Why do people always get hurt, and why do I get hurt so easily?

Maybe it's because you care too much.

Cares about everything about him.

His every move will keep you watching.

I would mind it too.

Maybe that's what love is all about.

Mature in constant injuries.

But. That's a lot of things.

I want to open a point. Look at the width point.

Maybe it won't hurt so much.

You might take it for granted.

Don't be sad.

What should come will always come.

Those who should go will go.

It's hurt because you have feelings! If you don't have a little affection, then you will never get hurt! Forever!

In other words, you are easily hurt because you have better feelings than the average person.

How do I feel about being with you for so long!

You will ask "Why do people always get hurt?" "I guess you're a guy who gets hurt all the time! Hehe, please don't mind my bluntness!

In fact, you are lamenting why you are always hurt by others, can you think about the problem from a different angle? Think about it, if the same problem falls on someone else, will others feel hurt and not very sad like you?

Also, do you also think about whether your own ability to withstand pressure and frustration is not enough, or even a little pitiful?

Okay, okay, hehe, you can see this, don't think I'm here to criticize you! I say this because, when I was young, I was also such a person who lacked the courage to face difficulties and setbacks, believe me, think about my words, okay? I hope my heartfelt words can help you a little!

Finally, remember to "laugh at life"!

Because you love him and care about everything about him, you will often shed tears! As long as you keep 30% love yourself, you won't care too much about everything about him, you will care about yourself, and you won't cry easily!

Because people have to be exposed to many things in life, and because people have emotions, this is the only factor.

Because through these can make you grow up How can people not get hurt, if you are injured once, you will mature a little, so life is like this!

Love is a sad fairy tale, anyone who has read it has more or less left regrets, when we read it, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything. It doesn't hurt when we give up someone who loves you very much.

Because we are likely to have a relationship with this person but have no part, and it is painful when we give up someone you love very much.

Because it is very likely that we have a relationship with this person but have no relationship, when we fall in love with someone who does not love you, that is the most painful, because it is very likely that we have no relationship with this person and have no part. If there is fate, time and space are not distances, if there is no fate, even if they get together, they can't understand, you don't have to care too much about everything, and you don't need to force it.

Let everything happen to you.

1. Life is only a hundred years, it is still easier to be a man--- don't be in a hurry, don't be burdened by trivial things, take a step back and open the sky.

3. Be kind to yourself, you will feel more relaxed--- accept yourself, applaud yourself more, learn to rest, and vent the troubles in life.

4. To be a relaxed person, you need to learn to enjoy life, In life, it is inevitable to encounter some unpleasant things, but sometimes you just need to look at the problem from a different angle and face it optimistically, and there will be a scene of "another village" in front of you, which requires discovering and creating the beauty of life and learning to enjoy life.

It is impossible for a person to live a lifetime and never be smooth sailing.

People always grow through setbacks.

Hurt and get up.

Remember today's lesson.

Just don't suffer the same injuries in the future.

That's because people can't let go or look at it.

Person. Wounded.

Isn't that right? People, doctors, are all hurting.

Spent in the middle. How can you be strong without getting hurt.

First of all, you've been hurt. Everyone must have the experience of not being understood and being hurt.

Secondly, a word will hurt you. You are very sensitive and care about what others think, so a simple sentence can make you linger.

Finally, the damage done is continuous. This hides a sense of powerlessness and unforgiveness for that person. It was the man who made you miserable for so long, and he made you stop being brave and become timid. It was he who made you no longer believe in the existence of love and dare not simply give.

But what you see is the real thing? Some people experience the same "misfortune" but can quickly come out and become braver and stronger. With the same injury, why do some people become braver and others more vulnerable? Only Paizhao.

It wasn't the person who said that sentence that hurt you, but the unbraveness that was powerless to protect yourself at that time.

Same "damage", different power.

People have three choices when faced with suffering: fight or flight, which correspond to two primordial energies: yin and yang. When taking damage, choosing how to respond determines the power of the "damage".

Those who choose to flee are using the contraction of negative energy to allow others to "behave" in your world and surrender their own interests. Those who choose to fight are using the expanded masculine energy, they are determined to protect their interests, and they respect and support their feelings.

The reason why we feel hurt in some situations is because of a conflict of beliefs with that person. You have a disagreement, and he expresses it so firmly, that it makes you doubt your beliefs and choices.

The more you believe his views, the more you doubt yourself. You allow thoughts that do not belong to you to exist in your spiritual world and endure the pain of facing it for long periods of time. You can also make different choices, blend the contradictions, or keep your opinion to yourself.

Your inability to understand his point of view will lead to pain, and how you deal with it determines the duration and destructiveness of this injury.

In short, you have to stand firmly behind yourself and express yourself.

1. Lack of understanding. Many people do not have a sufficient understanding of the dangers of injuries, lack the concept of injury prevention, and cannot actively take various preventive measures during training. In particular, some young people lack training experience and are paralyzed and careless, blindly or recklessly carry out training, or are afraid, nervous, and hesitant in training.

These are all significant causes of injury.

2. Improper preparation activities. Statistics show that lack of or inappropriate preparation activities are the leading cause of injuries. Three. Man is an emotional animal. There are moods of joy and anger.

The pain of the soul cannot be repaired for a lifetime? Why should I let someone I love hurt? Are you too afraid of getting hurt?

That's right, people often hurt others first because they are afraid of being hurt by others. But this is not a deliberate mistake. When people are young, they don't know how to cherish or what love is, and love at that time is very domineering and selfish, but it is also very persistent.

While hurting the person you love, you actually hurt yourself, because watching the person you love hurt, you will hurt even more. Time will not go back, many mistakes cannot be undone, and after experiencing the pain of love, people will grow up and mature. The only thing that can be done is to go on the road of tomorrow, let it pass in the past, and cherish the future.

Because we don't know too much when we're young. It is only when you experience a lot of things that you will learn to grow up. The pain of the soul can make time come **, go through some people and some things, you will learn to grow slowly, and then you will understand the true meaning of love.

It is inevitable to be hurt on the road of love, and only after experiencing all this, will you know how to cherish happiness!

Sometimes the hurt is out of your control, sometimes it's because you care, sometimes it's because you don't care, if you care, try not to hold the other party too tightly, if you don't care, try to let the other party out slowly.

Young and frivolous, they will always hurt each other inadvertently, maybe unintentionally, but there will still be a gap in the heart, when is it good, it depends on their own endurance, maybe tomorrow? Maybe not for the rest of my life. Don't let your loved one get hurt again.