Is it good for a boy and a girl to fall in love when they were in middle school?

When I was young, my emotions were the purest and there were no distractions, but the success rate was too low, because people were growing up and couldn't escape the real society.

Absolutely

Life is originally a learning process, since, "early love" is also a process of life, of course, you have to learn to pay sincerely).

These times are normal.

However, young feelings are always the purest and easiest to regret and hurt.

Sooner or later, you'll have to pay it back

Ay. Even if it's not good.

You'll do the same, won't you?

Hehe. Isn't it just you, that's cute.

Love, don't know if it's a blessing. Life is about experience, and you will know whether it is good or not in the future.

It's nothing, as long as you don't overstep some ......Nothing.

Don't delay your studies.

It's nothing good or bad, it feels like you're on your own, because that's what I fell in love with in middle school.

To be honest, falling in love in middle school is a very delicate matter.

From the official point of view (parents, teachers), love in middle school should not be done and should be forbidden, on the grounds that children do not understand love yet, and love affects learning very much. Maybe many students in love think that this kind of statement is too fake and a threat, but from the point of view of a person who has come before, the teachers and parents are not saying things to scare you. There are many students who usually do well in their studies, but when they are in a relationship for about 3 months, they plummet (nothing at first).

Of course, there are many couples whose grades do not fluctuate much.

From a student's point of view, falling in love in middle school can be said to be a very normal thing, or a must-do. Because physiologically speaking, everyone has entered puberty, and the inner germination is certain. And deliberately suppressing this impulse to approach the opposite sex is not good for the body and mind.

In addition, to paraphrase a classic saying: "Although you can do a lot of things that are inappropriate after entering society, the pure thing of looking at a woman in silence and then bowing your head shyly is only available in high school, so young people must cherish the love of their student days." ”

Hehe, so, having said all this, I just want to tell you that there is nothing good or bad about love in middle school, as long as you have good restraint and can grasp a good degree, love is a kind of promotion for you.

So, if you are in a relationship, I sincerely wish you a wonderful love memory.

Not good, I'm jealous. It's better that you don't fall in love, for the pleasure of me, and don't make me jealous.

Summary. During the relationship, he should have more or less feelings for his new girlfriend, but now that he is back looking for the original high school girlfriend, he should love this high school girlfriend even more.

The boy and a girl were high school classmates, and they were in a relationship for three years, and then when he was in college, he proposed to break up with a girl, and then he was with another girl, and then in a month or two he broke up with his new girlfriend, and he was with his previous high school girlfriend again. What does he mean?

Judging from your description, I feel that this boy broke up with that girl before, was with other girls, and then reunited with his high school girlfriend, which means that the girl he was with later felt that there were some aspects that were not suitable for him, or it felt better and more suitable to be with his high school girlfriend, which may be going around and around or her.

So does he have feelings for his new girlfriend? Who does he love more?

During the relationship, he should have more or less feelings for his new girlfriend, but now that he is back looking for the original high school girlfriend, he should love this high school girlfriend even more.

He had been talking to his high school girlfriend for three years, and when he was in college, he broke up, and immediately got together with his new one and broke up again two months later. With the new one again.

It could be that the boy still hasn't figured out what he wants.

I don't think I'm very cautious about feelings.

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In everyone's heart, there will be a person who can't let go, even if you have broken up, even if this love has become a thing of the past, but his heart is always thinking about you.

In fact, the more you love someone, the more you can't let go, and if you really love, you will leave traces, and how can this person be easily removed from your heart?

How many times, he forced himself to forget you, he told himself that it was impossible for you, but he still couldn't convince himself to come out, when he saw you, he would still be very excited, when he was idle, he would still keep thinking about you and guessing, he knew that you were already deep in your heart.

In fact, if a man has truly loved you, then it is really difficult to give up, and when he can't let go of you, there will often be these manifestations, don't understand.

1. He will check your activity often.

Even if you've broken up, he'll still look through your circle of friends to see what you've done lately, and want to know how you're doing, as if that's the only way he can feel at ease.

Maybe when he sees that you have a new life, he will feel a little lost in his heart, but what scares him more is that he doesn't know your news, so for him, being able to see your dynamics from time to time is his happiest moment.

Second, he will want to contact you.

One of the most important manifestations of not being able to let go of it must be that he can't help but want to contact you, the moment he thinks about you, the moment he learns about you, he wants to talk to you again as before, and wants to know more about you.

Each time, he opened the dialog box and wrote a lot of things to you, but when it came to sending, he still hesitated, he didn't know if such an interruption was appropriate, he didn't know if you would pay attention to him?

In fact, men and women are the same, when they love deeply, they can't quickly get out of the past relationship, even if you know clearly in your heart that it's over, but emotionally you just can't get over it.

Especially when he looks at your dialog box, he can't help but contact you, can't help but chat with you, he fantasizes that he is still the same as you used to be, but everything is different, you can't go back to the past.

If he can't let go of you, he won't be able to resist the urge to contact you, even if it's just casual talking, that's fine.

3. He will be very happy when he sees you.

When a man can't let go of a person, he can't help but check your dynamics, find a way to contact you, and be very happy when he sees you.

Maybe he will feel that he is so infatuated that he will move you one day, but he forgets that since he chose to break up, there must be irreconcilable contradictions, and it is possible to break up again if he starts over.

Now that you've broken up, let's try to let go, stop thinking about her all the time, stop being nostalgic for the past, and let each other go is the best way.

It's not big, because the long-distance relationship has little hope of being together, and the life of both parties will be affected by slippery branches and concepts, so they often quarrel, and they will be tired when the time makes Cong long, but the two sides understand each other and encourage each other, and it is very easy to be together, in short, it varies from person to person, distance is not a problem, love has not studied geography.

The difference in the educational level of the two people still has a relatively large impact, and they often quarrel, and the basic relationship is not very solid, if they are together, the difficulty is relatively high, and the boys need to work hard, if it is just an ordinary filial piety work, and the girl should have no chance to be with Duan Shentang, unless it is an achievement in the management company, the two people can be more matched.

Such a situation is estimated to be small, each has its own circle of friends and career, and the probability is very small!

When going on a blind date, should a girl take the initiative to read these points and then reconsider.

Blind date has gradually become a way for young people to fall in love, and some girls often encounter situations where they want to take the initiative to contact after blind dates, but they can't help but contact for the sake of face, so they are likely to miss the opportunity to pursue love. So should girls take the initiative when they go on a blind date? How to date after a blind date?

Let's take a look!

1. Should girls take the initiative after a blind date?

1.If it's the first time you meet on a blind date, you have a good impression of each other, and after you end up, you have to let him reminisce about you, which is the process of determining his impression of you. It is recommended that you do not take the initiative to contact at this time and wait and see what happens.

2.Except for those who are particularly shy, after the boys go home, if they have a good impression of you, they will take the initiative to chat with you in time or at least within three days; Offer to ask you for a second meeting within a week. If things develop like this, then what else do you take the initiative to dress yourself up in, pay more attention to his circle of friends, prepare some chat topics, and quit being impatient when dating!

3.If it's not the above, it must be that the guy is busy (on a business trip or something is delayed), but if he has a crush on you, he will definitely tell you where he is going on a business trip and how long he is on a business trip through chat!

2. 5 tips for girls to go on a blind date.

1.When meeting for the first time, be sure to let him choose a place.

As a woman, if you behave too much in front of the other person for the first time, he will feel that your desire to control is too strong, if he asks where you want to meet in **, at this time you can let him choose a place, and it can give people the feeling of being a bird.

2.A minute or two later.

If you go on a blind date, if you arrive earlier than the other party, others will think that you are in a special hurry to marry yourself, if he arrives early, then you arrive on time, if he arrives on time, then you can arrive two minutes later.

3.Ordering is a trick.

Two people will inevitably meet at the dinner table, so ordering food is a skill. If the other party has strong financial resources, he will think that you are not virtuous enough if you order a very expensive dish, and if you order too cheap a dish, he will feel that you can't get on the table, and the advice to everyone is to order a green dish, so that there will be no mistakes, and the drink can be ordered with fruit juice or yogurt.

Love is managed by both men and women, and as long as they still love each other, they will be together. There are often quarrels, perhaps because of different starting points for looking at things, in fact, there will always be quarrels between couples, but as long as both parties can sit down calmly to solve the problem and find a compromise to solve it, it will be fine.

Of course, the quarrel may be caused by the fact that the man is a little inferior, his education is not as high as his girlfriend's, and now he has a high school degree and may not have a high salary to find a job, he is afraid that his girlfriend will choose someone better than him, so he will have a little temper, at this time, the girl is more to give him encouragement and support, telling him that no matter how good others are, you are not as good as me. And girls, in fact, do you care about your boyfriend's cultural level? A self-motivated boyfriend will always succeed, and a boyfriend who is good to you is more worthy of being together.

Hahaha, casually, but your current circle is obviously completely different, I suggest that you take advantage of your youth to substitute yourself more, make yourself stronger, and then consider children's love poems and hops Thank you for adopting, I wish you a prosperous future.

There is not much hope of being together in the future, because the two people have taken different paths and will be farther and farther away in the future. If you want to be together all the time, the boy must work hard and try to get closer to her, and only when two people work together can the relationship continue.

If two people often quarrel together, and the educational level of the two people is not the same, then the possibility of being together is not very high, and you should be prepared to break up in the future. But as long as you work hard enough and can give this girl enough security, then I think there is still the possibility of being together.

The probability of being together in the future is really very small, because girls can meet better people than this boy in college.

It's true that a long-distance relationship is harder than two people together, but I think nothing is impossible because of love, unless the relationship fades.

The boy and the girl have known each other for a year, and the boy has worked after graduating from high school, is it more likely that the two of them will be together after the girl goes to college? It's unlikely to be together. At the very least, there is a big gap between their goals and ideals.

To be honest, if the educational background is not equal, the chance of being together is very small, and even after being together, it feels like there will be no topic to talk about and may be separated.

A girl and a boy have known each other for a year, the boy graduated from high school and went to work, and the girl went to college, and the hope of being together in the future is relatively slim, because the life circle of the two people will be different in the future.

Not necessarily, in college, if it is a better university, girls may meet boys who match their three views, but the biggest problem is that in the face of entering society, people will change when they enter society, if they often quarrel, they have not yet been involved in money, rice, oil and salt, and the probability of being together is not high.