth, I'm disappointed in her....

Always wronged the child, after six said that he was wrong, how to do it, so hypocritical!! Always think you're right: I think that's what you did, "you're just looking at your phone; You're just playing!!

Speechless... Tired.

Yes, you are the same as me, I think my mother spills her emotions on me every day, snores at me, I hate her very much, I think she is hypocritical, she has no feelings for me, and occasionally she says something to me that I feel fake, disgusting, fake. She seems to think that I can't do without her, and thinks that my kindness to her is a matter of course, and she has not cared about me since she was a child.

I also hate my mother more and more, pretending to say that I am good in front of me, and saying that I am not good behind my back, and I don't care about me all day long, I know that I eat, drink and have fun, like a spirit.

Haha, my mom is like this, she always thinks she's right, it's probably because you were brought up by your grandparents since you were a child, and your parents don't have time to care about you, or your mom is the kind of person who is very stinky or plays with computers all day long.

Well, I've seen that, but whoever it is, but I can't tell why!

My mom was also very annoying, and she was there every day with a sick brain.

Because you know he doesn't love you and doesn't understand you, that's why you're like that.

Born in which family is destined, whether you like your mother or not, she is destined to be your mother, no matter what her character is, he is also your mother.

Normal psychological phenomena. Try to suppress yourself, and don't get into excessive verbal and physical conflicts. Time will figure this out.

This is a dangerous sign, and youthful rebellion is understandable, but it certainly won't end well if you go too far.

How can you think of your own mother like that, she didn't make you hate her by giving birth to you.

You're just too much like your mother in every way, it's okay, you're going to be here for answers that you still want to be reconciled with your mother, and that you still love her.

I gave birth to you once when I was wrong, how could I have you without her, it's not easy to grow up, understand.

The performance of the rebellious period, I learned to appreciate.

That's how I feel, every day. Very speechless ==......

Ahh

You tell your mother that you feel like a puppet now, how do you live a life of eating and sleeping? Such a life is to wait for death! I don't have a soul of my own!!

I don't have any feelings of my own!! I don't even know what I'm living for!! It feels like a puppet!!

You have to be helped with everything!! I'm a puppet.

Every mother is very concerned about her child, your mother is just more serious, don't pay too much attention to your own pressure. My way of resisting my mother is to obey on the surface, and then go out of the house and do what I want, after all, life is our own, and no one can be with us forever. You can try my method, but it really doesn't work, so I recommend that you see a psychiatrist.

Personally, I feel that communication is not effective, maybe you listened to her too much when you were a child, and she also wanted you to live your life according to her will, and did not consider your feelings at all. Personally, I feel that you should rebel against your mother. It's up to her to do other things, and if she intervenes in talking to your boyfriend or something like that when you're in love, you should tell your mom that I know about the relationship, and I won't suffer.

You say something that you are very confident in, and you also tell her euphemistically that you don't need to interfere in love. If she still wants to intervene, you argue with her, and my mother will indeed be sad, but I feel that only in this way will my mother realize that there are some things to take care of and some things not to be managed, after all, my daughter is older.

Let's think for ourselves. You should talk to your mom about how you are feeling right now.

Find out what you don't want and what your mom wants you to be.

It may not be clear to say this. In general, this is the problem that you have to solve with your mother.

Be clear about your feelings.

Show that you have grown up.

I think.. It's best that you and your mom work together to solve the problem.

Because it will let your mom know what you think and feel that you have something to solve with her.

She'll be happy.

Or tell your mom how you feel.

Our suggestion.

It's tricky, motherly love is so great, to this extent, it's hard to accept a little great I believe that it is difficult to reach a consensus on the communication between you and your mother, who is a pure mother and daughter. I feel that I need to use the power of the outside world, I suggest you try to contact the TV station, I have watched the program "Garden of the Soul" before, let them help watch it, it seems to be Shanghai TV.

There are many unimaginable situations like yours in it, and the communication and persuasion skills of the two hosts are still steely.

I hope you will soon gain spiritual "freedom"...Even if it can't be solved well, don't do it, don't commit suicide, life is precious. ）

As a child, I learned to be considerate of my parents, and I learned to listen in terms of communication.

Like my mother, what is the only way to do it, but to endure it

Hello, my mother, there is no need to be too serious, I think mutual understanding and mutual support are the most important things!

Communicate more and consider the problem from the other party's point of view.

Mom often sees your shortcomings because she wants you to correct them, and if you always see your strengths, it will make you proud if you are not careful, so I hope you will understand your mother's good intentions, and in short, your mother must be good for you.

This is because your mother habitually ignores your strengths, and the Chinese are more critical of education than praise. In fact, she knew in her heart that she didn't express it, don't be sad. You have to believe that mothers in the world love their children, and you have to communicate with her, communication can narrow the distance between each other and eliminate barriers.

She just wants to get rid of your shortcomings and make you better and better, parents are like this, don't be sad, it's different if you think differently.

After all, we are not people of the same era, and it is normal to have a generation gap, so be more considerate, we should back down, who makes us owe them.

Your mother must see your goodness, but she doesn't want to express it, she only expresses your shortcomings because she wants you to change your shortcomings, and you must understand your mother.

My mom too! I had a fight with my mom the night before I got married, but after I got married, I realized that no matter how unsatisfactory my mom was, no matter how much she said about you, she still cared about and loved you, didn't she? When you go to someone else's house, you will know that your mother's nagging in the past is actually very warm.

Joke people, not as good as people. Mom may have subconsciously taught you that you don't want to be too conceited. Only praise you, and don't find your shortcomings in what your boyfriend and girlfriend do! ^_

Because you have done something wrong and are unwilling to admit that you are wrong, others say that you are disgusted with the self-righteousness of the dot type, which is a bad habit.

But you know, what your mother says outside is your good, but your mother thinks that when she says you are bad, you will face your own shortcomings correctly, hey...Mom is the person who loves you the most in the world, she will talk about you, she will scold you, but she will always be there for you.

In the eyes of parents, it is the good of other people's children

You start by saying, you're good, adults see things differently than you do, so the results are different.

Anything you do, others look at it a lot, you think too much.

Self-righteous people often feel that they are very good and others are inferior to him, but in fact, they are extremely inferior in their bones, and always like to show themselves to step on other people's rights to satisfy their inner superiority, and the best way to deal with this kind of person is to ignore him, ignore him, and let him have no audience when he performs himself, which is a fatal blow to him.

There are times in life when we can often see a lot of self-righteous people, and these people usually have one characteristic, that is, they feel that they are amazing. In other words, in their opinion, only the people they know are more powerful, and the achievements of others are nothing at all. Even if some people can come up with some proud achievements, they only think that they are very superficial.

But if they are allowed to really show their strength, maybe their strength is not very outstanding. Self-righteous people are never aware of their shortcomings, or even if they are aware of their shortcomings, they never admit them in front of others. Such people are actually the saddest of all, they never know if they can have room for improvement, or they can't see anyone except themselves.

In fact, no one will blindly think that their ability is greater than others, but in the eyes of many people, they just have a kind of blind self-confidence. Maybe they do have something in them that stands out and is incomparable to others, but that doesn't justify their blind confidence.

Such people, they don't actually have any particularly outstanding abilities, just because of some small abilities in front of them, their self-confidence bursts. Such people are actually the saddest, ordinary people may not be able to accept their shortcomings for a while, but they will not be so disgusted by others as they say they are bad.

And some people are aware of their own shortcomings, and will humbly accept the opinions of others to correct them, but self-righteous people will never feel that they have done anything wrong, and in their opinion, nothing is wrong in what they have done. In fact, many times many people lose in self-righteousness, and they often don't realize that they have this shortcoming, because they are already very good in their eyes.

In fact, when we talk about others, we should also pay attention to whether we are such an image in the eyes of others? Sometimes we may not realize it ourselves, but some words and actions that we invisibly say can express this meaning. In our eyes, it may be a very normal word, but in the eyes of others, it may be different, and everyone's feelings are different, so we should keep a low profile as much as possible when talking and doing things.

Especially such self-righteous people, they often don't feel that they are saying something wrong. People like this will never realize their mistakes, so sometimes they feel inexplicable when they see the people around them constantly moving away from them. If you say that you have achieved this level of life, it is probably really too much of a failure.

Wouldn't it be ridiculous if one day, everyone around him started to turn away from him, and he himself didn't know why he thought it might be someone else's fault?

But in any case, we should not be such people, and we should not have such self-righteousness, because once this kind of consciousness is formed, it may have a particularly negative impact on us in the future.