What are the consequences of a lack of good communication with parents in early childhood?

If you don't get along with your parents when you are a child or if you don't communicate well with your parents, then your child's behavior in the future will be very withdrawn, cold, and rebellious! To put it bluntly, it's very cold-blooded. Of course, not to mention the relationship with your parents!

It's hard to change when you grow up! It will appear out of place in society!

Communication is a two-way street, requiring efforts on both fronts. Professor Li Xiaodong, director of the Jilin Provincial Psychological Association and professor of the School of Education Science of Northeast Normal University, said that after entering the university, the psychology of students will undergo great changes, including the sense of disparity in academic performance, the loneliness brought by the unfamiliar environment, and the sense of loss due to the lack of communication skills. In addition, most of today's college students grew up in an environment of "high scores", and they lack care and understanding for their parents, and they often focus on the individual when dealing with communication with their parents, which makes it difficult for the two generations to communicate.

It should be said that during adolescence, around the age of 15 to 22, there is a distance from parents and coldness towards them, which is a normal manifestation of adolescent growth. College students who are in adolescence also need some time to think independently, to find and discover themselves. Yang Shuqin, a teacher from the Institute of Higher Education of Jilin University, believes that for college students, in order to cultivate a good personality and establish a good family relationship, they should also take the initiative to find time to chat with their parents and experience the joy of communication.

Me too. Not anymore. My dad is going to kill me.

Introduction: If there is a long-term lack of communication between parents and their children, it will have an impact on their children.

If a parent does not communicate with the child, it will bring infinite harm to the child, and it is important to know what kind of way is suitable for the child. Parents must pay close attention to their children's education, must let their children grow, and must learn to communicate with their children. Children always have no way to think about things when they are doing things, so parents must think about their children, they must talk to their children about their thoughts, treat their children, and parents must let their children express their own views and opinions, so that children can know that they are making mistakes and will be treated well by their parents.

Parents should not treat their children with a harsh attitude, which will make the child feel very scared If you have no way to communicate with the child and always use verbal aggression, the child will also have indelible damage, you have to think about whether this behavior can be accepted by the child, you have to think about what you can do, you can't let the child often be treated cruelly by yourself, so that the child has no way to express his thoughts, if the child tells his parents his thoughts in life, parents should make appropriate adjustments.

Some children often lack communication, so parents should talk to their children at this time and don't let their emotions become low. Many children are always silent when they are young, parents should talk to their children to see what kind of thoughts their children have, and be sure to ask their children to be a listener, so that children can be treated well. If the child has a problem when he is young, parents should take a look at what kind of problem the child has, must not let the child appear silent, must understand the child's current situation, must let the child achieve a good grade, let the child learn to interact with others.

Many children do not understand their current situation when they are young, and parents should let their children understand.

Personality becomes sensitive.

Such yelling behavior will affect the child's negative emotions, causing the child to lose a sense of security and become sensitive and fragile.

At the same time, the child will also live in panic, afraid that which of his words will attract the scolding of the parents, so at home and in life, do not dare to disobey the orders of the parents, even if they have different opinions, the child does not dare to show it.

Slowly, the child's personality will become very fragile and sensitive, and in the group, a word from others will attract the child's imagination.

Becoming inferior inwardly.

Every child has their own strengths and weaknesses, and some parents will grasp and reprimand their children when they see their children's shortcomings, which will not only not change the child's current situation, but also lead to the child's inferiority complex.

It is normal for children to have shortcomings, and parents should find ways to make up for them and bring out the child's strengths, rather than amplifying their children's shortcomings by yelling and scolding loudly, which will not change any problems and will make the situation more and more serious.

It will lead to children's low self-esteem and sensitivity, and will also lead to children's insecurity, will cause children's behavior to be very excited, and will also cause children to distrust others, which will affect children's social interactions, and will also affect children's IQ and emotional intelligence, and will make children have a shadow in their hearts.

It will affect the child's development, it will affect the child's growth, and the child may sometimes not know what is right and what is not right, which will make the parent-child relationship very poor.

1. Slow physical development.

If parents neglect their children and cause malnutrition, it may damage the physical development of young children. When parents fail to provide their children with adequate nutrition, it can lead to delayed brain development in their children.

2. Intimately parent-child relationship.

Children need encouragement in the form of praise, hugs and encouragement from their parents, and parental indifference can discourage children from their enthusiasm and also make them have low self-esteem. Many parents feel that their children will not please themselves, this time to reflect on it, maybe there has been a gap between parents and children, if there is too little communication between parents and children, children who lack love will close themselves, which is also a way for them to protect themselves.

3. Strange personality.

Children who lack love are generally more introverted and their emotions are not easy to expose due to their long-term lack of attention and love. If you grow up in a discordant home environment, your child will imitate some of the actions of her parents, and your child may become irritable and violent.

Sometimes parents ignore their children unconsciously, and if the child grows up in this parent-child relationship, the child will be autistic, uncommunicative, etc. At such times, children will close themselves off, and they have emotional needs that are often not met.

In today's fast-paced society, parents may have to run for life, and the pressure of work makes parents neglect their children. If parents travel a lot for work and are not very interested in interacting with their children, then their children may be neglected. In addition, if the parents do not have a good relationship and there are frequent disputes, it is also possible to cause neglect of the child.

Children who lack communication with their parents from an early age will have a lonely temper when they grow upChildren who lack communication with their parents from a young age will become arrogant and introverted when they grow up, and they don't like to contact people, so their character is not good, so when the child is young, parents should communicate more with their children and understand their children's ideas, so as to shape a successful child.

Children who lack communication with their parents since childhood may not have such a good relationship with their parents, and may be a little rebellious, but they will also be relatively independent.

Parents who do not communicate with their children from an early age may cause character defects, such as being withdrawn, introverted, unsociable, and disliking to socialize.

Children who communicate with their parents since childhood may be relatively radical in personality, and they do not learn to communicate with others when they encounter problems, which is a very undesirable way of thinking after going to society, and they must learn to communicate with others and learn to share these ideas.

Children whose parents lack communication since childhood will generally be more stubborn and withdrawn, so parents should communicate with their children in a timely manner.

Since childhood, the child's personality has a lack of communication with his parents, and there is a high probability that he may be more independent, and this kind of thing is very variable, because some parents have a low quality, and the objective environment plays a great role in the influence of the child.

Such children should be more withdrawn, lack of father's love and mother's love, and children who grew up with their grandparents are estimated to be more rebellious and easy to cause psychological gaps.

You're unlucky Lack of communication with your parents since you were a child is one aspect of developing your future personality, but your personality is not entirely formed by this aspect. For example, your parents don't communicate with you.

This kind of child's personality is so introverted and withdrawn, not a word, and not good at communicating with others.

Actually, this question is not that difficult. There are usually two situations when parents and children do not communicate for a long time. First, if parents and children do not want to communicate, then children will inevitably find someone who is willing to communicate.

In this case, the child can come into contact with any kind of person, and you can't guarantee what kind of person your child will meet. Slowly, the child will become more and more rebellious, less and less inclined to go home, more and more alienated from the parents, and eventually the child will inevitably go astray. Second, if parents and children do not communicate for a long time, the child may become more and more quiet, introverted, and silent, which may not only develop into psychological problems such as depression, but also cause him physical and mental suffering.

The so-called "child" is rebellion and unfilial piety. If you argue according to reason, then you are a cruel and ruthless person, and you have failed all your suffering and suffering. This point seems to be emphasized on the first floor, but I don't think it can be regarded as the root cause, it is just a set of words, just parents looking for legal support for their words and deeds.

In conclusion, I think the fundamental reason why parents impose "children" is that many parents do not understand that this "child" has become or should become an "adult" who is independent and responsible in thinking and acting. What's even more vicious is that many parents themselves have only aged a few years and don't even know how to become "adults".

The same thing is not that the father is unwilling to communicate with his children, but that his starting point is different from ours, he thinks differently than we think, he does not want to accept our ideas. He felt in his heart that I was a father, you were a child, and you had to listen to me. When two people disagree, there is a conflict.

He suddenly felt that he was not important, he felt that he had a white-eyed wolf! Therefore, two people should find a common language when speaking, look at the problem in a balanced way, and don't only think of one side and ignore the other!

Communication is difficult because many adults grow up forgetting the bad influence of the family and the troubles of the family of origin (they don't even realize it), and the traditional Chinese parents are the big parents (I am Lao Tzu, why do I listen to you), so they can't empathize with their children's feelings. Some parents may not be able to do this in their lifetime. After all, they need enough emotional intelligence and empathy, and some parents will lose face.

If parents rarely communicate with their children, then children will feel that they can't get father's love and mother's love, and there will be a gap in their hearts, and sometimes they will be very rebellious and will not listen to their parents when they grow up.

It will make the relationship between the child and his parents very estranged, and the child is unwilling to communicate too much with his parents, which is not conducive to the growth of the child's personality and will make the child withdrawn.

Parents rarely communicate with their children, their children's thoughts and confusions are not responded, and children will be very introverted and even precocious, which is extremely detrimental to children's development.

The child will become a little autistic later, or he is also very cheerful, but she just doesn't want to share her feelings with her parents, and he will only make his own decisions about anything.

It is common for children to lack communication with their parents for a long time, and in modern society, children's lives are becoming more and more stressful, making it difficult for them to communicate with their parents. Many children close themselves to their own world and are reluctant to share their emotions and life experiences with their parents. This is a worrying thing because the lack of communication can affect the physical and mental health of the child as well as family relationships.

The main reason for the child's lack of communication with his or her parents is due to a communication barrier between the two parties. Children and parents have different life experiences and ways of understanding, and they do not understand each other's thoughts and feelings very well. In addition, some children are too busy to find time to communicate with their parents, and there are also children who are afraid to discuss their issues with their parents so as not to cause trouble and misunderstandings.

Children should find ways to communicate better with their parents. First, they should be open, sincere, and patient. They must learn to listen to their parents' opinions and suggestions and adjust their attitudes and behaviors at any time.

In addition, children should learn to express their problems and thoughts in a positive way, and not complain or accuse their parents of violating their privacy and personal space. Finally, children should approach issues with their parents with equality and respect, establishing safe, meaningful and sustainable communication mechanisms.

A long-term lack of communication with parents can have a lot of negative effects. First, children can become increasingly lonely and autistic, causing them to become more isolated and difficult to fit into social circles in their lives. In addition, the lack of effective communication with parents can make it difficult for children to understand their own and others' emotions and feelings, resulting in limited emotional and intellectual development.

Finally, a lack of communication with parents can lead to breakdown and disharmony in family relationships, making it difficult for children who grow up in a pleasant, safe and welcoming family environment to become independent, confident and successful adults.

There are many solutions to the chronic lack of communication with parents. First of all, children should actively seek opportunities to communicate with their parents and be actively involved in family life. Secondly, parents should pay attention to their children's feelings and needs, and give them enough respect and understanding.

Finally, you should use the help of a third party, such as a school, a social organization or a counselling agency, to provide additional support and assistance. By calling everyone to work together, listen and understand each other, we can create a safe and loving family environment that helps children overcome communication barriers and become better people as quickly as possible. <>