I thought I would really let go when I left

Leaving doesn't mean you can really let go, there are some things that you can't forget for the rest of your life, love is very hurtful, want to open it, or with her is really not as beautiful as you imagined, the pain is only temporary, time can prove everything, maybe there are better and more suitable people waiting for you, want to open it.

Well, if you can't forget, don't force yourself to forget. Because that's proof that you care about him. You can choose to remember! Leaving is not the same as leaving your heart. Either forget about him completely or go back.

Give yourself a chance.

Since you have said it and don't interfere with him, then you will delete all contacts, and so will QQ.

A real departure.

Are you called leaving now?

Go to his space, look at his space.

Called letting go? You're just making yourself remember the existence of others more clearly!

Let's go! For a new life, it is necessary to let the old life pass.

Unless, you still have contact with him, or you just pay lip service.

Actually, you think it's still possible.

It really hurts to look at you! I also know that it is difficult to start a new relationship after love hurts, especially if you are deeply in love with the man who taught you to break your heart! But no matter what, 1 life will go on1 and start a new life!

I don't know what to say to you, because I can't get rid of some things now. But I want to tell you, live well, there are still people in this world who love you.

Dear....I also feel distressed when I see it. Me too.

There is a very popular saying on the Internet: "In real life, there is no sudden love, and all sudden partings have accumulated countless unspeakable grievances." ”

People are not cold for a day, and their feelings are not weak for a day.

The grievances and uneasiness that accumulate over time will one day erupt and become out of control.

And to leave is to allow yourself, to re-examine yourself, to discover your way.

All departures are long-planned self-liberation.

After liberation, I left, not because I didn't love, but because I wanted to open my heart.

There is a saying: "Different circles do not need strong integration; The three views are inconsistent, so there is no need to make do; Strong integration, easy to form hatred; Make do, sooner or later you will become strangers. ”

The so-called "three views" are actually the sum total of life experience and social experience.

Different life experiences make everyone have different perspectives on different things.

If you meet someone who disagrees, stop making do and leave in time, which is the best outcome for both parties.

In the TV series "Thirty Only", Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan are a couple with different opinions.

In the pursuit of life, Gu Jia is a person who pursues the best in everything and is constantly striving for better.

Her children want to go to the best kindergarten in town; The house she lives in should be replaced with a large duplex on the top floor; Her life should be refined and elegant.

Her husband, Xu Huanshan, is different. What he pursues is his own artistic design, which can be appreciated and recognized by others. He believes that it is enough for a child to attend a similar kindergarten, and housing is enough.

In terms of investment philosophy, when Xu Huanshan was a designer, Gu Jia encouraged Xu Huanshan to set up a separate company.

However, Xu Huanshan didn't want to be the boss in essence, and he didn't want to toss. He thinks that when he is a designer and someone can appreciate his designs, he will be satisfied.

Because they always disagreed and often contradicted, their marriage ended up as expected.

Tu Lei said. Between two people, if the three views do not agree and it is difficult to reconcile, they will never live happily together.

The most helpless thing between people is to live with people who can't understand each other.

Even if the relationship between the two parties is deep, they will only drift apart and go the opposite way in the incomprehension.

Life is in the world, but for a short moment, instead of torturing each other with people who don't agree, it is better to find someone who is in step with you and accompany you to old age.

As the saying goes: "If a person is a guest who values feelings, he will cross the river and tear down the bridge to say cool things." ”

To be a man is to be a person who values love and righteousness and knows how to repay kindness.

And those who crossed the river and demolished the bridge were not only cold-hearted, but also cut off their own way.

Weibo Big V Burn Superman once shared such a news:

A patient is done at the county hospital.

Retract dependent lyrics: Zhang Muyi.

Always keep yourself busy.

Has it been reluctantly.

Your care is always pretend.

It ended lightly.

Do I still have something to rely on?

No matter how many reasons, it's the same.

But you always say I'm stubborn.

My complaints can only be hidden in my heart.

You remove your shoulders.

The moving words turned out to be lying.

You shouted the sound of love and picked up the Kaile box on the boring fast.

It was placed in the cloister that had been pulled.

Use the reading you gave.

It hurts me and the emotion is gone.

Maybe this expectation shouldn't have started in the first place.

It's so easy to get scattered outside of you and me.

Take back my dependence.

Let go of the expectation I try to leave.

No matter how many reasons, it's the same.

But you always say I'm stubborn.

My complaints can only be hidden in my heart.

You remove your shoulders.

The moving words turned out to be lying.

You have bored the ** box of love.

It was placed in the corridor where Zheng Zhao had pulled.

Use the reading you gave.

It hurts me and the emotion is gone.

Maybe this expectation shouldn't have started in the first place.

It's so easy to get scattered outside of you and me.

Take back my dependence.

Let go of the expectation I try to leave.

Hidden helplessness.

Cumulative damage.

Final confession.

But I can't tell.

You have bored the ** box of love.

It was placed in the cloister that had been pulled.

Use the reading you gave.

It hurts me and the emotion is gone.

Maybe this expectation shouldn't have started in the first place.

It's so easy to get scattered outside of you and me.

Take back my dependence.

Let go of the expectation I try to leave.