I m distressed and lost right now...

You are young and should enjoy this wonderful season of love. There's no need to think too much, just be happy together, to be honest, you know what you do today, you don't know how the world will change tomorrow, why would you reject beautiful things, and accept it boldly.

As for the cousin's story, it's all in the past, so what does it matter. As for your self-confidence, why not, a very sunny boy chooses you, will you still have self-confidence? As for the future he is planning, you can't fully trust it, why should you trust it completely, are you absolutely sure that your dream of becoming a doctor when you are young will be realized?

No, the ideal is a vision, it's good to have it, don't pursue it too much.

You said I'm sorry cousin, there shouldn't be any need to worry about this. Feelings are like this, and there is no reason to have too much guilt. (if it's a normal relationship).

It's hard to know what kind of person he is with your simple description of him. Be really like you or just having fun!

If his character is really good, he is also sincere to you, and you should not be yourself.

Landlord. I've had your experience too.

Ay! No way.

People are like that.

I don't want to feel bad again.

But you have to believe.

In fact, the lack of love is not the very painful kind.

Because you still have your friends and relatives around you who care and love you!

You have to be strong! You have to work hard to live...

In fact, I lost a girlfriend I had been talking about for several years. No boy can face it.

But so what? Lost or lost.

After all, I once loved each other and worked hard for her. Touched.

Isn't that enough to let go of the baggage in your heart?

Actually, I've thought about dying before...

But I was still stopped by friends and family.

Because there are many things in a person's life that make it worthwhile!

I hope you face your life path well.

Lose her. The earth will still turn the same way.

Hehe. The same thing.

Hope you get rid of it soon...The pain of falling out of love!

Smile at life!

Don't feel like you can't face your cousin, love if you want, don't be depressed anymore, be bold to love and speak out, it will make you feel very relieved all at once. Don't think too much about it, since he is so sincere, plan your future. Give him a chance, it's as simple as that!

LOVE, LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE ... Being young did not fail

Dude, come on to find a goal, you have to have a goal in the short term, such as completing one thing every day, this is really useful, force yourself to do it, after a long time, you will find that I have done so many meaningful things!

Secondly, remember that your job is what you love, and without this love, what would you do badly? As long as you have love, no matter how ordinary the job is, in your eyes, it is the best, and you will not work hard for the tiredness of running around.

Now I advise you to read more, the black American scientist in 2012 still remember, college career, four years, 2000 books, equivalent to 500 books a year, what a big number, and this number, the achievement of the scientist who saved mankind (although it is a movie, but it depends on the reason). If you are interested, you may wish to slowly transition to the professional side, if you really can't work, your hobby will become your life** It is not necessarily. Anyway, this paragraph is to tell you that if you read more and understand more, your self-confidence will be built.

Here my brother recommends a set of books, called "Terrible Science", a very interesting set similar to an encyclopedia, not boring, although this is a child's reading thing, but I think, if you read all the books in that set, all understand, benefit a lot! That's the case with my little brother.

As for your feelings, this really depends on fate, but sometimes you have to create fate for yourself.

If you feel that you can't even take care of yourself, you might as well do a thorough cleaning of the place where you live, change your mood, and slowly learn to cook something delicious, which can not only treat yourself, but also help you chase the people you like

Find confidence first. Then we can talk about something else.

If you have a goal, you will be motivated, you don't have a clear goal.

You have found out what you are missing, why don't you pay attention to it? In fact, what others say and do is temporary for you, and it does not play a key role, the key is still up to you. There is a saying that I am born to be useful, no big deal, cheer up and do it well!

You have to tell yourself that you're normal, that you're very organized, that you just don't want to open up to people, so people don't understand you and say you're not normal, and you have to constantly let people know what you're doing and thinking, even if it's to deceive people, to satisfy other people's curiosity about you, and to make it look like you're just like a normal person.

Well written article!

Everything else is nonsense, in short, everything is on your own!

Dude, you actually have abnormal people, but I think you are a genius kind of person, and your problem is a bit serious to be honest, so it's best to consult a professional such as a psychologist. Also, don't think that it's a bad thing to find a psychiatrist, it's normal.

Get yourself back and try to communicate with others.

After listening to the lecture "How to manage a life without regrets", you will not be confused.

I know high school is hard, but I think you need to keep going, because it's hard to find a job right now. When you graduate from high school, self-examination is a way out, and now there are self-examination classes in various universities, and I myself am also from self-examination, but I also want to say that self-examination is very difficult, and it is not so easy to pass. You can choose computer science as your major, and my sister majored in computer science.