Some people, for their ideal career. Is it selfish not to go home to see your parents for a few year

Updated on society 2024-06-24
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It is indeed not easy to work hard for your ideal career.

    It is also understandable that the long interval between going home to visit my parents for a career is also understandable. But if you don't go home to see your parents for a few years, it's a bit unreasonable and selfish. After all, the time to spend with your parents will become less and less, and the career will never end.

    I hope that the children of the world can often go home to see, their parents are here, there is still a way to come in life, and when their parents go, there is only a way back.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's selfishness. Isn't it selfish because your parents have worked so hard to raise you so big, and have put so much energy and money into raising you but have not received a little return, and it is not so simple to go home to see your parents for the sake of your so-called ideal career?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This is not called selfishness, it is unfilial piety! If this ideal cause is beneficial to the country and the people, and can bring great benefits to the country and the people, it can still be forgiven, since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety cannot be both!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It can't be regarded as selfish, isn't it difficult to have both loyalty and filial piety since ancient times? So this thing depends on how you pursue it, and how your family thinks about it, because everyone's opinion is different, as we often say, only the foot knows whether the shoe fits or not.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Some people, some situations are selfish, some situations are not. But as far as ordinary people are concerned, it is indeed a bit too much not to go home to visit their parents for a few years, but they can also be contacted by phone frequently, and it is also very convenient to call. Some people who are away from home often have to go home to see, and the old man doesn't want how much wealth you have, and he is satisfied to see that you are safe and sound.

    As a son of man, filial piety is his own responsibility, and as an employee, due diligence is the need of work.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Some people don't go home to visit their parents for the sake of their ideals and careersSome people don't go home to visit their parents for their ideals and careers, in this case it's not, but some people may have poor family conditions. Only some people do not go home to visit their parents for the sake of their ideals and career memorials, which is not the case, but some people may have poor family conditions. He can only struggle on his own, so he spends all his time at work.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Personally, I feel that if you give up your life ideals because of your parents, this is actually some moral kidnapping. After all, your life is up to you, don't change your plan for the future because of anyone or anything, otherwise you will really regret it when you look back on it later. And I think that although people nowadays want to go to the big city, not everyone can get a foothold in the big city.

    Although there will be more opportunities in big cities, there are also more people, and they may not be able to grasp that opportunity, and the pressure of competition is also great. This is a big challenge for those who are single and want to go out and work hard. So I think you should go to the big city outside to work hard and see if you can carve out a little world of your own.

    If you can gain a firm foothold outside, there is no need to go back to a small place in your hometown, and you can take your parents out to live with you, so that you can not only take care of your parents, but also realize your life ideals, which is a two-pronged thing.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It must be selfish, even if it is for the ideal career, I have to go home to see my parents, after all, family affection cannot be bought by money, and companionship cannot be bought by money.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Some people do not go home to see their parents for several years for the sake of their ideals and careers, not because they are selfish, but because of the needs of their work, such as being a soldier or an astronaut.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is not entirely selfish for children not to go home to visit the elderly for the sake of work. Children are very busy with work, the elderly can go to the children's place of work to visit the children, now the transportation is convenient, when going out to travel, but also family reunion, killing two birds with one stone.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Such a person is a person with an ideal career and ambition, and if his career is not successful, he resolutely does not go home to see his parents, which is not selfish, but on the contrary, it is a manifestation of filial piety to his parents

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personally, I think that some people do not go home to visit their parents for several years for the sake of their ideals and careers, which is a very selfish behavior. Because no matter how busy you are with your career, there will always be time to go home and see your parents.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It can't be said to be selfish, it may be that I really don't have time, and I want to go home after making some grades, but ** should be played often to avoid worrying about my parents.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Is it selfish for some people not to go home to see their parents for a few years for the sake of their ideal career? I think some people don't go home for a few years for their ideal career, and it can't be said to be selfish, because they also miss their parents, but they can't leave because of work, and there is no way, just like the so-called loyalty and filial piety can't be both.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Some people do not go home to visit their parents for several years for their ideals, not because they are selfish, but because they feel that they can work hard to make their mother's life better.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Is it selfish for some people to not go home to see their parents for several years for the sake of their ideal career? I think that it is not selfish to not go home to visit my parents for a few years for the sake of my ideal career, but for the sake of my ideal career, which can be understood by my parents.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think it's also a kind of selfishness. Although for the sake of career and ideals. But you can't forget your parents. Not even going home for a few years. I think that for the sake of my career and ideals, I will not forget my parents. Visiting your parents does not affect your career.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's not selfishness, it's that I don't want to go back at all. What a busy thing, a few days of the New Year will not delay how big a thing, besides, the New Year is peaceful after the New Year, how can you have the heart to deal with things in your career.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Are it selfish for some people to not go home to see their parents for several years for the sake of their ideal career? I think parents should understand that it is not easy to work hard outside, so it is not selfish, it is not easy to live.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Why do some people have their own careers and are they selfish not going home to visit their parents for a few years? Telling you is of course selfish, because parents are the most important people in the world.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Parents can understand this situation, but for their own affairs for several years have not gone home to see their parents, it is enough, every festival to think of relatives, parents must want their children, do not to the time when the son wants filial piety and does not wait, at that time, regret is too late.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, visiting their parents is not selfish, they are just for their own lives, and they really want to live a better life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is not a question of selfishness or not, sometimes it is also forced by life, who does not want to visit their parents, but is not allowed to leave their posts due to work reasons, and is also forced to helpless.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Although such a person is home, but there are still I think he is not very old, and his parents' health is also very good, and he can rest assured that his parents are working hard to make money outside, which cannot be understood as selfishness, after all, he is for the happiness of the whole family.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No, it's also impatient, because the work is stubborn, and the work can't be separated, so I can't go back.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Some people don't go home to see their parents for a few years for the sake of their ideal career, so this kind of problem is also determined according to the situation, sometimes because they can't go back because they are busy with work, which can't be regarded as selfish.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think that such people don't look at their parents because they are busy with work and don't have time to visit them, or because they don't have a successful career, they don't look at their parents, but I think they should visit their parents and honor the elderly when they don't have time.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You can work hard for your career, but you can't forget your parents, it is necessary to go home for the holidays, and don't wait until your parents are old to regret it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    So why are you so selfish? Man lives to survive. People must have a sense of responsibility, it is not easy for your parents to raise you, you must have the heart to repay them. The size of the capacity is another matter. He could not live without gratitude.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Life is just a few decades, the world is still very big, there are still many things we don't know, and there are still many delicious and beautiful beauties waiting for us.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In fact, people are like this, human nature is like this, in fact, if everyone can be irresponsible, they will definitely choose to be irresponsible, but most people will accept the constraints of morality and law, and the rules and regulations.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Take a break when you're tired, your situation should be too stressful and tired. Don't think too much, you will face a lot of unsatisfactory in life, don't deliberately magnify. Just do your best.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    People must have the responsibility and obligation to do it, which is also the meaning of zhi, we should be a law-abiding Chinese.

    Be patriotic and dedicated, respect the elders, protect the younger generations, establish your own goals and small plans, live well, don't imitate others at will, don't envy other people's lives, and should have an independent personality.

    There are a lot of uncertainties in life, and we should enjoy this uncertainty and not, negativity, which is the motivation to go on.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Why do people live? It's because there are too many desires, too many ideals, I don't want to take responsibility, I don't want to get parents, that's not advisable, I hope you adopt it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In order to pursue a better tomorrow and live the life they want, they must repay their parents, they must take responsibility, and they know how to be grateful, so they live strongly.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In order to make life meaningful, people live to solve all kinds of problems and love life.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Young people don't want that. There are no desires, no ideals, no responsibility, no desire to repay parents. It shouldn't be.

    You're really tired, so what about your parents.

    Aren't they tired? You should repay your parents.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you hate yourself, it means that this kind of life is wrong, so you must change it to become a bright feeling!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I don't think you're finding your true happiness, or that your current life isn't what you're happy with. Go for a change, go for a change in your state.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Everyone is born not to choose by themselves, but since they have come to this world, they should live well, no matter what it is, they must live well, so that they can not come this time in vain.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    A person's life, how can it be as good as it should be, but I want to be worthy of my heart, life is short, I don't have to regret it, I don't have to regret it, I don't have to regret it, in this life, some things are unexpected; Some things make sense, and maybe it all makes sense. The most important thing is to calm down, there is nothing that can't be passed, only a mood that can't be passed; Yes, everything will pass.

    Alive, too many people, too many things, it is impossible for everything to be satisfactory, and it is impossible for everyone to know their hearts. Be positive and optimistic, be optimistic and open-minded, solve difficulties by yourself, and resolve troubles by yourself. There is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, and there is no road that cannot be walked.

    When there is sunshine in the heart, life will be sunny everywhere. Don't envy what others have, as long as you work hard, God will naturally give it to you. Life is right and wrong, life is joy, anger and sorrow, happiness is contentment, and troubles are self-inflicted.

    Don't retreat in life; Do not retreat in the face of difficulties; Do not retreat in the face of setbacks; Don't back down in the face of failure. There is nothing that cannot be passed, only the mood that cannot be passed; If the heart is clear, there will be no rainy days in life. Life is warm and cold, we must face it calmly and look at it calmly; The world is hot and cold, so we must be at peace with the encounter and deal with it calmly.

    Taste the flavors of life, and life is brilliant! Love yourself well and be kind to those around you. Care for your life, live the rest of your life with tolerance and generosity, be empathetic, don't care about gains and losses, and don't let people have regrets in life!

    There is nothing that people can't get over in their lives, only the mood that they can't get by. If the heart is clear, there will be no rainy days in life. I admire Su Shi's happiness Xiao:

    And the new fire will try the new tea, and the poetry and wine will take advantage of the years. As long as you have a happy mood and an optimistic attitude, on the road of walking life, you will be wronged, you will say, forget it! Even if you suffer a loss on when you will say, it doesn't matter!

    Be it success or failure you will think that everything will pass! Because it is impossible for everything to go well in a person's life, there are difficulties and troubles, and we must learn to resolve them by ourselves. May everyone live happily, and may the people you care about live happily!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    This is that there is no ideal of life, no responsibility of life, and no ambition of life, so it feels that there is no point in living.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You are a coward, a coward, people should repay their parents when they live, and they should take responsibility if they repay society! Do you eat and drink for nothing?

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Why do people live? There are no desires, ideals, I don't want to take responsibility, I don't want to repay my parents. It's really exhausting.

    I'm really selfish and disgusting, so change yourself, make yourself responsible, and slowly you will grow up, and you will find that it is very happy to live like this.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    In fact, everyone is very hard and tired, and all we can do is try to do it well.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Those who leave you when you are in trouble, who are unwilling to help you, or who even fall into the trap are not worthy of deep friendship. At that time, I had no money, and I had a problem in my life, and I borrowed money from a friend, but he ignored me and said that I was too poor behind my back. They call you brothers and sisters when you are not in trouble, and once you are in trouble, they run faster than anyone else, and such people cannot be deeply acquainted.

    Those who do one thing in front of them and one thing behind their backs are not worthy of deep friendship. Some people do it in front of you, but they are secretly hurting you behind your back, such people have problems with their own morality, and such people are not worthy of deep friendship at all. Because he can speak ill of you to your face, and he can also speak ill of you behind your back.

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