My girlfriend suppressed me a lot and didn t allow me to talk to her, what should I do?

You ask her: Do you know what love is? If you don't understand, you should go back to your parents to re-learn, and then fall in love when you learn well, otherwise you can only play the piano (love) with self-righteousness!

Forrest Gump is telling you that love is what you can unconditionally respect, support, protect and meet the human needs of the other person. Conditionally satisfying each other's needs is not love, but solving investment behavior, and it is difficult to get the return of the other party's love.

People who are ignorant of love tend to walk backwards, and they are often self-righteous, focusing only on their own needs and trampling on the needs of others, even if the needs of others are satisfied, it is conditional, just like doing business. It makes people feel that they are in love with a child, they feel very awkward and uncomfortable, and after a long time, they will be disgusted and even angry. You should both figure out what love is, and until you understand it, don't fall in love for a while, otherwise it will be very difficult for you to get along.

Talk to her clearly and believe in your own abilities!

Take care of you, see if you're honest or not, and don't care if it's too fresh.

It's so wide. Can't agree.

Steps. First of all, we can't have a seizure in person, and tell him that we can go home and talk to her afterwards, to give him a face.

Tell him about his daily interactions this time, so that he doesn't worry too much that he still loves him.

Tell him to be confident, because he is no better than other girls, and because you are confident, that's why I love you.

Sometimes deliberately let him be a little jealous, and a little setback can make him grow.

Be sure to stop in moderation and not go too far, otherwise, from fake jealousy to real jealousy.

Don't talk to that girl right away, and if you see your girlfriend angry, you should do that.

It is advisable to cherish the feelings.

Feelings are selfish, but not completely possessive, you have your own independent personality, first of all, this relationship has been deformed, you have to think seriously about whether to continue, because she requires you to fully do, future quarrels can not be avoided, you have to face too many problems in the future, don't give in again and again because of her threats, as long as you think clearly, you can make a decision, love is mutual respect, not possession and threat.

I have a friend who is like this, her boyfriend went to dinner with her, and there were two beautiful young ladies, and she said no, and her boyfriend never raised his head, and she told him not to look up, and then he nodded and said uh-huh. The two women were gone, and he was still keeping his head down, and he didn't look up until she said yes. She doesn't let you see it, she doesn't let you say it's a sign of love, if you can't do it or don't want to do it, it's that you don't love her enough, and when you talk about love, you have to think about the other person when you do something.

It's a trivial matter, and you should listen to her, and even if she tells you to say it, you shouldn't say it anymore......

Your girlfriend won't let you talk to other girls because she is afraid that you will have feelings for other girls. She's afraid of losing you. In fact, it is a manifestation of loving you very much. You should understand.

First of all, I think that the girl does not let the boy contact his female friend, it must be that she cares about her boyfriend very much, so it seems that the girl cannot be said to be excessive.

Secondly, from a boy's point of view, contact with a female friend may not mean anything, after all, love is given to a girlfriend.

Therefore, the point is not to ask the girls to be overdone, but to see how the boys and girls deal with the matter appropriately.

is such a selfish girlfriend, but she is still happy to break up. Better a finger off than always aching. How can a normal person not communicate and deal with girls?

Just get the right balance. You can also ask her not to talk to other boys, if she can't do it, she is not qualified to ask you, and even if she can, then she is sick.

Say that she loves and is afraid of losing you, as a man, you steal the fun! The best reward is to cherish her.

My girlfriend is insecure and too stingy, comfort her well, and explain to her that your eyes are all about her, and there is no one else in your psychology except her.

It's good for a woman to comfort her.

Your girlfriend is very insecure and possessive, and you need to enlighten her to communicate with her, and maybe she can change slowly.

Generally, such a girl is very insecure, and does not let you talk to other girls for fear that you will be snatched away by other girls, it can be said that you do not trust this relationship very much, you should have a good chat with your girlfriend and talk about heart communication, tell her that you will not leave her, give her enough security.

If you don't have a friend who won't let you talk to another woman, it proves that he may be a little jealous and that he loves you. Everyone has to think about the good, right? Both of them are mutual, well, you should accept his advice, but you can explain to him, well, it's not bad to talk to any woman, right?

You should also have a good chat with her and be happy. If a person only talks to himself, and does not talk to other people's women, it may be impossible, and some things should be dealt with on a case-by-case basis.

Your girlfriend told you to be single-minded with her, not double-minded, this is every girl has this mentality, but it seems to be too strict. This will leave you breathless. Ask you:

Are you very attentive? If this is the case, it is also appropriate to be stricter. If you don't pay much attention, you should communicate this problem with her, and if she doesn't give in, you can consider separating, because this way of getting along will not last long. Careful!

Your girlfriend must love you very much, so any woman who talks to you will get angry. Then there's your girlfriend who is suspicious and insecure.

It shows that your girlfriend loves you very much and is afraid of losing you, so she thinks that you confess to her that I love you so much, everyone must trust each other and tolerate each other, so that happiness is achieved.

Talking is a person's basic right, how can you not be allowed to speak, is it because you didn't notice the listener's reaction, accidentally offended others, but you didn't know, your girlfriend stopped you after finding out, and then didn't let you speak? I think there should be a reason, and I won't stop you from talking for no reason.

When we communicate with our lovers, when we are alone with our girlfriends, or when we get together with friends, we will say things that make the listener very uncomfortable, and then unknowingly offend others. When you encounter such a situation, you should know how to reflect on whether a certain sentence has upset the other party, and if you can't think of it, ask your girlfriend, only in this way can we avoid making mistakes next time. This can be regarded as a run-in, we will all have our own speaking habits, and we may accidentally provoke each other, which is a very normal thing, and it can be regarded as the advantage of having a girlfriend?

Once, my boyfriend and I had an argument because of inconsistencies in language, and I wouldn't stop him from talking, but I would also get very angry. Therefore, we lovers also need to communicate with each other, let alone communicate with others. Only by running in well in daily life can we get along more smoothly in the future.

There was a big quarrel because I said something he didn't want to hear, and for this reason there was the first and largest quarrel in history, and it is still vivid. Your girlfriend asked you not to speak, it may not be true that you will never speak, it may be said in anger or to prevent you from offending others again, find out the reason, adjust it after finding out, and it will be solved slowly.

When we get along, we will encounter a lot of strange problems, but in fact, all problems have a reason, as long as we are willing to find them, then we will definitely change the things that we are confused about.

It's up to you to see if you can really keep talking, and if you think it's going to be a hard thing for you, then you should make it clear to him. Falling in love also requires your own freedom and space, you can't be the only one in your life, and tell her that you also need to have a circle other than her.

Although I don't understand why she doesn't let you talk to other people, it stands to reason that it's fine if she doesn't let you talk to women, but it would be a little weird if she didn't even let men. He should belong to the kind of super possessive person, so he hopes that she is the only one in your world, but this kind of thinking is very pathological, and it is estimated that no one is really willing to give up all their original communication for the sake of a person.

If she still insists that you can't talk to others after you have a good talk with her, then you should say goodbye to her fiercely with such a girlfriend. Not to mention a girlfriend, even a wife is not qualified to ask for this. It's simply a behavior that sees you as her thing, and you can say that she is insecure, or you can say that she is abnormal.

I believe that for a man, it may be a little acceptable if he is only allowed to not talk to women, but if he is not to talk to everyone, then it is estimated that everyone knows how this man will choose. For many men, they yearn for a life with many good friends and brothers, and it would be better if they had a girlfriend on top of that.

It's just that when this extra girlfriend will greatly reduce his originally happy life, then it doesn't make any sense. So what kind of life you yearn for should be considered by yourself, if you can get rid of it and accept it, continue to be together, if you can't accept it, break up, after all, it's not your fault.

You should tell her: Is it okay to give me some freedom?

Then your girlfriend will say, "If you want to be free, let's break up." This should be the most common conversation between couples, there must be a lot of boys who are worried about this, as girls, we don't really want you to talk to others, just don't talk to girls more, every girl has her own thoughts, and the way of loving people is different.

There may be people who want their boyfriends to make more friends and accumulate more contacts, and there are also girls who don't want their boyfriends to talk to other girls. It all comes down to a sense of security. Some girls are insecure and she wants her boyfriend to be her alone, at this time, you should tell her, confidently and accurately, I will not leave you, but I need a little personal space.

Many times, when a boy says he wants some freedom, the girl will think of breaking up, but that is not sincere, the boy just needs to continue to explain and explain calmly.

If you want a little more freedom, you should calmly discuss with your girlfriend, every girl is reasonable, but sometimes you can't figure it out, the first reaction may be angry, if the boy is also angry at this time, obviously, the result will definitely be unhappy. You have to tell your girlfriend that you need to talk to someone, you need friends, it's not that your girlfriend isn't good enough, it's just that you want to have friends who can reach out and help you when you have difficulties in the future. You don't have to have many friends, but you have to have them.

You can live on each other, but it's hard to live without the support of your friends.

Wake up, girls, too, don't always live in your own little universe and give your boyfriend a little freedom, but not indulgence. You can't tie him down, he needs his own space.