How to refuse a boy s confession? How to refuse a boy s confession?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It should be liked, or it wouldn't have been considered so much, at least it has a good feeling.

    To get along with each other for a period of time, to know each other's attitude towards themselves, to see whether a person really likes you, to see how he treats you, whether he always thinks about you, supports you, and can accompany you through thick and thin.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Alas! Now there is 100% love! It's all mixed with money, looks, and power!

    Then you can treat him lukewarmly for a while! If he can persevere, it means that he really likes you! Test how much he loves you!!

    Don't go yes to his request lightly!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The euphemistic refusal is nothing more than: each other's personalities are incompatible; no common language; I already have someone I like.

    I have a good feeling≠ I like it, I like ≠ love.

    Want to know if the other person really likes you?

    Just put it to the test. See if she or he will be able to give up or change anything for you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, I look at you very much, how to know if the other party really likes you, this will take time to prove! Good no good.

    Even if you politely reject him, you will break his heart if he really likes you. Fate is hard-won, you have to cherish it. Even if you have a relationship, maybe you can still find the good in him, if he is a good boy who can take care of you for a lifetime, you will give up love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Reject a boy: Tell him directly that he doesn't like him and make him die; Treat him very coldly, let him know that he has a lot of imperfections (isn't it a little absolute...)

    Looks like the girl still likes this guy

    Why would a girl know that a guy doesn't like him?

    Girls can be bold and take the initiative to ask boys why they like it and whether they have bad intentions.

    Then it's up to the girls

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Reject him first, and if he really likes you, he won't give up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Find a girl he once liked and ask him to help you ask who you like?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Frankly say that you have someone you like.

    Tell the other party directly that you reject him not because you hate him, but that you already have someone you like and can't accept his confession. This method of refusal may sound a bit hurtful at first glance, but if you can clearly tell the other person why you rejected him, he will feel that there is no way to do it, and the damage can be minimized.

    Make your attitude clear.

    Show your attitude and leave no way back. When many boys confess to girls, they have already made a choice in their hearts, and no matter what difficulties they have, they will rise to the occasion. And at this time, the attitude of the girl is very important, and it must not be tactful.

    To like is to stand up, not to like to resolutely refuse, there is nothing to give a few more days or make me a little surprised to think about it, don't do it. If you don't like him, you should explicitly reject him, no words. Of course, the sincerity is very sudden, and you can't grasp your heart, let yourself think about it for two days, and your attitude must be good at this time.

    Do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem.

    In order to reduce the psychological harm caused by rejection of love to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. Specifically, you might as well first praise the other person's character and talent, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. The reasons to be said should be reasonable, and it is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his (her) good; If you have to explain to others, you may want to attribute the negative cause to yourself to avoid giving the impression that you simply rejected him.

    Choose the right way.

    You should take into account your normal relationship and the personality characteristics of the other party, and choose to treat it coldly, or interview, or letter, but it is recommended that you do not use the method of asking someone to tell you, because it seems that you are not respectful enough to the other party, and it may also cause unnecessary trouble.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, every girl wants to be liked and appreciated by others, but sometimes it is also annoying. A person you don't like confesses to you, how to refuse.

    First of all, I wish I could say this to you, but I can't lie to you, let alone myself.

    Although this may seem a bit cruel, if you don't show your attitude from the beginning, then you will bring endless troubles to yourself in the future.

    Second, I'm not entirely sure how I feel right now, and I don't want to have a hasty relationship.

    This sentence is by far the most subtle, and it is also the least lethal to the hopeful confessor. However, although it is polite, this sentence is very dangerous, and the other party is likely to think that there is still hope for success, if you have enough patience to wait and see and continue to work hard, maybe you will continue to stage a series of pursuit actions, and you still can't really avoid the complicated emotional turmoil of correcting mistakes.

    Third, I care about you, but I don't love you.

    This is a tactful, decent and direct confession, which can not only take care of the other party's feelings appropriately, so that the scene will not be too embarrassing and stalemate, but also clearly express his position. If you can't be a lover, at least you can be a friend, and it is also a very effective comfort to let him know how important his place is in your mind.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is a very happy thing for someone to like it, which means that someone recognizes you. But when people who like you don't like you, that's when things get a little tricky. In the face of the confession of someone they don't like, many girls don't know how to refuse, for fear of hurting the boy's heart, so I will tell you several ways to refuse.

    1. Euphemistic refusal.

    Tactfully rejecting other people's confessions can minimize the harm to others, so many girls will choose this method. Generally praise the boy's merits first, give him a good feeling, and then euphemistically say that he has always regarded him as a good friend, and hope to continue to maintain a friend relationship with him in the future.

    2. Direct refusal.

    It would be a bit embarrassing to say no outright, and it might also hurt the boy's heart. But the advantage of direct rejection is that you can directly express your attitude, don't beat around the bush, and let the boy know that you are not together, maybe then he is more likely to die and will not keep pestering you.

    3. Implicit refusal.

    It's easy for adults to read what is going on inside and out, and if you don't have a clear yes, you're saying no. You can reject him by hinting, such as telling him that you prefer the type of Xiao Zhang and hope that your future boyfriend will be like him. Boys can read you too.

    If you really don't like others, you should refuse as soon as possible, don't give others hope and let them down in the end. But if two people are likely to be together, don't easily deny all kinds of possibilities, try it and maybe the two people are suitable.

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