How to pursue a slow talking, soft spoken girl???

Most people have a bad habit of speaking more, and having more spoken language will not only disturb your audience, but also make your expression appear very unprofessional. Find someone to listen to you describe a topic or ask you to tell the ins and outs of an event, and ask them to pay attention to the common colloquialisms you use in your descriptions, such as "um", "ah", "uh", "then", "that"...Finding these spoken words and avoiding them in the future when talking to others or telling yourself about something will make your expression clearer and clearer. Personally, I think this is the first thing to do in the expression process.

Secondly, since it is required to express concisely, it is best to briefly sort out what you want to express in your mind before speaking, have an organization or outline, and determine the time you need to express, if the time is short, then only say the main points, if the time is long, you can add some examples as needed. Try to keep the examples as brief and representative as possible, and don't ramble on them.

Thirdly, even if you are a person whose logic is not clear enough, you can disguise your logic by adding some words at the level of expression when expressing, thus creating a false impression to the audience that you are speaking in a layered manner. For example, add "first, second, third, last" in the elaboration.

I. Second, the third ""its.

First, its. two, three" (well, I seem to have exposed something). Try using it, it will work well, but be careful that after these words that indicate the ordinal number, be sure to add a part of the point you want to make, not examples or anything that is not related to the topic, otherwise the audience will be confused.

Finally, when expressing, you must be aware of your brain and stay awake. I know this very well. When I was a freshman, I was debating in our college debate team, and although I was very good at speaking in private, my brain was particularly prone to "buzzing" blank when it came to a big scene or a quarrel with someone.

Anyone who has participated in or watched the debate tournament knows that it is actually a civilized quarrel, and I am really not suitable....As a second debater, I was pinched as a soft persimmon not long after I came on the court....But after the game, I can talk and laugh again, mainly because the brain stops at that moment, or the psychological quality.

problems. Later, I gradually matured, experienced more big scenes, and it was not easy to be so nervous when encountering things, and the expression was clear. Anyway, after work, I met several people who came to find faults, and I defended them away...Therefore, it is recommended that the subject experience more big scenes, exercise his psychological quality, and keep his mind awake at all times, critical moments.

It's very useful! Even if someone in the audience throws eggs, leather shoes, and rotten vegetable leaves, you can still talk like a river...

It is not so much that a woman who loves to laugh is the best, but that a woman with a gentle personality is better. Most men like women with gentle personalities, and it is easier to communicate feelings with such women. You can imagine chatting with a woman who speaks slowly and softly, talking and laughing is like a gentle drizzle, and even if there is a conflict, it will be resolved, because no one can lose his temper in the face of tenderness.

On the contrary, those women who are short-tempered and irritable, as if they quarrel when they speak, and have a tough style, not only do not get the love of men, but also do not get the pity and attention of men because of their strength, which is where women suffer the most.

In fact, as long as people will have their own temper, but some people are better at controlling, and some people are igniting fires, and a really smart and wise woman will control her temper and emotions well. Both in words and deeds. will try to show their tender side, so that the people around them are comfortable to look at and listen to.

When a man marries a wife, he is most afraid of marrying an unreasonable woman, once he marries such a woman, he will only quarrel for the rest of his life. Being with such a woman not only lowers one's level, but also greatly affects one's quality of life. At this time, you can see what kind of woman is a smart woman, and women with real wisdom disdain to quarrel with men, and they are better at overcoming rigidity with softness.

Something can be explained in a whisper. There's no need to spit on the stars and quarrel with others. First, it seems to be unqualified, and second, quarreling can't solve any problems at all, which is the root of the matter.

Wise women have long seen this, so they don't go to quarrel with anyone.

A smart woman also has a killer feature that no matter how angry she is, she will not lose her temper with others easily. The advantage of this is that even if the other party has a big temper and wants to vent to you, seeing such a gentle woman will lower the anger little by little. In this way, everyone can sit down calmly, discuss things, solve problems, and things will definitely move in a good direction.

Anyone who has ever had a quarrel knows that in the end, the quarrel is not about whose right or wrong, but for fighting for a breath. Because they are all angry, they must swallow this breath calmly, and the condition for letting this breath go on is to get the right to win the quarrel.

Girls are inherently very gentle, so there's nothing unusual about her soft-spoken voice, and it's possible that she's a special soft voice to the person she likes.

In fact, every girl will speak very softly and softly, which is the nature of girls. As the saying goes, a woman is as tender as water. It's also possible that the girl likes you very much. That's why I'm so gentle with you.

Maybe the girl herself is more introverted, so she speaks softly to everyone. For convenience, it may be that the girl is afraid of you or doesn't feel very good about you.

You still speak softly to you, which means that this girl is still gentle. And then there is this girl who appreciates you! I adore you very much! Or is it very much love for you! So you still speak to you gently!

Is she usually like this, if not, it may be that she wants to give you a good impression in front of you, she may like you, if she doesn't like it or already has someone she likes, then tell her in a tactful tone, if she doesn't or has a good impression of her, then slowly deepen your understanding.

Because girls are gentle. Especially to the people she likes. Speak softly.

It may be that he has a good impression of you, or it may be to show his gentle temperament. In short, it is very important for girls to speak elegantly.

Having a child may be a girl with a special temperament, or a girl who talks to others like this, so she will speak softly.

Why did the girl speak softly to me. Because girls are crying softly when they speak. At home. Courteous.

Maybe your girlfriend is such a character, some people just don't like to speak loudly by nature, and then they speak softly!

This is quite normal, because they speak in this voice, and they can be soft-spoken to anyone.

Steady and likable little girls are like this to speak softly, especially when she meets people she values and respects more, it will be more prominent, such a girl is loved by everyone, it's good!

It feels like a lady to others, the kind of jasper in the small family, gentle and elegant, knowledgeable, and well-behaved, such girls are very popular. Whispering represents people's character traits, and it also represents the meaning of love I love you!

I think she may be more introverted and may be shy to speak softly to you.

The first may be born with that kind of character, and the second may be gentle with the people you like.

Isn't it good for a girl to whisper to you?! Girls should be like girls, this is a manifestation of self-cultivation, and when encountering things, they can always explain things slowly and logically in order to find a better solution.

It shows that she is very gentle and tender like water!

Girls are either like this or they are like this to someone special, congratulations on mentioning your little girlfriend.

Maybe there's someone next to her, so she speaks softly to you.

Soft-spoken girls give others the feeling that they are ladylike, the kind of small jasper, gentle and elegant, knowledgeable, and obedient girls, such girls are very popular. And I like this genre too.

Such a girl is gentle and cute, a girl who is a bird, and every boy wants to love and care for her very much when he sees her

Women are tender and gentle to the people they like.