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What in the world can have the best of both worlds
The important thing is to see how you deal with it.
It's not as complicated as you think.
Being in love is not what you think.
Just accept him.
There are also family members involved. Friends and so on.
In other words. You are accepting Him at the same time.
Accept his family as well. Friend. and the work he does, and so on.
If even the family disagrees.
I don't really support it.
If his family does not agree.
Someday. The two of you will be because of family factors.
And break up. That's for sure.
About communication. Not to communicate with his family.
It is necessary for you to communicate with him.
Then he was going to communicate with his family.
The most important thing is what he thinks.
That's his family, after all.
He knows more than you have to know.
Time will tell.
Such feelings.
Time brings only tragedy.
Don't talk nonsense about the above.
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Try to communicate as much as you can, do more things for your family, and the relationship will be better.
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It's better to be still than to be still.
The family disagrees because they feel that the two of you are not suitable.
You start with these"Not suitable"to find something.
Maybe it will be solved.
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We are the same drop, and I drop the man, the weak meter".
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Mark my words! Your own love is to be fought for and maintained by yourself!
If you are heart-to-heart, I send you four words: Stick to the end!
Don't let this love become an eternal regret in the hearts of the two of you!
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Time will prove that it has to be delayed, but to do the best.
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If your boyfriend's family doesn't agree, you can take the initiative to communicate and communicate with the other party, ask the other party's thoughts, and show yourself more in your boyfriend's house, if the other party's family doesn't agree, there is no need to insist.
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It depends on your boyfriend's attitude, if your boyfriend insists on going with you and is trying to persuade his family to agree to the relationship, then the relationship will have the motivation to stick to it, if your boyfriend's attitude doesn't matter, then it's better to break up early.
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I think you should communicate well with your boyfriend, and the two of you must be firm and let your boyfriend say more good things about you in front of your parents, so that's fine.
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Oh. It seems to be a very tangled problem.。。 You've said many times that you really love each other. He loves you too, and you love him too. Now that this is the case, everything is no longer a problem.
The reason why you are still so contradictory now shows that you have not let go of too many shackles in your hearts, and you are still thinking too much. You understand his mother's feelings, right, it means that you are very kind and a girl who can respect people.
But do you think about your feelings? You end up living with her son. In fact, there are many parents who do not agree when they get married, but when they get married, their children are filial, and they are too late to be happy.
They say that your culture is low, and you can't do it in all aspects? Do you think they're right? Is that how you evaluate yourself? If you admit it, there's no way around it. But I don't think you're going to throw in the towel easily, right?
So, show them your strength. Prove them wrong. Also, people's hearts are flesh and blood, and they are in love over time.
So, treat his parents well, even if they don't give you a good look, even if they don't care about you, just be nice to them. Slowly, I think they'll accept you.
Crying can't solve the problem. Find out what the problem is, and that's what makes you laugh.
Faced with these, do what you should do and think what you should think.
I think you'll make it.
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Then you can continue your education, study more or achieve a little success in your career, and his mother won't care. The main thing is that your boyfriend is an assertive person who has firm feelings for you, don't cry, it will only be a waste of time, use your strength to prove it to his family.
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Take your time to change his mom's attitude.
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Enrich yourself more, don't be a parasite, and be self-reliant. This will impress his family towards you, and this is also the best way for his family to change their attitude towards you.
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Judging by your description, you and your boyfriend have been talking for 5 years, but your boyfriend's parents don't approve of you being together. All you can do at the moment is ask your boyfriend to convince their parents. In addition, you have to behave yourself well and make a good impression in front of them.
You need to know the reason why they are not satisfied with you and fix it.
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As long as the two of you trust each other and love each other, no one has the right to interfere with your marriage, and your parents can do the work slowly, and they will be reasonable.
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The main thing is to see why his parents disagree, to see if there is room for maneuver, if you look down on your family or separate early, the marriage without the blessing of your parents will not be happy.
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It's up to you guys! You've been fine for a long time, and his parents don't agree! Then his parents didn't think about how difficult it is to find a girlfriend? It is a blessing for someone to marry your son!
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I guess he must have an inferiority complex in his heart, and his cowardice and immaturity are all manifestations of this inferiority. His heart should actually be very fragile, and he may be afraid that his mother will not like you or something, maybe this is another way to protect you. He may be very favored at home, this kind of boy is not very good at making his own decisions, and everything is handled by others, so he lacks assertiveness.
These are all brought to him by the family's native system, and it has a lot to do with his living environment and personality, of course, these are all external factors, but my analysis mainly depends on whether he loves you deeply or not. Whether there is a strong sense of responsibility, which is very important to be a man, if he doesn't even have this basic, then you really have to think carefully.
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It's so sympathetic, you're a copy of me. My dear, persuade you to give up, your boyfriend can't give you happiness, he has no opinions, no plans, just blindly dragging, which is very bad for you, why bother so much, want to open some, even if you don't divide, you have to scare him, let him know, you leave him and live a wonderful life, if you propose to break up, he doesn't have a strong reaction, or still can't solve his family's affairs, you are right, try!
May you find your own happiness! Best wishes!
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The reasons for this may be as follows.
1。He is immature and doesn't know how to love someone, maybe like Naoki E. Solution: Take him to a romance movie.
2。He had a strict upbringing. Solution: Let his parents know that you love him very much and are very responsible for getting along with him, and that you are a good girl.
3。He doesn't want to marry you because he has another girl in his heart. Solution: Find that girl, there is a way. (I don't think so...) Definitely not).
In short, let the other parent know that you exist!
I really hope that the relationship in the past five years will have a happy ending!
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Divide it, Actually, you are reluctant to let go now, but it's just because of those 5 years
He didn't dare to do anything. How can I protect you in the future? Five years is a long time for anyone, but if you experience it yourself, it's just that second.
Divide it, there will be better drip pulls.
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According to the information you provided, you care about him, he doesn't take you home, he is a little ashamed to let you show up in public, in the face of such a boyfriend, or have been talking for so long, as a girl is not only speechless and difficult to accept, but also makes yourself doubt: Is this the way he loves people, this love is too boring? Boys need to work on change to give you a magnet to keep going.
Good luck!
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I advise you to find a chance to have a showdown with him, it's too unfair to you to drag it out like this, it's you who are not down-to-earth now, and I'm sorry to tell you that your boyfriend's series of behaviors is not only his cowardly side, but also his irresponsible side Finally, I wish you all happiness!!
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He doesn't love you enough, or he's not mature, or both.
In short, a real man Khan faces the woman he loves, he must be brave and will move forward bravely for her and face any difficulties!
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It's really time to divide it, and if a man really loves you enough, he can't take care of all this, and he can even have a big fight with your parents for you.
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Now it is not divided sooner or later, he doesn't take you as his anything, otherwise even if he doesn't deliberately say it inadvertently, this kind of joy or happiness from the inside out can't be hidden at all, he can hide it shows that he has no special feelings for you, maybe you are an ordinary friend of his.
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I'm curious about what such a boyfriend is worried about? Are you afraid of going to the level of family review when you talk about marriage? 22 years old is not mature enough, you should both have 1-2 years to spend on the progress of the relationship in a non-marital relationship, but after 1-2 years, you will be happy, and you can only get together and disperse, and you still have time and energy to meet the next paragraph.
Otherwise, if it drags on for 3-4 years, if you don't get married or break off your relationship, you can't afford to spend another one on each other.
Perhaps, he was afraid of being independent of the family and taking on another small family. Cowardice = lack of confidence. Can it be inferred, then, that he still has concerns about the economy or other aspects?
The girlfriend may be beautiful enough and has a good family background, but on the other hand, as a man, he is not enough to take on the psychological and external conditions of a family. I don't know if this kind of inference is okay, of course, the emotional matter is still your own business, and it is still superfluous for outsiders to point fingers.
A very good man, it means that he is a responsible person, but also a caring person, true love for his family is a man who dares to take responsibility, I believe that such a man will be good to you after marriage, believe in your own vision, marry such a man You will be happy for a lifetime, his brother's problem is not a big deal, I believe that he will always grow up one day, you should help your boyfriend, give him more love, bless you!
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