How do you reject a married man? 50

Maybe he's going through emotional problems, I mean, no, as he said, there's no love with his wife, only affection. Is there a problem, just find another one outside, prepare to divorce and marry again. Perhaps that's how he wants to find someone to replace him.

He is not alone, many people feel this way, but he can find help from an emotional specialist (a regular doctor who makes a profession) or a psychologist. Is that the solution to the problem? You can give him this advice and tell him that you don't want it.

Since you are so frank, when you really can't do it, I told him that the reason why I didn't refuse you when you kissed me was because I just wanted to vent some of the problems I encountered, and I figured out that my approach was immature, so please respect yourself and don't come to me again.

If he wants to harass you again, it means that he may have some crooked intentions, why don't you refuse? You can't stop defending yourself because you're afraid that you'll be embarrassed to meet in the future. Let him understand that you are not a bully.

Adopt a cold attitude towards him, ignore him, be polite, and try to distance the relationship. The husband of a wife also, who wants to be a junior.

A spark can start a prairie fire, his concern is what you should be most cautious about, use words inappropriate for him, and use actions to make him feel that you are stubbornly alienating him, and he will naturally retreat.

Ignore him, or tell his family (not his wife) and let his family put some pressure on him.

Or you just go find a boyfriend.

You should get a boyfriend.

Let him know that you are a married woman.

He's going to regress.

Draw a line at once, and when the judgment continues, you will be disturbed.

If you're going to be friends forever, don't think about it. If you want to think about it, you will never have a friend to do it.

Legal analysis: marital conflicts are recommended to be resolved through negotiation, and the outcome of the lawsuit cannot be negotiated and proposed.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife voluntarily divorce in the absence of a secondary school, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration office.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or withering and cohabitation with others;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

1. Explain it clearly to the man.

Make your own thoughts clear to the man, if the other party can also understand, and can also know that he is not doing right, then it is good, if not, then you must take strong measures and leave decisively, there can be no disconnection, otherwise you will never be able to break off.

2. You can be friends, but that's about it.

If you know each other very clearly, then you can also be friends and chat with each other, but that's all, you can't be more concerned about each other's affairs than your own because of each other's affairs, so that a discerning person will understand your relationship at once, so if you control it, then you can still be friends, otherwise you should be strangers.

3. Recognize yourself.

Realize that you need that feeling of being cared for and being guided, you can get it from somewhere else, and you find that it is all caused by your fear of leaving your family of origin, and when you can face this fear, the need for a "nanny" or "wet nurse" decreases.

First of all, be resolute. Rejection is inevitably a disservice, but it should not be used to discourage you. Since it is the person who is in love with you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds.

If your attitude of refusing love is not resolute enough, it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other party, especially if the other party is in a situation where you love you deeply, and the thinking you use out of politeness or consideration will make the other party feel that you also love him (her), at least let him (her) feel that there is hope, and in the end it often brings greater harm than refusing love.

Second, do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. Specifically, you may wish to first praise the other person's character and talents, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. The reasons to be said should be reasonable, and it is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his (her) good; If you need to explain it to others, you may want to attribute the negative cause to yourself.