What should I do if I am married, but I am being pursued by a married person of the opposite sex?

If you are married, but you are being pursued by the married opposite sex, you should stand firm and tell each other that it is impossible for both parties to separate in time, so that your life will not be affected.

Everyone wants to have sweet love, but for a married man or woman, they should learn to respect themselves and self-love, keep their marriage and respect their other half, so that their normal life will not be affected. If you are married but are being pursued by the married opposite sex, you should express to the other party in time, both parties are impossible ideas, the position must be firm, only in this way can you better keep your own heart, you must know that if you don't handle it properly, it may destroy your family, I hope everyone can value their marriage in life.

Learn to stand your ground.

For married women, if they are pursued by other members of the opposite sex, they may have more self-confidence in their hearts. But after getting married, you should be responsible for your husband and your family, and if you accept the crazy pursuit of the opposite sex, it will also affect your original family. In life, we must learn to prevent problems before they happen, if the other party has signs of confessing to themselves, we must keep a distance from the other party, and when we return home, we can choose to tell our other half to discuss and solve the problem together.

Learn self-esteem and self-love.

After marriage, a woman should learn to keep her distance from others, respect herself and love herself, and carefully handle her social relations with others.

Only in this way can we leave no regrets in our lives, of course, we should also learn to reject others tactfully in life, show our attitude, not betray our husbands, and make our relationship with each other stronger.

What is my personal opinion?

I believe that everyone is an individual and has an independent personality. There may be different opinions on solving problems, but for love, it is necessary to remain faithful, learn the right way to deal with it, is the way that every married person must master, keep a distance from others, and be responsible for their own life.

I think that in this case, you must make it clear to the other party, keep an appropriate distance from him, don't let him continue to pester you, correct your attitude, and ask others to help if necessary.

You can make it clear to the other party, and you can hand it over to your other half to deal with, which can solve the problem well.

You can tell the other party directly about your situation, try to stay away from the other party, and avoid the other party from causing harm to you.

I think at this time, we must first have our own principles and bottom line, don't deal with each other, and don't be influenced by each other.

First of all, congratulations to you, since someone is pursuing, it means that you are a good girl, you should have characteristics that other girls do not have, beauty? Knowledge? Money? Dealing with people? You should know this yourself, and he should also reveal it when he confesses to you.

Here you emphasize the identity of the other party, indicating that you are still more reasonable, the most important point here is his marital status, you did not make it clear in the title, that is, he is now in marriage, or has ended the previous relationship, this is very important. I'll talk about it separately here.

One scenario is that he is divorced. In this case, I think he is understandable, after all, he is single, the pursuit of beautiful things is his right, and he is also eager to regain love, understandable, if you think he is very sincere, all aspects are okay, I think you can get along.

The second situation is that his own marriage relationship is still in existence, which means that this man has a problem, as the saying goes: eating in the bowl and thinking about the pot, I think this is what I am talking about, such a person's purpose and motive are not pure, as long as you establish a relationship, you are in a hurt position, and the society gives such a person a very bad name, I think you also know. If you agree to his pursuit, this will not only harm yourself, but also hurt the other party's family, so that the feelings that are not protected by the law and spurned by the society are tantamount to playing with fire, be cautious, and be cautious.

Pursued by a married man, of course you can't agree, you must refuse that he is a person with a family, a girl can't be a third party with her, so the reputation is not good, there is no hope for his future, there is no happiness at all, it will only increase your pain, you must reject such a man, to find your own true happiness, stay away from her, girl, good luck, just find your own happiness.

His married man comes to pursue you, and you have to reject him, whether you are a married woman with a family or a single woman. If you want to marry him, you don't have to. Let him go back to dating him when he is single again. For now, it's better to stay away.

Whether you like him or not, this relationship is dangerous. It's playing with fire.

Therefore, you must draw a clear line with him and never be ambiguous.

If he is shameless and wants to pester you, reprimand him sharply or tell his daughter-in-law what he has done.

It is advisable to stay away from a married man, treat him coldly, do not give him a chance to socialize, and show him that you hate his pursuit of you.

Be clear about rejection and don't have illusions unless you have an idea.

Being chased by a married man should be a clear rejection of him.

In our long-standing concept, being pursued is because of excellence, at least one merit. For example, a man is tall or handsome, or golden, while a woman is beautiful or has a good figure, or is virtuous and cute. In short, there is a misconception that:

Excellent talents will be pursued, and those who are not pursued will not be good.

For those men who have families, their first intention is probably not love. Spending time with young girls is like reminiscing about their youth. There are some uncles who are in the stage of working hard for the family, so they need to find some people and things that can stimulate their youthful vitality to let them rest from the pressure.

On the other hand, uncles are either successful in their careers, rich and idle, and need to be accompanied by young and energetic girls to re-experience the feelings of youth that have passed. At this time, if the woman has the consciousness to keep her distance from them, they can receive this signal. If a woman approaches them with some willingness to worship, dependence, dependence, etc., they will also receive these signals and begin to pursue you.

If you respect yourself and your other person's marriage, they can tell from your words and deeds. On the other hand, if your words and deeds are not dignified enough, they will naturally arouse their interest and move closer to you, and they will not particularly respect you.

Although it is said that a married woman is unable to control herself, and such a thing happens when she is pursued by others. But if a woman is in a marriage, and the relationship between husband and wife is okay, then she should immediately refuse to accept and show her attitude when she is pursued.

It's so stupid, he just wants to find a lover, you're too simple, you really think he'll be with you for the rest of your life, it's just for fun, you want to scold when you women ask such questions, you deserve to be hurt, you can tell that man's wife to know, and let everyone know.

It is absolutely impossible for such a hypocritical man to want him to give in on his own initiative. The only way is to fight poison with poison... Isn't it appropriate for a man to care about money very much, and ask him for a million in social fees... Promise to let him know the difficulty.

Ignore him.

How can an unmarried woman catch up with a second-married man.

It is not allowed at home.

Don't be a third party.

Communicate with other women. If it's divorced, there's no way.

Tell his wife to bring this shameless dog home!

Since you can't get rid of him. You want money, a house, a car! All three! And it all has to be your name! That's it! Then find someone to talk to him behind his back!

And build your own safe zone! Make a friend who is a lawyer and give you ideas to avoid future disputes!

This is to be done in secret! Obviously, you want these three things, as well as living expenses, to live like a lark! Don't worry about eating, don't worrying about drinking, let him do these willingly!

If you don't do it, you don't have to talk about it! See if he leaves you! A minimum of $6,000 per month is required!

And also to increase the price, to see how long he can hold on, if he is rich then pester him to buy you a BMW!

I also had a similar experience, and now I really regret it, I thought he really liked me, but he told me that it was impossible to divorce because of his responsibility to the family, but he would always be good to me. Although he didn't like it, he also explicitly told him not to continue contact, just wanted to be friends with him. But in fact, men don't think like this, your hesitation makes him think that he has a chance, and he asks you to meet and talk every day, and before you know it, your relationship will become very ambiguous, and it will develop into what you don't want to be.

I now regret that I met him in the first place, and that being with a married man did me more harm than good. Maybe he really likes you, but how selfish this liking is, knowing that he can't give you tomorrow, but he wants you to pay a terrible price for it. Think about it, no matter what, this matter will affect your future marriage and life, you have to think twice, make a decisive decision, and don't wait until it's too late to regret it.

Don't answer **, don't reply to text messages, cut off all contact with him, and everything will fade after a while. Trust me, it's really good for you!

You tell him that you can tell his family about it.

1.The attitude is clear and the position is resolute. Express your position clearly so that the married man understands that it is impossible between you and avoids misunderstandings.

2.Don't hesitate, don't be soft-hearted. Don't leave an ambiguous opportunity for a married man because of soft-heartedness, but make a decision and resolutely refuse.

3.Don't joke with him, don't give him a response. No matter how a married man pursues you, you must not give any response, learn to say no, and avoid playing a game of push and pull.

4.Tell him you have a crush. If the married man is still pestering, you can tell him that you already have a crush, or ask a friend to help cover up and let him get out of trouble.

In short, when a married woman faces the pursuit of a married man, she should maintain a sober, resolute, and clear attitude, avoid misunderstandings, resolutely reject the pursuit of the other party, and at the same time protect her marriage and family.

Hello, at this time it depends on what you think, if you think this person is not bad, you can try to get along with him, if you don't want to have anything to do with this person, then don't give him any hope.