What should I do if the squad leader begged me to be her girlfriend in front of the Buddha?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-13
59 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It seems that he is not asking for Buddha, but expressing his good opinion of you to everyone. Don't worry. Because you are too young to do anything that you will regret for the rest of your life.

    If you believe in Buddhism, you can tell you that there is a sentence in the Buddhist scriptures that "you should live without a place and give birth to your mind" Only by not being attached to accidents can you see the heart and become enlightened, free from foolishness, and become wise and wise. Don't be afraid of what your friends and classmates will say, just think of them as good intentions. Face them with your smile.

    is talking about that boy, you can give him a more tactful and clear refusal, and his studies are the first priority.

    I don't think the Buddha will take care of the prayers of the social moral standards, let alone punish you.

    Concentrate on your studies, little sister.

    There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Do you not want to go to school because it is humiliating to be told in front of the Buddha?

    Or are you afraid to face her?

    I'm sure many people have said that escaping is fruitless.

    If you don't want to hurt him, make it clear to him as soon as possible.

    If you keep procrastinating, you will only give him hope, and when you think clearly about giving him an answer, his accumulated expectations will only turn into despair because of your hesitation.

    Trust me and tell him as soon as possible that neither side will be harmed.

    It has been said that waiting is sweet sorrow.

    But the sweetness will eventually turn into bitterness because it can't be obtained.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There is nothing that you dare not go to school, love is two-sided, and if you don't agree, you can't have two loves. You should clearly explain it to that boy, don't waste everyone's time, let him understand that your thoughts are the most important thing as soon as possible, and have to be courageous I support you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Just tell him that you don't like him, that you can't put it off.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What is there not to dare to do.

    He asks the Buddha just to show you an appearance, otherwise you can meditate in your heart, and if you say ordinary wishes, it will not work. Also, can he afford to make a wish?

    Don't be afraid to go to school, tell him clearly that it's impossible. And also as usual. When the classmates chatted, they said that it was impossible for them to be with him, and told everyone not to joke.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you don't like it, you don't like it, two words 'refuse'. At that time, your happiness is also, no matter what other people say, your happiness is more important than their gossip!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Believe in your own feelings, don't believe in so many superstitions, and if he said a little too much that day, then you should do the same.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Naturally face everything, and don't you confess to him? Afraid of what? If you don't like it, tell him bluntly, so that he completely dispelled this idea!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you love him, you will promise her, if you don't love him, tell him, don't let the family lose its youth.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Oh''What's wrong!'' If he likes you, or if you like him, why should you be so afraid to go to school?' This boy is so sincere that he will love you!!

    But I don't know him as a net, "If you do, you think it's okay!" The question is whether you like him or not?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The opinion is someone else's, the feeling is yours, don't force yourself if you don't like it!!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't be with a guy like this who doesn't think about other people's feelings, and you don't like him!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Whatever they do, go their own way.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Seeking Buddha?? The Buddha said, "I don't go to hell, who goes to hell."

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you are a monk, you have to take ordination. No. If it's your own faith, you can.

    Also, I think we should look at Leng Yan first. Strict destruction of all evil ways. It's very clear inside.

    If you don't know the Lengyan Sutra. I read a book about evil sects. You don't feel right or wrong.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is permissible for a layman to marry.

    Dharma Study. Please listen to Master Jingkong's "Four Teachings of Lifan", "Taishang Induction Chapter", "Jizo Sutra" and "Amitayus Sutra".

    The "Path to Liberation", "Ahama Sutra", "Heart Sutra" and "Diamond Sutra" taught by the Dharma Master

    Jian Fengwen layman talked about the "Lengyan Sutra", "Yuanjue Sutra", "Lenga Sutra", "Six Ancestors Altar Sutra" and "Three Ancestors Faith Inscription".

    The vowel old man speaks of "Lotus Flower Record".

    Master Shengyi's "Diamond Sutra" and "Six Patriarchs Altar Sutra".

    There is a link to the Sanhui Zen room at the bottom of the homepage of my space, and there is one. Amitabha.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Buddhism has a stage of initiation, a stage of learning, and a stage of practice. Strict requirements must only be observed if it is necessary to move on to the practical phase after studying. In other words, it is possible to live a secular life before entering the monastic position.

    Also, I suggest you read "Buddhism and the Atomic Age" and "Buddhist View of Science". Well, may you become enlightened.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What does it have to do with believing in Buddhism Whether you find a girlfriend or not has to do with your own life and psychology Don't have anything to do with Buddha It's simply something that can't be beaten by 8 stalks Hungry... I'm sorry, I'm too excited.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you don't become a monk, it's okay to just believe.

    Or if you are a refuge, you can also start a family!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's okay to believe in Taoism, but it's okay to believe in any religion at all, and it's okay to worship heaven and dharma group to be more free.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The directors are not hindered, and everything is unhindered. Got it?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Men with Guanyin and women with Buddha!

    If you don't have a special saying or belief or anything, you can give anything! Nothing good or bad!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Some people are not allowed to bring Buddha drops! That's what people say! I don't know.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Look at what she believes, just believe in Buddhism.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If she believed in God, it would have been better to send her cross.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's not a good idea, but the chances of success are greater, and I think it's going to be bigger.

    Go for it, be brave and bold to love.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's nothing, what do you want to ask?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Chen Xiaoxu finished the "personnel", became a monk, and went to do "Buddhist things".

    It's quite difficult to find someone who does "Buddhist things" first and then "personnel".

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's easy, I'm a believer.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In fact, as long as you fall in love with yourself, does it matter whether you believe in Buddhism or not, isn't love just in an instant?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Believing in Buddhism is a kind of faith, but it does not have to be said, it should be manifested in practical actions, some people believe in Buddhism, but they do some bad things that should not be done, I think this way of believing in Buddhism is not what you want, so if you want to find an object of believing in Buddhism, then you should see if this girl is kind-hearted and loving, and then you have a common language Therefore, it is difficult to find the object of believing in Buddhism, and it is easy to say, don't think that two people with the same beliefs will have a common language, It depends on your different views A belief has many forms, if you have different views and different ways, then you will not be happy together, and there may be some unnecessary disputes So you still have to choose rationally I hope you can find your other half soon Good luck!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Are you talking about Chen Xiaoxu playing Daiyu! What a pity! She is a monk, I like her very much, you want to find a girlfriend who believes in Buddhism, what do you like about them! Is it kindness? It's not difficult! The heart is the spirit!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's not difficult, there are many girls here in southern Fujian who believe in it, and I also have a colleague who also believes in it, do I want to introduce it to you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Believing in Buddhism is just a kind of faith, a kind of spiritual sustenance, and it has little to do with falling in love, but if you have a high degree of faith, such as abstaining from alcohol, abstaining from meat, and so on, then you must also abide by it, otherwise it will be difficult to get along. If you really love her, learn to tolerate!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you can't find it, ask the Buddha or the Bodhisattva to fulfill your marriage, if you can't find it, it can only mean that you are not sincere with the Buddha, the Buddha said: The heart is sincere.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    There are many girls who believe in Buddhism.

    As for whether it is difficult for you to find a girlfriend, it depends on you, first of all, you have to have a heart to heart with her.

    Secondly, he has to like you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Using the Buddha as a tool for marriage? You're so creative!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's not difficult, you can find it by going around the temple gate.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Believing in Buddhism is just a kind of faith, people have faith to rely on, you have to make your other half think that you are relying on it, so if you want others to be good, you must be worthy of dependence.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It seems that most of the people who believe in Buddhism are women and old ladies.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's hard to say, it's not difficult to say, it's not difficult to say, for a person, the most important thing is to act, turn your ideas into motivation to realize, to pursue her, there are many girls around us who believe in Buddhism, then you have to polish your eyes and find her. Everything is fateful, but you also have to work hard! May you find the Snow White in your heart!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I don't want to find a Buddhist girlfriend to death.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I don't want to be jealous when I am killed, it's all robber necrosis.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's not hard to have a place where women are all Buddhists, and they haven't had a boyfriend for a long time. It's already to the extent of the fat pig Saifan'an. This place is called Nun Ann.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I seem to have seen people who want to become nuns here, so why don't you talk about it?; -

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's harder. There are very few girls who really believe in Buddhism, and they have never met anyone who believes in money, and Chen Xiaoxu is rare in the whole country, hehe.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Girls who are truly kind generally believe in Buddhism, so look at what should be around you.

    Buddha bless, that house Amitabha Buddha!!

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    The third floor can be considered, the second floor is enough to joke, people should ask questions should be consulted seriously, and they have come to the Buddhist family to think that they should have some Buddhist insight. What do you do when you talk about fake monks? The false monk himself will go to hell to repay his karma.

    What about my girlfriend, I think it's better to go with the flow, don't force it, as long as you can accept the basic principles of Buddhism, it's very fateful, and slowly helping her establish Buddhist beliefs is not also a merit? But if you can find a Buddhist girlfriend with the right view in your heart, then your friend is blessed.

    I'm just a suggestion, men and women think it's better to go with the flow, two people can understand each other, all aspects of compatibility after living together and accompanying each other, don't be too attached to some conditions, obsessed with some changes in external conditions have the true meaning of the Dharma, you say.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    To find a girl who is cultivating, you must have a common faith, and you must make the other person's family acceptable, you must do things according to the common faith, think about everything you encounter at any time, and do what you will do if you put it on the Buddha and Bodhisattva.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Since you believe in Buddhism, you have to believe that the Bodhisattva mother will arrange it, as long as your heart is firm enough, study the Buddha and chant the sutras well, everything will be fine.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Did you find it? I have a little sister who wants to find a boyfriend to work with

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    I'm a Buddhist girl, can we be friends?

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Today's monks eat, drink, prostitute and gamble, do everything, but still have a salary.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    The Buddha said: Color is emptiness. Emptiness is color.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Ask the rest of my elementary school classmates.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    and other fate, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to meet on the other side.

    The donor does a lot of good, and fate comes naturally.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    I know a lady who is a Buddhist student with a gold collar.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    I know a lot. The question is, why do people contact you?

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    I guess it's based on the notion that it's hard to bring Guanyin and a woman to bring a Buddha, but actually, it's a bit wrong.

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