Should the house of the boyfriend and ex wife be sold

I think you and your boyfriend are right, as an outsider, from a rational point of view, I still agree with your boyfriend's point of view, even if you have a house, you have to take out a loan to buy a house, isn't it an increase in the burden for no reason? You're about to become his wife, men are actually very hard, be considerate. Of course, your idea is also right, where you stay in this house, you will inadvertently imagine that the woman used to be here...

So my advice is: you talk to your boyfriend, redecorate and buy new furniture, and make it completely different from before! You should also be generous, although the location has not changed, but everything has changed, there should be no more shadows!

Either you are looking for a buyer to sell the house, but it is about the same as the price of the house you want to buy again, don't afford too much, and then it will be about the same. Let's discuss it with your boyfriend You are about to become a bride, I wish you a happy wedding in advance.

If you especially want to buy a new home, you can seek some financial support, such as borrowing money from your parents. But it must be borrowed, don't take your parents' money and use it, regardless of the pension of the elderly. If you have a part of your savings, it's a good idea to pay for the house with your husband.

If you want to change the furniture in the house and live in it temporarily, you can move the furniture and appliances that can still be used when you buy a new house, and leave the simplest furniture for the tenant. There is no need to leave it all to the tenant, too much furniture and appliances can increase the rent, but the difficulty of renting also increases. So you don't need to buy all the new ones when you move.

It's best to be realistic and think about your and your husband's financial problems and future economic plans. After all, you have to live in the future. Since neither of you is particularly financially wealthy (you haven't mentioned how much money you want to contribute to this new home, so I don't think you may have a lot of financial power on your own) so I don't recommend doing it all at once.

Because there are many uncertain factors and risks in life, don't put all your money on real estate, because children's schooling and medical care for the elderly will be big expenses in the future.

Your boyfriend's idea is very correct and realistic, the house is a real estate and will appreciate due to the appreciation of the location, so the specific value cannot be accurately estimated.

If you don't have money, you should listen to your boyfriend.

It's still very hard every month.,But the man will tell you that it doesn't matter if you buy it or not.,I've lived there for so long.。。。

Summary. Obviously, your boyfriend still has feelings for his ex-wife, and his behavior is not friendly enough to you and is a bit hurtful.

The boyfriend buys something for his ex-wife's house.

Obviously, your boyfriend still has feelings for his ex-wife, and his behavior is not friendly enough to you and is a bit hurtful.

If your boyfriend is just shopping with his ex-wife and nothing else, you can actually open one eye and close the other.

But if he crosses the line and always pays to his ex-wife frequently, you need to have a good chat with him in the case of Xie Ying.

What should I do, he didn't tell me, I knew it myself, and I didn't ask him what he bought.

Give him a lesson when necessary.

What is his relationship with you?

He has made it clear to me that if we get married, he will do his own thing.

That's not okay, it's disrespectful diagonally.

It is inconvenient for you to provide a screenshot of your recent chat history with him.

He won't let others tie him down, and he's going to talk to other women, so let's see how he treats you.

His attitude is really not to treat you as a girlfriend.

Ever thought about breaking up with him?

yes, I don't think I'm hairy in his eyes.

If you've ever lived together, you're at a loss.

I thought about it, but I don't know why I couldn't let it go.

He's now clear that he's going to do his own thing.

I don't care much about you anymore.

You can't let go because you have some feelings for him.

And then you spent so much time with him, got used to him, and gave him something.

It's that I paid a lot, but I got such a result.

I feel very lost.

Need to introduce you to the fact that you can start a new relationship again.

Summary. Dear, the money for the house is not given to his ex-wife, the house is impossible to transfer, how many months are you pregnant?

My boyfriend and his ex-wife have only been divorced for a short time My boyfriend's house has his ex-wife's name written on it When I bought the house I didn't have enough money to borrow 200,000 from her mother's family Now I am divorced and I am married to her 100,000 yuan A total of 300,000 Her family asked to pay it off within two years, but I can't pay it off because my boyfriend has no money now, so I can only wait to pay off the money in the transfer house But Chunshan is I'm pregnant, do I still want to continue with him, what should I do?

Your boyfriend and his ex-wife have only divorced not long ago, their previous house is in the name of his ex-wife, when he bought the house, he borrowed 200,000 from her mother's family, and gave him 100,000 yuan in compensation for the divorce, a total of 300,000, her family asked to pay it off within two years, if it is not paid off in the dry year, he will not cooperate with the transfer, your boyfriend has no money now, he can only wait for the money to be paid off, and then transfer the house, dear, in fact, to be honest, they divorced his ex-wife did not want a house, and it was already very good if the house was not divided, normally speaking, If the ex-wife asks for the division of the property, it is also reasonable.

So what do I do now, but I'm pregnant.

Dear, can the house be sold? Isn't it okay to sell it for cash, return the money to him, and buy it again?

My boyfriend didn't agree to sell it for cash, and he would lose hundreds of thousands So he didn't agree Just now I had a fight because I asked him to sell the house.

He didn't agree with the sale of the house, what kind of attitude he had now, what did he want to do?

He didn't want to sell. Dear, he doesn't want to sell the house, but he wants to come up with a plan, you are pregnant, what should you do now, he trembles quickly, has no ideas and plans, this must know what his attitude is, and then you can know how you should do it.

What he said was that a year later, he would directly transfer the ownership under the child's famous town Youyuan, and I regret it now, I have never been married, and I am looking for a second marriage, and I don't want to continue with the grinding stool, but it is not easy for me to raise a child alone, and the child will not have a father.

Dear, the money for the house is not given to his ex-wife, the house is impossible to transfer, how many months are you pregnant?

It's been more than a month.

You're more than a month pregnant now, and is your boyfriend the two of you married? Have you got a marriage license? Did he have children before?

Living in the house of your boyfriend and ex-wife, or buying a new one, depends on the conditions.

One. Since they have chosen to get married, of course, the relationship between two people has reached this kind of situation where they want to live together and are very suitable for each other.

Two. Feelings should get along for a longer time and run in well, because strangers have their own personalities and some tempers, so getting along together should test a person's sincerity through time.

Three. Your boyfriend and ex-wife have a house, so when you get married, consider whether you want to live in this house or buy a new one? That must depend on the man's thoughts, if the man has the conditions, then he will consider buying a new one.

You should ask the man for his opinion. If you want to buy a bad imitation, it must be the two of you who have received a marriage certificate and bought a new house together. Otherwise, he has the conditions to buy it himself, and it has nothing to do with you, and it belongs to premarital property.

But you now live in his house, which is also his pre-marital property, if one day you are separated. It has nothing to do with you. Burning fiber, so living in the new and living in the old depends on whether he wants to buy it or not?

You can't seem to decide this.

Break up with your boyfriend directly, this kind of man doesn't break up and stays for the New Year. Since it's an ex-wife, it has nothing to do with him, let alone anything to do with his current girlfriend. If you want to save others, you have to see if you have the financial ability, if your boyfriend has the financial ability, he can help if he wants to.

If you don't force others to sell your house, this kind of person has a problem with her character. People with character problems must not be chosen, and there will be endless troubles in the future.

One. It shows that the boyfriend has no sense of boundaries at all

If you can't let go of your ex-wife in your heart, you shouldn't make a new girlfriend, and if you have a girlfriend, you have to treat your ex-wife, you can go by yourself, why pull your current girlfriend into the water. Still selling houses, how is it possible, who would do this. The key is that the boyfriend is thick-skinned enough, and ordinary people really can't open their mouths about this kind of thing.

Since he has spoken, it proves that he regards his current girlfriend's assets as his own, and marrying this kind of person must be a chicken feather in married life.

Two. This kind of man seems to be affectionate and righteous on the surface, but in fact he is extremely selfish

The boyfriend still regards his ex-wife as his own in his bones, and since he is an ex-wife, it means that he has been divorced. The best ex is the death of the ex, is it really good to take care of the ex-wife's affairs regardless of it? Maybe his ex-wife doesn't like him either.

When you can't let go of one person in your heart, it's not suitable to fall in love, and making the relationship between three people so complicated shows that your boyfriend doesn't have the ability to solve problems.

Three. In the boyfriend's mind, the ex-wife's position is greater than the current girlfriend.

If the ex-wife is sick and wants the current girlfriend to sell the house, if the current girlfriend is sick, will the ex-wife sell the house? In fact, the boyfriend makes the relationship very clear, that is, he squeezes his current girlfriend, which shows that the weight of the ex-wife in the boyfriend's mind is too heavy, so heavy that he can let go of everything, and he doesn't even want his face. It is estimated that the boyfriend's money was also spent on his ex-wife.

This kind of thing is unacceptable to anyone.

Hurry up and break up, if you meet this kind of man, you must take a taxi and run, and you don't have to worry so much about it at all. If your boyfriend loves you, he won't ask this question, and since you asked, if you refuse, maybe your boyfriend will scold you for being selfish and cold. Didn't think about his girlfriend at all.

refuse, it's his ex-wife, and if he wants to treat his ex-wife, let him find a way to sell the house himself. If he has to force you to sell the house, then call the police.

Why should my house be sold to treat your ex-wife? Since you are divorced, it is your duty to help, and it is your duty not to help. What obligation do I have to make such a sacrifice, break up.

First of all, who made money to buy the house, if it is your husband's money, then you can learn from what kind of person his ex-wife is, and does your boyfriend still have feelings for her......Consider these aspects, if it is your house, it must not be, and if he still has feelings for his ex-wife, then he can't be the wrongdoer.

If you have paid off the loan or purchased the loan in full and have **, it is considered the first house, and it is recommended to consult the lending bank or relevant departments for details.

Seven situations that the bank identifies as a second home.

1. If the parents have a house in their name, they will buy a house in the name of their minor children.

Details: According to the new policy, family members include the borrower, spouse and minor children, i.e. minor children are also classified as family. Therefore, when applying for a loan to buy a house in the name of a minor child, it will be implemented in accordance with the second home policy.

2. When you are a minor, you have a property in your name, and then you can take out a loan to buy a house when you are an adult.

Explanation: According to the current bank"Subscribe to the loan and the house"If you do not have an existing property, the refinancing to buy a house is a second house, and it will be implemented in accordance with the policy of the second house. According to the past policy, as long as there is no loan for the property when the minor, the application for a mortgage is not considered a second set.

3. If you have a house purchased in full under your name, you can buy a house with a loan.

Explanation: In the past only"Pledge", this case is not considered a second house, but now it has been added"Acknowledging the room"Although there is no loan, as long as the property can be found in the housing property rights transaction system, if it is not sold and the loan is applied, it will also be recognized as a second house.

4. If you have a loan to buy a house under your name, you can take out a loan to buy a house after you settle it.

Details: At present, the bank identifies the second house as yes"Recognize the house and the loan"That is to say, although the property purchased with a loan is no longer in the name of the family, because it has a previous loan record, applying for a mortgage will also be counted as a second house.

5. Use a commercial loan for the first time to buy a house, and use a provident fund loan for a second house.

Details: At present, the provident fund loan policy is also relatively strict, as long as the borrower has a housing loan record, regardless of whether the mortgage is paid off, whether the property is **, even if the provident fund loan has never been used, the first application for a provident fund loan will be counted as a second house.

6. One party had taken out a loan to buy a house before marriage, and after marriage, he applied for a loan to buy a house in the name of the other party, but the two were not together.

Detailed explanation: Although the husband and wife did not have a household registration after marriage, they had a marriage registration at the Civil Affairs Bureau. Now, in addition to the borrower's household registration book, the bank will also require the borrower to provide proof of marital status when approving the loan, and married couples cannot provide proof of singleness, so the other party will also be counted as a second home when buying a house.

7. After marriage, both parties jointly take out a loan to buy a house, and one party applies for a loan to buy a house after divorce.

Explanation: As long as the mortgage record can be found in the credit information system of the central bank, even if the property is awarded to one party after divorce, the other party will be recognized as a second house when refinancing to buy a house.