First love, I obviously have a lot to say in my heart, why can t I say it when we are together? ?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-03
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    That's because you're shy, and because you care about her too much, but it's normal to be shy. You have a lot to say to her but you can't say it, you can try to talk to her little by little, slowly bolder yourself, and slowly you dare to say what you want to say to her with her, of course, you don't need to prepare before each and in the meeting, and what you want to say at the beginning is almost the same, and the rest you can say to her in person.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's going to be like this at first, too engaged, too nervous. Have a chat with her and relax. Talk about topics that are of interest to everyone, and when you really have something in common, you won't be like that.

    It's sometimes good not to pursue anything, and to go with the flow. When things are at the worst they will mend! Good luck!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Go with the feeling. The more deliberate it is, the less likely it will be for long. Prove that you value.

    You might as well do more activities together, and you will naturally start talking.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Excuse me, how old are you?

    It's usually the first time I'm so nervous.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Haha, it's worthy of first love, but it doesn't matter, it's good after a long time, you're really interesting.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First love is beautiful, everyone's first love is simple, at that time the age is hazy, and love is full of a yearning. I met him at that age. It's also a great luck in life, I remember my first love was when I was 14 years old, when we were in junior high school, we were ignorant about love, I didn't know what love was at that time, I thought that holding hands and going to school together after school was love, we were young and ignorant, in the eyes of others, the feelings between us were just playing, but at that time we thought that each other had been a long-lasting existence, for my first love, more thanks, Thanks to him for encouraging me and making me who I am now, I was still a rebellious teenager at the time, and I was more impulsive in doing anything, so I was more grateful to my first love, but I was also quite ashamed, and I was quite sorry for her, those three years. It's very beautiful, but he spent three years of youth and didn't have a good result with me, which is also a pity, for now, it's enough for everyone to be well.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First love is beautiful, unforgettable, and a memory of youth, but also a young us. If you met your first love, what would you say to him? Do you remember when you first met?

    Will you thank him, or will it be lighter? In any case, the first love symbolizes our ignorance and innocence at that time, and at the same time it teaches us a lot and learns a lot

    1. Thank you.

    If I met my first love, I would probably say thank you to him, although it is only a few words, but there are many connotations in it. I am grateful to him for giving me a beautiful youth, for taking me to see the most beautiful scenery, for knowing how to tolerate me, and for teaching me how to be strong. Now I have learned to say thank you, whether it was for the past or now, I have to be grateful, without the former me, how can there be the current me?

    Second, I haven't seen you for a long time.

    If I met my first love, I might also say that I haven't seen you for a long time, yes, I haven't seen you for a long time, you were still a sunny boy when you were separated, and now you have a little maturity. I said a long time no longer not only to express that we have not seen each other for a long time, but also to explain the passage of time, time flies, we are no longer the same as before, and now a sentence of a long time no longer is not worth the year, but it is undeniable that we have also run together on the road in the past. Long time no see, us.

    3. Are you okay?

    If I met my first love, I might also say how are you, but a few words hide a lot of joy, anger and sorrow. Maybe you're doing well, at least better than before, but maybe you're not doing well, but anyway, if I say how are you, it at least shows that I'm not a person who cares for a long time, and I'm not a person who cares. After all, we were us in the past, and a sentence of are you okay is also to say goodbye to us and embrace your future self.

    If I meet my first love, I think I'm complicated, but it's bland, I think I may have a lot to say, but I think I may only have a simple sentence or even nothing to say, but no matter what, we're still the most vibrant of all things in the world.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I guess the most important thing I want to say is I'm sorry.

    I don't know what everyone's definition of first love is, but for me, the person who really loves and gives is the first love. It's like the ones who used to confess to other girls and make trouble, it shouldn't be true, after all, I was still young at the time and didn't know any feelings, but then I really entered adolescence and fell in love with someone, it should be the real first love.

    I met my first love when I was in my third year of junior high school. He was in front of me at the time, and he was studying very well, but my study was not very good, so I kept borrowing her books to read. She talked to me, and I held her book and didn't let go.

    Maybe it was too touching, but later on, my grades gradually improved, and I was at the top of the class, and the two of us came together.

    When I was in junior high school, I wasn't allowed to engage in objects, but our homeroom teacher spoiled me very much, so I was an exception. In addition, my first love also studied relatively well, so the teacher still approved of us, because he was afraid of disassembling us and affecting our respective learning.

    But when I got better and better, he couldn't keep up with his studies, and he was so bad at math that he couldn't get into the same high school as me. At that time, he was still young, and he paid a lot for him, and he was also very moved, because his father was not very good to her, so he rarely received care from the opposite sex, and he was very attached to me.

    On the day the results came out, I knew we couldn't go to the same high school, so I broke up with him. He had no choice but to endure it silently. Later, when I was about the third year of high school, I saw her again and learned that she had been silently guarding for me for three years.

    I didn't have any contact with the opposite sex for three years, and I was very touched at the time, and I was with him for a while, but then it was still not suitable and we separated.

    A girl likes you and has silently guarded you for three years without falling in love. Now that I'm in college, I don't have any contact with him, and if I say that a qualified ex should be like dead, I think I should be like this, and if I really have the opportunity to see her again, I would like to say sorry to her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    1. There may not be such a thing as love in the world, love is just a momentary feeling, and this feeling will change with the state of mind, if your so-called favorite leaves you, please wait patiently, let the time slowly wash, let the soul slowly precipitate, your suffering will slowly fade, don't overlook for the beauty of love, don't exaggerate the sadness of falling out of love.

    2. When the years burn everything to me, what I can't forget is the style of your eyes, and when I close my eyes, what I long for is still the style of your eyes.

    3. People who are attracted at first sight will really like it for a long time, I am far away from you, you don't have to worry about being embarrassed when you meet me, I am more afraid that I will not be there when you return than I can never wait for you, so just wait a little longer, life is not too late.

    4. I really have a feeling of returning to my first love, that feeling of happiness makes me not want to wake up, so I just woke up this morning and my heart is like being pressed by a mountain, I miss you so much, I will heal my wounds with you in the past few years, and then wait for you to come back.

    5. Maybe the first love is very unforgettable for everyone, although it is so pure and gives people a feeling of happiness, but it will still fade over time, and those memories will continue to fade!

    6. Sometimes, when I hear an old song, I suddenly think of a person. Sometimes, I often struggle with memories, and there are many memories that I can't let go. Sometimes, watching the time pass little by little, there is nothing you can do.

    The resentful couples I often see are not because they don't love, but because they don't know how to love.

    7. I want to find someone who is willing to say good night to me every night, I want to find someone who can comfort me when I am hurt, life is so much changing, Hongchen is in a hurry, a lifetime of encounter, three lifetimes of love, met, fell in love, and finally left, lost, just like the young age in life, looking forward to a beautiful encounter, a sincere love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    J, hello :

    Thank you for meeting us, in the past three years, I remember all the kindness you have done to me, and thank you for caring and taking care of me so much even after the breakup.

    I try to think back to the bits and pieces we were together, but all that remains of the memories is my debt to you and all the kindness you have done to me. Every time I think of you, I hate myself for being so ignorant at the time, maybe it's really that sentence, boys of the same age are really slower than girls who are more mature than girls.

    A few years ago, when I heard that you had a fiancé, I was really happy for you, but it would also be sour. Coincidentally, that guy I knew, a nice guy. But what worries me about you once again is that I heard a few days ago that he split his legs and you broke up.

    I tried to call you**, I don't know why, I always remember that number, maybe this is the first love.

    I've dialed it several times, but I don't dare to call you, I'm afraid that my appearance will hurt you again.

    Maybe we are the so-called people we met at the wrong time, however, I am still very grateful to have met you in my life, your appearance has changed my growth trajectory and made me better and better. I also hope that you can completely forget about me, after all, I may not have a trace of warmth in your heart, I wish you happiness.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    For first love, perhaps everyone has imagined a hundred encounter scenes in their minds and rehearsed a hundred opening sentences, but if we really meet our first love, speaking rationally and calmly may be our wisest choice.

    Don't look back. "That's what I want to say to my first love. No matter how sweet they were when they were together, no matter how well the two of them were in the eyes of others, the final breakup defeated all the bystanders and completely frustrated the emotions.

    If we had broken up because of immaturity at the time, we would have had a hundred chances to be together later. But, five years later, ten years later, we are still not together. The only reason is that the emotion is gone, and it is difficult to recover.

    This is the most rational and objective result. Although we often imagine meeting and falling in love with our first love again, this is an extremely slim thing. So, we need to recognize this fact.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First love is the most beautiful of a person, if the first love is not successful, and finally to the point of breaking up, it is very painful, of course, this is that you must have a lot of words not to say, as time goes by, you should also let go of the past, bravely face it, and say it at that time is the sentence Let's be together, let us be together forever, I will always protect you, this sentence has been buried in my heart, and now I finally dare to say it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I broke up with my first love for a long time, and he chased me at the time, but in fact, I liked him for a long time, I never told him, he didn't know how much I loved him at that time, but I am relieved now, there is no time to wash away.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, falling in love with someone your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned about him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see it, you will be excited, your heart beats faster.

    You'll feel warm and safe when you're together, really! Positive love.

    One will be willing.

    Take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, you will be happy when you see the person you love happy, you will also be happy when you see him (her) troubled, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, true love one.

    Personally. If you want to grow old with him (her) and get along with him (her), you will look forward to bringing him (her) the greatest happiness with all your love, and you will also get another happiness in the process!I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness.

    Feel it with your heart...

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My first love and I have recently separated, and I love him too, and I feel the same way as you. I cried every night, he was really crazy to chase me, and he was even more kind to me, because I didn't cherish it and didn't know how to care about him, so he proposed to break up, saying that it was very tiring for each other to continue, but I didn't want to let go. Do you also want to let go, because you still love him and refuse to lose him, you still feel nostalgic for him, if possible, I hope you can get back together again, if not, start another relationship, so that you will gradually forget the past and take the lead, and no longer be sad.

Related questions
7 answers2024-06-03

The liver yang is hyperactive, the lower scorching fire wins, and the yin deficiency fire wins. It's like the sewer is blocked, and the upward smell is regurgitated, so the bad breath is puffed up. Spleen and stomach disharmony is caused by kidney cold, excessive stomach fire will naturally cause bad breath, it is recommended to take Sishen Pill to try If the excretion is normal, you can try Shenling Baizhu San.

8 answers2024-06-03

Reason: 1. Some traffic is to distinguish between CMWAP and CMNET, if the monthly subscription is CMWAP, but if CMNET is used, the phone bill will be deducted; >>>More

22 answers2024-06-03

I obviously like someone very much, why do I still alienate each other? Like my friends, click "Follow" below, and write a comment below if you have any ideas! Friends who like my content can also **show your friends around you! >>>More

32 answers2024-06-03

Everyone has their own attitude towards life, Jiang Wenli is a low-key and powerful actor who concentrates on acting, and this is her nature. Jiang Wenli, who was born in 1969, has participated in many TV series and movies, and has contributed a lot of works to everyone, she won the Best Actress Award at the 19th China TV Drama Feitian Awards, the Outstanding Actress Award at the 17th China TV Golden Eagle Awards, and the Magnolia Award"Rear view"and many other honors, she is an actress with good looks and good acting skills, and now Jiang Wenli, who is in her fifties, has a happy family, she is a happy woman, so she is very confident, even if she has no makeup, she is fearless. >>>More

18 answers2024-06-03

There is a stumbling block in my heart, and the gap between the ideal and the reality will also make people helpless. Find a friend to talk to. If you can't find a soulmate, write a diary.