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Personally, I don't think his biological parents will be sad. Because for this child, in the decades that he stayed with his adoptive parents, he never thought that he might be abducted and trafficked, and he was not the biological child of his adoptive parents. Therefore, in such a situation, he does not know his background, so he can regard his adoptive parents as his biological parents.
So he has such a deep affection for his adoptive parents, in fact, it can also prove from the side that the adoptive parents love this child as if it were their own biological child。Therefore, even if the child chooses to stay with his adoptive parents even when he learns that he is not the biological child of his adoptive parents, it is enough to show that the care he has received by his adoptive parents over the years is no less than the care and love that he may have received by his biological parents. So when the biological parents see the child make such a decision, I think to a certain extent, they should be happy.
I am glad that even if my children have not been by their side for decades, they still enjoy the same care as their biological parents. Of course, the child did not choose to return to the biological parents, which may be a kind of sadness for the biological parents, because they must hope that the child can return to their side after decades of experience in searching for the child, but if the child does not make such a choice in the end, I think the parents may feel sad, but they will not be sad because of it. <>
Because as long as you find the child and see that his current life is happy, it is actually a kind of fulfillment for the parents. Because at the beginning, I was afraid that my child would be abused because I was not by my side, or that I would not be happy, so I tried so hard to find my child. So after seeing the child live happily, for the parents, in fact, there is not much concern in their hearts, so I don't think his biological parents will be sad because of this.
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The answer is yes. Because after all, it is his biological son, but the son chooses to stay with his adoptive parents, so the biological parents will definitely be sad.
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It's going to be sad because they've been looking for it for years, and they're very fond of this kid, and it's going to make them sad.
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His biological parents will be sad, after all, they have paid a lot of money and energy to find this child.
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Legal Analysis: In the legal sense, the loss of a father without the loss of a mother is not considered an orphan. The legal definition of an orphan is:
1. Children aged 0 18 whose parents are dead or whose parents are declared dead by the court. 2. Children aged 0 18 years old whose parents have died and the other parent has not fulfilled the duty of guardianship for more than 1 year. 3. 0 18-year-old children whose biological parents cannot be found.
4. Children aged 0 18 years whose parents have not fulfilled their guardianship obligations for more than 1 year.
Legal basis: Article 1093 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China The following minors may be adopted: (1) orphans who have lost their parents; (2) Minors whose biological parents cannot be found; (3) Children whose biological parents have special difficulties and are unable to raise them.
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This is a story about construction, which is also derived from life and reflects some social phenomena, so it has also attracted everyone's attention, and the prototype of "Orphaned" has not been found yet. The movie "Orphaned" is based on real events, Andy Lau plays the male protagonist in the movie, Lei Zekuan, whose son Radar was lost when he was two years old, and he has been looking for it for many years.
Lei Zekuan in the film was exposed to wind and sun along the way, and he was bullied and helped by well-wishers on the way, but he never gave up the idea of persisting in finding his son. In the process of looking for his son, he helped many families find their relatives, and also got acquainted with Zeng Shuai, who was abducted and trafficked, and the two embarked on the road of finding relatives together.
Did the orphaned prototype child find it?
And the father in real life is Guo Gangtang, his son Guo Zhen was abducted when he was playing at the door of his house, and there was no monitoring in the village at that time, so there has been no progress in this matter, he sold his family property, bought a motorcycle, and tied Guo Zhen's ** on the car. When Guo Zhen talked about it, he had a painful expression on his face.
After the movie was released, the news of Guo Gangtang's search for his son was also known to the public, everyone is doing their part, Guo Gangtang has helped many families find their children, but their children have not been found, he said that he will never give up and will keep looking for them.
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No, society needs well-wishers.
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Guo Gangtang said that the children rescued by ** have been successfully compared with DNA and will recognize their relatives in the near future. Previously, Guo Gangtang had been looking for his son for many years since 1997, and his personal experience was adapted into the movie "Orphaned", which attracted attention.
Guo Gangtang told reporters that the ** notice he received showed that the child is currently in Henan, and the case is handled by Shandong and Henan. "The kid is fine. Guo Gangtang introduced, ** will arrange to recognize relatives in the near future, and the DNA comparison with his son has been successful.
After a long period of hardships and tribulations, Guo Gangtang's journey to find his son came to an end, and he hoped that their father and son would be happy.
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Normal, human behavior is motivated by nothing more than feelings and interests.
Guo Gangtang has found his son, but is this son the same son he was 24 years ago? By blood, yes. Legally, yes, because the law does not recognize the fictional kinship formed by trafficking.
But what about from the perspective of child upbringing and growth? Although Guo Gangtang and his son were separated from each other due to criminal acts, no matter what the reason, Guo Gangtang was separated from his son for 24 years, and he did not get along with his son for 24 years, and his son grew from a child to a young man. Jian Chen: I believe that Guo Gangtang's meeting of his son is a feeling that is both close and strange.
From Guo Xinzhen's point of view, the adoptive parents adopted him when they heard that others told them that they couldn't afford to raise their families, the adoptive parents provided for them to go to college, their parents and sister bought a house for themselves, and the adoptive parents and the whole family were kind to them. Guo Xinzhen's 24-year search for his biological father is more moved. But after 24 years of separation, it is difficult to say how many feelings are left.
Guo Gangtang, Guo Xinzhen, and Guo Xinzhen's adoptive parents are not at fault here, but the ones who are at fault are the criminals who abduct and sell human beings. Then let us sigh that creation makes people. We can punish crime, but we can't change the consequences of crime. That's life.
Evaluation of the film and television "Orphaned".
In the context of China's social relations, father and son are the existence of a special relationship, which will be higher than all living beings, higher than the world, and even higher than themselves, and become a kind of love that is beyond nature.
The story of this film is not complicated, and it can be summed up in eight words: lost orphans - looking for orphans - meeting orphans - becoming orphans. At the beginning of the film, it is a baby's **, with clear and innocent eyes in stark contrast to the ugliness of the world that will be staged.
"Orphaned" does not exaggerate the bitterness of this character, but uses a map, a motorcycle that is about to be scrapped, and the dark and cracked ** wrapped in rags to let the audience understand the road he has traveled and the hardships he has endured in the past 15 years to find his son.
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I think the choice of the archetypal son in this film is forgivable. If it were us, we might have made the same choice, after all, the kindness of adoptive parents is far greater than that of the biological parents who gave birth to them, because they have spent money and energy to cultivate themselves for so many years, not to mention that they have been together for decades and have already become a closer family.
Perhaps for this son, the biological parents are more like strangers, because they have never seen or heard of their biological parents for so many years, for him, the biological parents are just a title, and the status of the adoptive parents in the mind will be higher, because people are social animals, and when they get along for a long time, the feelings will be deeper, and the adoptive parents' care for him and pay more These are things that the biological parents cannot offset with a chance to live in this world. Although for biological parents, they have not given up looking for their biological son for so many years, but for their son, they have never looked like biological parents in their memory, not to mention that they don't know why their biological parents lost themselves back then.
Although he chose to stay with his adoptive parents, he was also his biological parents after all, and he had been looking for them for so many years, even if he chose to return to his adoptive parents, he still had to keep in touch with his biological parents, unless both parties agreed not to disturb their original lives. But no matter what, it is also related by blood to yourself, or you should take time out of your life to come back to accompany them, so that both adoptive parents and biological parents have no guilt, and can do what they should do, and at the same time, for biological parents, you have always been very important in their minds, and even if you return to your adoptive parents, you can't forget, so they actually love you very much, and you should still keep in touch with them. Because every parent wants their children to be happy.
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It is better to be born than to be nurtured, because this child has always grown up with his adoptive parents and has established a complete family relationship with his adoptive parents, so it is understandable that he decided to stay with his adoptive parents.
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Because the relationship between this child and his adoptive parents is also very deep, and he has always grown up with his adoptive parents, it is normal for him to decide to stay with his adoptive parents.
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I think it's understandable, because their son hasn't stayed with his own parents for a long time and was brought up by his adoptive parents, so he has a good relationship with his adoptive parents.
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I feel that this child has left home and is growing up in the adoptive parents' home, so I can't say that I can call the police directly, because the adoptive parents are really good to him, and a normal person can't call the police directly. Hope it helps.
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I think it's right and normal for him to stay with his adoptive parents.
As the saying goes, people are not grass and trees, who can be ruthless, although the child is not the biological child of the adoptive parents, although he may have been bought by the adoptive parents, but after all, he has lived together for more than ten years or 20 years, and the grace of parenting is deeper than the feelings of the biological parents, even if the biological parents have not been with the child, in fact, there is not much emotion, if it were me, I would stay with my adoptive parents as this child who was abducted and trafficked, my parents once made similar jokes with me, If I had been abducted or taken away when I was a child, would I have been close to them when I grew up and found them? I thought about it later, and I might choose to stay with my adoptive parents like him.
So we can't blame the children too much for this matter, in fact, the most hateful should be those who abduct and sell women and children, they are so hateful that many families lose their children.
May all the abducted children in the world find their biological parents, and may all the children in the world grow up happily!
The above is a little bit of my way to see the tracks, I hope to help you, thank you!
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Today's protagonist is Guo Zhen, the son of Guo Gangtang, the prototype character of "Lost Orphans", Guo Zhen was abducted when he was very young, so his father has been looking for him for 24 years, fortunately, Guo Zhen found it after 24 years, and Andy Lau also sent blessings, but Guo Zhen's performance made everyone very disappointed, because Guo Zhen was found by netizens and did not cry, and he also chose to continue to accompany his adoptive parents, and was said to be ruthless by netizens. What I want to say is that Guo Zhen was abducted since he was a child, and Guo Zhen had no memory at that time, so he must have no relationship with his biological parents, so this kind of behavior is also normal, as for why he accompanied his adoptive parents, after all, his adoptive parents have also loved him for the past 24 years, and they will also have deep feelings. I feel that I was scolded ruthlessly, for Guo Zhen, wronged!
In the movie, Andy Lau plays Guo Zhen's father Guo Gangtang, in the movie, a motorcycle, a person, embarked on a long road to find his son, 24 years have ridden more than 10 motorcycles, run all over the country, sometimes almost died, but such difficult conditions did not make Guo Gangtang give up the road to find his son, during this period, Guo Gangtang also saw through the hearts of the people, but in any case, he always put the search for his son in the first place.
Through his own continuous efforts, he finally found Guo Zhen after 24 years, and the family was able to recognize each other with help, and the family hugged and cried together, it seemed that the family felt very ashamed of Guo Zhen, but compared to Guo Zhen, he was obviously expressionless, and he didn't seem to be so excited. After all, it is also the reason why he has no feelings with this family after being stolen when he was a child, in short, I believe that Guo Zhen's heart must be kind.
Thoughts after meeting Guo Zhen After meeting his biological parents and family, Guo Zhen means that he still has adoptive parents on the other side, and he needs to be taken care of when he is old, and in addition, his work is still in the hometown of his adoptive parents, so he plans to develop there in the future, some people say that Guo Zhen is ruthless, and I am sorry that his biological father has been looking for 24 years, but what I want to say is that since Guo Zhen can say it out to take care of his elderly adoptive parents, it means that Guo Zhen is a kind and responsible child.
Some people say that Guo Zhen's adoptive parents are like human traffickers, even if Guo Zhen's adoptive parents are wrong, but the nurturing grace of Guo Zhen is greater than that of the biological parents who suddenly come to meet, in fact, Guo Zhen and his biological parents must have a stage of getting along together, after all, Guo Zhen has no memory when he left home, so let them get along with the family and slowly integrate.
After the movie "Orphaned", I learned that orphans cannot be seen from the perspective of a movie, just like the abduction and trafficking of this child, and it will never be as romantic as in the movie. Before watching the movie, I will watch the movie promotion about "Lost Orphans" from time to time, and the main creator talked about why he took the title "Lost Orphans": on the one hand, since family planning, many families are one child, if the child is lost, it is loss and loneliness for both the family and the child; On the other hand, "loss" and "loneliness" also contain a kind of philosophical dialectical thinking. >>>More