It s 3 years old, and I don t like to read, what should I do?

I have a friend who is like you, and it's supposed to be a normal adolescent mentality.

You ask this question to show that you still want to study, but the inertia or inferiority complex in your heart is holding you back

Then I'll give you a solution

You can set yourself a goal

First of all, go to your class and find a student who is a little bit better than you, preferably of the same sex, preferably someone who has studied worse than you before

And then tell yourself that you want to surpass him as a goal, and you can say to yourself: Why, he was defeated by my men before! Why is he better than me now, just his IQ.

Anyway, build up self-confidence first and believe that you have the strength to get bad grades are only temporary

Wait until you have surpassed him (as long as you choose the right goal, I believe it will not be difficult for you to "surpass him"), then set the next goal, and so on.

The students who become your goal should not get much higher grades than you, because they are unrealistic, and secondly, you can see the results quickly when you work hard, which helps to restore your self-confidence.

Another way is to put the "Admissions Profile" of the high school you want to go to in a place that you can see all the time, like in front of your desk, to motivate yourself

Believe in yourself, you can definitely learn well!

It's really "the same end of the world" But I think it all depends on your own self-awareness, but other people's urging or suggestions will give you invisible pressure and troubles, which will make you lazier and more bored Only by controlling your own time, making plans, and being strict with yourself, can you solve the problem more effectively

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I guess I'm too tired from studying.

I'm like you sometimes.

I don't want to study.

Nothing is learned.

I'm going to play. Play what you like.

Everyone has a hobby.

I'll just take the opportunity to play.

Hehe. I love surfing the internet.

Whenever this time I.

Just go online. Play games.

Chat. Play has to be fun.

Once it reaches that degree.

I just don't feel bored.

I'm starting to regret it.

I regret that I am learning and improving while others.

I'm playing.

Regret wasting your time and energy.

Feel sorry for yourself.

Sorry family.

I'm going to start studying hard.

Hehe. Isn't it stupid?

Maybe it's the opposite.

If you learn a certain level, you don't want to learn.

If you don't learn to a certain extent, you have to learn again.

Ay. No way.

Get in touch with nature and relax Don't put too much pressure on yourself (studying is not a problem, your mood is a big problem).

Is there a problem? Emotionally?

There must be a reason, in fact, the learning method can be changed, I remember when I was in junior high school, I liked all subjects, there are likes, you have to find out with your heart, improve the fun of learning. For example, in math problems, it is a great thing to think that making a math problem is a great thing!

Thinking about the future, you have to support your family and wife, how can you have no money.

So you have to study hard and that's motivation.

Ha ha. Talking and playing...

In fact, it means that you want to find a goal to motivate yourself, maybe your energy is distracted, and you learn. It refers to many aspects and can also be adjusted appropriately.

Now is the critical time, you force yourself to study, you can't do it without culture.

Normal dripping, I have also experienced dripping, and I have to adjust my mentality to face it

I also didn't like to read in my third year of junior high school, so I was in high school.

The solutions for junior high school students who don't like to study are:

1. Adjust your mentality.

If junior high school students cannot take the initiative to learn and reasonably allocate time for play and study, it means that the child has not developed good study habits and has no learning goals. Complaining that you didn't educate your children well, or complaining about your children, is useless. At this time, parents need to calm their minds, face up to reality, and lean down to communicate with their children.

2. Choose other ways out according to the situation.

Now is the era of the Internet, Internet technology is being applied to all aspects of all walks of life, and there will be a shortage of talents in this area in the future. The child doesn't want to continue studying. Parents can choose to learn Internet technology according to the situation, which is also a good way out.

It's good to learn to cook, the threshold is low, and you can learn it with zero knowledge. There is no age limit to learn to be a chef, it is relatively easy to learn, as long as you are willing to learn and learn by heart, it is still relatively easy to learn, first do the basic skills well, and follow the teacher's method to cook a lot of dishes. Every year, many junior high and high school students choose to learn to be chefs.

You can learn some popular majors, such as intelligent networking, such as new energy vehicles. Skills plus academic qualifications, so that you can be perfectly employed.

It can be taken into account that technical schools learn a technology, boys learn Chinese food, Western food, Western bread, girls learn Western cakes and desserts, Western food is a very good major, learn technology and have a skill, and can also gain a foothold in society in the future, rely on craftsmanship to eat, it will not be outdated, and the salary of technical talents is relatively high.

In addition, these majors are practical courses, easy to learn, whether it is employment, or later to open their own store, the income is very good, the working environment is good, and the working hours are relatively free!

It's really hard for junior high school students to not like to read, because some children really don't think they like to read and don't want to read. At this time, I think you should let him read some books, give him appropriate encouragement, and let him know that he can do it, probably because his confidence has been damaged, so he will not like to read. At this time, the companionship of parents is the most important, and parents should often encourage him to tell him that it is good to do this, so that he will have self-confidence, and slowly his confidence will be able to like to read.

Knowledge can change society, and knowledge can change lives. Generally speaking, there are two situations in which you cannot read: one is that you are really not suitable for reading; One is that you don't read seriously.

If it's the first one, it's recommended to forget it and stop reading it. (However, this situation needs to be carefully grasped, after all, it is easy to give up reading today, and it will be difficult to turn back tomorrow). If it is the second case, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself and clarify a direction.

At the beginning, you can set your goals a little lower, and you can see the results immediately. Over time, I'm setting my goals higher and farther away.

Now the state encourages the development of vocational education, junior high school graduation is the starting point not the end, good grades can go to high school, bad grades can go to vocational schools, you can go to vocational schools, you can go to university.

There are three levels of learning, the first level is learning at the behavioral level, changing learning behavior; The second level is learning at the goal level, changing the learning objectives; The third level is learning at the level of mental models, changing mental models.

If we compare people to computers, software upgrades are behavioral changes, for example, the software originally used the version, and now the version is used, and the previous bugs are modified to make it better.

Changing the software is a change in the goal, for example, you used to only use drawing, but now you change to PS. Changing the operating system is a change in mental model.

A mental model, in fact, is a mindset, which refers to our methods and habits of understanding things.

Mental models determine the perspective from which we observe things and the conclusions we make; guide the way we think and behave; influencing the outcome of our behaviour and reinforcing it; will make us take our own inferences as facts. It has the qualities of incompleteness, limitations, instability, no clear boundaries, unscientific, and minimalistic.

8 Ways to Improve Your Mental Model: Introspection and Reflection. Learn.

Wall. Replace the environment with a new one. Empathy.

Scenario planning. In-depth talks. Continue the previous "cultivation".

Of these eight methods, the first four methods are for us to be aware, and awareness is a prerequisite for change. Clause.

Five, six, and seven ways are to allow people to access and interpret new information through new perspectives, and new information is the necessary raw material for generating new mental models.

What should I do if I don't get good grades in junior high school and don't want to study? If you don't have knowledge when you read, it will be difficult to move forward if you don't have knowledge in the future, so you still have to force yourself to study hard.

Hello! Junior high school students do not want to study the recommended technology and continue their studies. As a big automobile country, the output value of the automobile aftermarket has exceeded one trillion yuan, so many people see business opportunities from it, so how much is the tuition fee of auto repair school?

Different schools have different training equipment and teacher levels, and the cost is also different. Learning auto maintenance training is mainly to more training, training is the whole vehicle for students to use, training consumables are relatively large, some schools training car is too old is not a new car on the market, so that the things will be outdated, some schools in order to reduce the cost of consumables, and even shorten the training time, such schools are naturally lower tuition fees, but it is very unfavorable to learn auto repair. Therefore, which school is good to learn to repair a car can not be decided by the cost alone, and the school with a low cost cannot learn the real thing because the equipment and teachers are not strong.

Therefore, when choosing a school, you should choose a cost-effective one, which is relatively high.

Different majors, the class hours arranged are different, so the registration fee is also different, because the length of study for each major is different, the courses are different, the majors are different, and the tuition fees are also different, for example, learning car beauty is a short-term, and the general learning time is 3-6 months, while the general learning time is 2-3 years, like intelligent networking, new energy.

In short, if you want to learn the technology of auto repair, the key is to choose a powerful school, see if the school's teaching equipment is complete, how much time students have to operate every day, whether the school is well managed and so on.

First of all, you're going to tell me why you don't want to go to school anymore?

If you don't want to say it, at least talk to your friends, with your family, there's nothing more effective than untying a knot!

If you used to do well in school, why are you not doing well now? Regression must be faced, not avoided, and it is not possible to break the jar and not want to go to school.

Have you asked yourself? If you're sure you don't want to go to school, what do you want to do?

These questions need to be answered by yourself, you are responsible for your own future, no one can think for you, and no one can be responsible for you! So, you have to be cautious when you think about it! If you have a clear direction for the future, I don't think it matters whether you go to school or not, whether you can lead to the other side of freedom, success and happiness is an important future for a person, learning is just a process, some people do not need to go through this process, are you this kind of person?

Ask yourself!

Secondly, if you still want to succeed through learning, but you have lost your interest in learning and don't want to learn, then I want to tell you: a person does not have much time to study, so he has the time and energy to learn when he is young. If you have so much time to play or do something else now, then when you are old and want to play, you will not have to play, and you will have to continue learning or live a very painful life!

Such examples abound, just look at your side, now successful people are generally younger, when they are young, they can't succeed, I estimate that a person's life is probably like this, do you want to be that kind of person because you don't want to study when you are young and regret it later?

Again, I think you should understand that learning not to learn is not just a matter for you alone. You are still young, I guess you can't understand this very well, when you grow up, you will know that we live in society, we are social people, any thing, not only what we want to do, we have to be responsible, the responsibility to parents, the responsibility to teachers, the responsibility to society, because we need love, but also need to be loved, these love all need to carrier, for example, your relatives hope that you can study hard, and have a good and bright future in the future, And you must also hope to study hard, support your family in the future, and become an excellent person in the future to wait for a woman who loves you!

If you want to, then don't give up, stick to it, and keep reading well, ok?

Finally, whether you have figured it out or not, I want to tell you a sentence that I said to my dearest sister before the college entrance examination, to the effect that "whether you take the college entrance examination now, or in your future life, work, and study, you must first have a sense of happiness." What about you?

Why don't you be angry?