How can you get to know a slow burning girl? What are some good ways to do this?

1. Get to know girls.

Girls are more persistent in their feelings than boys in love, so once she falls in love with someone, she will completely dedicate herself. But if the boy suddenly gives up at this time, the girl will be very hurt, so the girl will not invest too much emotion at first.

2. Communicate more.

Some girls are slow to heat, and when chatting with her, you always crackle and say 5 sentences, and she slowly replies 1 sentence. If you don't speculate, how can you talk about it. Therefore, in the face of such a girl, the most important thing is to be patient and observe.

An introverted girl always has an extraversion in the field she cares about, so slowly try to find out what she is interested in, for example, if she likes a certain project, you can talk more about it, maybe she will fully show her enthusiasm in front of you.

3. Decisive and indisputable decision.

A woman's indecisiveness is the most headache for men, just like a woman who is crazy about shopping malls, can't buy much in a day, always hesitating this, hesitating that, and treating feelings like this. A woman's refreshing reply has become a kind of luxury for a man's woman, but in fact, this situation is just because of a woman's psychological fear. They fear the consequences of their bad decisions beyond their control.

4. Show yourself.

Generally, slow-burning girls are very insecure, so they prefer mature and stable men, so in the process of communicating with such girls, we should show our good side more. Love your work, be self-motivated, and show him something more substantial, so that he feels that you will understand everything.

5. Commitment and the courage to take responsibility.

Women are a psychologically fragile advanced animal, because of this, they are easily frightened, and the true love they are looking for all their lives is not outdated, a sheltered port, a safe island that can be relied on, so you must be a responsible, responsible, and promising person to make a girl completely bow down to you.

You should be friends with this girl, you should usually chat with this girl more, you can also understand what this girl's interests and hobbies are, ask this girl out to play, and you can get to know this girl through the people around this girl, and you can slowly understand this slow-burning girl.

You must take the initiative to get close to each other, understand each other's words and deeds, understand each other's lives, communicate more with each other, and brush up on your sense of existence.

She doesn't believe in love at first sight, she believes in love over time. The second point is that she will resist sudden love, if you are particularly anxious about her, especially want to chase her, especially want to confess to her, her heart is very resistant. The third point is that her desire for self-protection is very strong, this kind of girl is very insecure, then she will protect herself, and then do not have any contact with you.

This girl is very principled, if she says she doesn't want to eat with you during the chat with you, you go to ask her, she doesn't want to eat and refuse you, it means that she really doesn't want to go, then she is very principled in doing things, so why is there such a girl? Why is there such a slow-burning personality? The reason for the first bit of personality is because she has been in love very few times, and she has little love experience, and she doesn't know how to deal with this sudden feeling, so she will definitely not have further contact with you, so he will protect himself.

If you don't love, you can't extricate yourself.

The appearance is cold, but the heart is warm.

SMS contact for a few days, we met once, the next day she told me, you are not the dish I wanted, I was also a little dizzy at the time, she said that she is very stubborn, like to find a feeling, I asked her what it feels like, the feeling is that when we meet, I am excited and speechless. I also told her that it is impossible for everyone to have much of a feeling as soon as they meet, and they need to get acquainted and fall in love with each other slowly. I will respect your ideas and your thoughts, but I also have shortcomings.

She also revealed a detail in the communication with me, that is, when I asked her to meet for the first time, she readily agreed, her mother said, why did she agree so readily, I guess it was to be subtle, she said that everyone is friends, and there is no pressure, see each other!

After that incident, after four or five days, I said that I was out of town, and when I came back, I called ** to her, and I felt that she didn't have that kind of emotion that resisted me, and she felt very enthusiastic (in language), she said that there is no fate, you can also be a friend, now is the 21st century, you don't have to be so narrow-minded, you can't be a boyfriend and girlfriend, you can be a friend, she also hopes that I don't think too much, the pressure is not too much, and there is no failure or failure (maybe that's a line to comfort me), and I also expressed my attitude, I want to make the current impossible impossible, she also said, it is possible to be moved, she said very implicitly!

She also said that she was a slow-burning girl, and we had a good chat for about half an hour.

After three or four days I went to the mall to visit her, I didn't tell her beforehand, when I saw her smiling at her, I felt that she was a little excited, she said why not tell me, and then I waited for her to get off work, I wanted to invite her to dinner or tea, she said that she was in a bad mood these two days, her work was very miscellaneous, the account page was not sorted out, that day I also brought a bouquet of lilies to her, she was happy to accept, said next time, but I hit her after a day ** always does not answer, text messages are also rare to reply, I said you are a smart girl, Always act so independent, strong and individual, I admire you very much, can you show a little weaker, she replied to me, you don't have to admire me, strong and slightly angular, I know you are disappointed, but people are the most fickle animals, weak just to deceive men's sympathy, I think you will never see my weak side. Later, I told her to pick you up and play, and she said don't spend your thoughts, energy, and time on me.

I don't know how I pursued her, she's a girl I know on a blind date, and I'm very excited, she's also full of cuteness, I like this type, and she also said that I have my own career for everything, but I don't feel it. Emotional things can't be forced, I don't know how to crack her, how to open his heart, maybe I still have to keep sending messages to her, and go to see her from time to time? I'm afraid she'll be disgusted and can't put pressure on her!

What is my best plan, I want to catch up with her, although I am 28 years old, I want to find the girl I love, my heart! I don't want to leave myself with regrets! Give me some advice, thank you!

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