What do you think it s like to play with boring people?

Really chatting with very boring people can be summed up in two words: tired. Sometimes we make friends with a person, we must start chatting first, and slowly get to know each other through chatting, but some people just feel that they don't like to talk by nature, when you chat with her, you may not stop the work of the mobile phone, take a ** for a while, do something else for a while, and lose all your interest in chatting with her. And then I also made myself feel that this person is so boring, and I may not have a deep understanding.

If you don't like him, then it's better not to talk to him after chatting, if you continue to talk, it will really make you doubt life, this situation is, if you can stop talking, leave yourself a way out. However, if you like him, if you don't like him deeply, you can get out as soon as possible, or even if you are together, you can't stand it for long, boring people won't care about anything about you at all, and they won't give you a romantic creation, and there is no so-called surprise, if you still want to change him, then I wish you good luck first, it's not impossible, it's really difficult and difficult to change. If you can tolerate all this, and you can continue to talk to him, then I can only hope that he will change for you.

It's a test of patience to be around boring people, and when you tell a funny joke, the other party asks you with a serious face, is it funny? Feel this for yourself.

Talking to boring people is like wanting to be on a dog leash every minute. I used to have one or two friends who were really boring to talk to. Actually, I've hinted to them a lot of times, and it's all oh, um.

The performance is very perfunctory, but they will continue with those boring topics. At this time, I can only tell them very clearly. I've got something to do, I'll talk about it later.

You can only accept this awkward chat on your own.

After this chat, I don't want to talk to this person a second time, so I let this person stay quietly in my friends list until I don't need this account anymore. Chatting with this kind of person is more uncomfortable than a toothache, chatting is originally to exchange feelings and enhance relationships, but this kind of person is like not knowing anything, and can always create all kinds of cold opportunities, or is it cold to say that the cold field is cold, or you still have to rely on yourself to change the topic with him, but it still can't withstand the words of others, there is nothing to say, it is simply a cold field king.

Playing with uninteresting people will not arouse interest, because even if you are happy, they will act like they don't feel anything, which will be very disappointing.

Very boring people tend to think differently than most people, they don't do what we think are interesting, they may only focus on a certain point they like, and the rest of the parts are often what they don't care about, which is what they call boring.

It's quite boring.,I can't be interested in anything.,Every time I call him to play, there's no topic.,Just stupid.。

When chatting with boring people, you must always be vigilant not to let the other party catch the point you don't want to talk about, and you must understand what her chat mode is, and don't say some stalks that she doesn't understand, because even if she says it, she may not understand, maybe you have to explain to her what it means, because there are some stalks, and it's not as funny to explain it as you understand.

Obviously, you don't want to continue to talk about the inner topic, and the explicit hints have already been used, but she still clings to the inner topic, and keeps breaking the casserole to ask the end, so that you are angry and can't turn your face on the spot, such a boring person, let us feel really: angry, but still keep smiling.

I feel that every day is very depressed, for fear that a word will make her angry.

Playing with boring people for a long time will make you boring too.

I don't think there's any joy when you play with people who are boring.

Playing with such people, no matter how fun the game is, feels boring and boring.

Everyone will have their own circles and hobbies, but many people will feel that they are very boring and cannot fit into other people's circles. In fact, you can cultivate more hobbies.

When you are in a new environment, a fixed circle has been formed here, some people are born to be self-acquainted, and can quickly integrate into each other's circle, and for people who do not fit in, it is quite difficult, so if you want to better integrate into each other's circle, then we can onlyChange yourself according to the characteristics of this circle.

Learn to Communicate:When you first enter this circle, you have a lot of things that you don't understand, then you can humbly ask others, others have helped you, your heart will be grateful to others, so that there is tension into relaxation, you will not have a strong sense of strangeness to others, if you do not communicate well, will give others a kind of gratitude that you are difficult to get along with, others will naturally stay away from you, others have helped you, you have to know how to thank, so that you can better communicate the emotional exchange between people.

Caring for others:Everyone wants to be cared for and valued by others, first you have to care about others before others will care about you. It's mutual.

If you don't care about others, how can you expect others to care about you? Because of your concern, others will notice you, and no matter what happens, others will think of you, which will bring you satisfaction and quickly integrate you into their circle.

Learn to speak:Speaking is the most basic existence of interpersonal communication, you not only have to speak, you have to be able to speak, don't say anything, you have to learn to praise others, everyone likes to be praised by others, you praise others, others are happy, then your mood will also be better.

In the end, you feel like you're boredYou will cultivate your own interestsThe more you are interested, the more topics you have with others, and the more ways you get along with others, so that you don't feel like you can't play together.

Since you can't play together, don't force yourself to play with each other, instead of being so reluctant, it's better to start slowly looking for like-minded friends with you.

I try to fit in with the community, in fact, I envy the extroverts who seem to be able to get along with everyone, so I try to change in this direction so that I can make more friends.

First of all, I will take the initiative to stand up and liven up the atmosphere, tell some jokes, or play some games, and if I can't bring them with me, then I will choose to stay alone and do my own thing.

Then choose not to play with them, it's good to, and you don't have to play with others.

It's best to contact them less, don't worry about them, and be yourself, after all, people's control can be different.

When I am with them in the future, I will prepare more topics that they are interested in, and I will look at the problem from their perspective and try to close the distance.

It feels like the people around you are boring, and you can find people who you find interesting to play with, because you can't change what makes them interesting, you can only change yourself.

It's not interesting, you don't want to hang out with him anymore, go out to an Internet café, or find a place to chat, it's boring.

It's really boring to be friends with a boring person, and I feel like my life has become less interesting, especially boring.

There is a saying that if you don't talk more than half a sentence, you can be friends with a boring person, who is like a wooden man, and who doesn't understand your humor, and is difficult to get along with.

I just feel that I don't have any energy to stay with her, and I don't know how to play, so I can only mourn together.

I feel that I can't talk to this kind of person at all, in fact, I don't want to be friends with him anymore, but I can't say this kind of thing myself.

You will feel bored with him, you want to leave him, you can't talk to him, and you don't understand what he says.

It feels like her life has never been turbulent, and no stone can disturb the lake in his heart.

Maybe every day is a very rigid day! Or maybe he failed on the surface, but in fact he was a very interesting person inside, hiding an interesting soul.

I feel very bored when I stay with him, and even if I am in a good mood, I will become silent or even unhappy after being with him.

Sometimes it will be boring between the same sex, for example, two girls come out, a girl doesn't worry about anything, where to play, she doesn't care about anything, only responsible for following you, you say you are helpless or helpless, that's it, in the end, people still lose three and four, and in the end you can complain about you, saying that you are too anxious, regardless of others, you say that you are innocent or not, what to do, and there is no enthusiasm, where you want to go, she is either tired or feels too far away, and people don't want to spend money, There are really a bunch of every day, and you will be happy to go out with such a person? It's good that you're not angry, and when you really go out to play, you must choose the right person.

Otherwise, you have spent money, suffered crimes, and have a bunch of bad moods, and you are angry that you are dumb and eat coptis, and you can't say anything about your suffering. It's still better to be wise, after all, going out to play is all about having fun, otherwise you would have been tired and half dead if you wanted to relax.

This is a very normal phenomenon, for example, when I go out with my boyfriend and when I go out with my regular friends, it is completely different from going out! If I'm going out with my friends, I'll be overwhelmed by two hours at most (you might ask why I'm so badly disabled as a girl?). Because I really don't like shopping, I usually shop online).

Because if I go out with my friend, he always accompanies her to go shopping, I want to see this store and what I am interested in, he doesn't even look at it, he just pulls me away, so if the whole process is helping her pick things and not buying anything for myself, I will find it very boring, whether it is a boy or a girl, I believe that if you go out shopping with your girlfriend like this, you will definitely find it very boring.

If you think it's boring to hang out with some people, the first is that they can't get your point, for example, you think it's good-looking, they don't think it's good-looking, for example, you're very interested in it, but they don't pay attention to it, so a normal person will feel very tired.

So I suggest that if you want to go out and play with other people, the first is not to choose a particularly large place, because then it will take a long time for you to finish, and the second is to try to go out with the people you like, such as good friends or boyfriends and girlfriends, because even if that place is not fun, the two of you still have a little to say, if you go with ordinary friends, even if that place is fun, if he doesn't get along with you, it will be for nothing.