How to face lovers, how to get along with lovers

The first piece of advice: accept the other person's imperfections.

No one is perfect, including yourself, you are with him, once he must have attracted you, don't say that he was blind back then, so he fell in love with him, after all, you were blind back then, and he didn't dislike you again. Don't feel better than him, it's the same as when you thought he was better than others. Over time, you will find that no matter who it is, there are a bunch of faults, and the only thing you can do is to accept the imperfections of the other party.

In this way, he was spared as well as himself.

The second piece of advice: don't be afraid of conflict.

Friction in life is always inevitable, don't think that silence is golden, you have to actively communicate with him, if you can't communicate, don't know how to communicate, then you won't be happy with anyone. Remember two principles: one is not a cold war, and the other is not to be ruthless.

When two people get along, there will be a lot of contradictions and conflicts, so be sure to be tolerant of each other and always think about each other. Only in this way can the love of two people truly overflow with fragrance.

The third piece of advice: respect or appreciate your lover.

Everyone wants to be respected by others, especially their lover or lover, if you respect him, he will respect you, if you look down on him, he will also look down on you, why torture each other? So learn to respect him and appreciate him, and he will slowly respect and appreciate you.

Everyone will have shortcomings, but people who love each other can find each other's shining points in each other's shortcomings, and can find inner satisfaction in each other's shortcomings. Appreciative eyes can always make love sweeter and marriage more beautiful.

Fourth piece of advice: always praise the other person.

It is still possible to praise lovers, but praise between lovers, I feel a little more difficult than ascending to the sky, you may say: "I really don't want to violate my conscience, I really can't open this mouth." "Actually, let's think about it from another angle, do you want to be complimented by the other party?

I believe the answer is yes, so the other person also wants your compliment. A simple compliment from you, he may be happy for days, and when he is happy, you will be more happy.

Because he may do something that pleases you, not just a word or two of praise, and you should open your eyes and speak nonsense, against your conscience. Don't you do this to others when you work, you do this to your lover or lover, and you can also exchange it for a new life, this deal is still very cost-effective. So why don't you give it a try?

The fifth piece of advice: give the other party space appropriately.

What's yours is yours, not yours, and staying by your side is also a scumbag, so don't care too much about some small things, give the other party a certain amount of space, he will think that you are reasonable and will be doubly good to you. If it's a scumbag, let him reveal his true nature as soon as possible and break off with him as soon as possible, and you can still stop losses in time to find the other half that really belongs to you.

1 How do lovers get along with each other? Encourage each other, give each other more self-esteem and face, sometimes we are in front of each other's friends, in fact, couples should consider each other when talking or doing things, and for example, as a girl, you must give your boyfriend face in front of others, and praise your boyfriend more.

2 When two people quarrel, no matter whose fault it is, one must first bow his head and apologize and coax the other person. And the other person must also be very face-saving and reconcile quickly.

3 Even though you are lovers, you must also have your own space to relax with each other and do what you want each other. For example, going out to a party with friends or colleagues, etc. In the other party's heart, they won't feel that being with you is a kind of pressure.

4 Don't be too macho men. Many lovers end up breaking up because women can't stand male machismo. Machismo is a legacy of Chinese history, men should pay attention not to be too macho, learn to understand women, let women feel that you care for her, and not always show domineering in front of their girlfriends.

5 It is normal for two people to inevitably have conflicts and quarrels when they are together, and a lover relationship without quarrels is incomplete. And when you encounter a quarrel with your lover, don't get angry and blindly blame your lover for the so-called fault. At this time, you should calm down, on the one hand, think about how to persuade your lover, and on the other hand, think about whether you are also at fault?

The relationship between lovers needs to be managed well, and only by managing the relationship well can the relationship between the two be more stable. In this issue, Lin Jia, a senior matchmaker of the network, will teach you several ways to get along, so let's learn it quickly.

1. Rely on each other.

Since two people are together, if they want to get along for a long time, the most important thing is to trust and rely on each other, if both people can't trust each other and rely on each other, then being together will only make each other very tired. We are looking for someone to be able to face all the storms together, not all the storms are brought by the other party.

2. Understand each other.

It's true that there is no empathy in this world, but we can understand each other. When two people get along, they need to think about each other and don't impose their own will on each other. Only by understanding and tolerating each other can two people get along better.

3. Be tolerant of each other.

When two people are together, you should not only appreciate each other's strengths, but also tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings. Everyone has their own habits and shortcomings, so don't just blame others. Two people are together to help each other and constantly improve themselves.

No matter what the other person has lacking, we must tolerate and accept, and then we will work together to change.

4. Respect each other.

If you sneak through their phone today, and they also peek at your phone, and they don't respect each other, it will inevitably cause a round of quarrels. Everyone has their own space and privacy, and knowing how to respect and protect each other's privacy is the greatest respect for each other, so that the emotional life can be more harmonious.

5. Praise each other.

Anyone likes to be praised by others, because it is an encouragement and recognition of the other person, and no one does not like to listen to good words, and complimenting each other can promote the relationship between the two very well.

6. Strengthen communication and exchanges with each other.

Many times when we do something, we don't take the initiative to tell each other, and there is no communication between the two, which often leads to misunderstandings in many things, and finally causes an irreparable situation. Only by communicating their ideas with each other in a timely manner can two people better understand each other.

1 If any of the couples rolls eyes, sneers, or makes sarcastic remarks at every turn, and one person is always condescending to the other, it means that they lack the most basic respect for each other, which is a bad habit that every couple should try to overcome, and should learn to exercise restraint, and it is important for your relationship to retain the self-esteem of the other person.

2. Create small surprises and small romances. Maybe the two feel that after a long time, the love has passed the shelf life, and the original enthusiasm has long faded. But at this time, if you cook a favorite dish for him (her) with your own hands, carefully choose a favorite gift for him (her).

I believe that the beauty of the love period will be recovered in an instant.

3 Keep a proper distance to increase freshness. Sometimes, distance produces beauty. Therefore, when couples feel very tired together, it is easy to cause conflicts. At this time, you may wish to give each other some space and keep a little distance between the two sides. In this way, we can strengthen our relationship with each other.

4 Although it is true that it is plain, the occasional small surprise is an indispensable catalyst between lovers, indicating that you have prepared for each other with your heart.

5 Building trust with each other requires constant communication. Getting to know each other's inner thoughts or talking about plans for the future is one way to foster a relationship. To believe that the other party cannot be blind, unreasonable trust, in the communication of mutual understanding, the establishment of spiritual communication, is the foundation of trust.

Lovers should trust each other and understand each other. Don't be stingy with your mouth. When two people are dating, sweet words are due, and this is also the most important way to enhance the relationship.

Don't be stingy with your mouth because you've been together for a long time and don't feel the need to say this, and you should often say love words. If you haven't seen you for three days, you have to say that you miss it, and if you don't want to, you have to say that. "Isn't it just that I haven't seen each other for a month?

This kind of thing must not be said, it is too hurtful. Each other from different family environments and living environments are united because of love, they should understand and care for each other, and have a tolerant heart for some living habits and eating habits, rather than being responsible for a day, this responsibility, and that if you don't do well, you must learn to run in.

Since mutual trust is the basis for lovers to get along with each other, how do you gain the trust of each other? The most important thing to make the other person believe in yourself is to be honest. Don't be clever enough to think that not telling the other person or deceiving the other person is for the good of the other person, because the so-called "white lie" is not being honest with the other person.

Whether it's a small thing or a big thing, the two of them discuss it together and be honest with each other.

Now many boys are spoiling their girlfriends, and they are happy to be bullied, but girlfriends often lose their proportions, and they are still like this in front of their boyfriend's friends and brothers, which will make him feel very faceless, girlfriends may wish to change it, and scold their boyfriends behind closed doors, but he is a man outside, so he might as well learn from a little woman and be gentle to give his boyfriend enough face. This will make love sweeter. When you are in love, because you have been together for too long and are too familiar with each other, your heart will not be on each other.

At this time, lovers should maintain a certain degree of mystery, and what should be said and not said should be hidden.

Lovers should respect each other. Not only should we respect each other when we speak, but we should also respect each other's thoughts and actions. Especially in front of the other party's friends, don't show how good you are, you must have the upper hand, because the protagonist is not you in the first place.

It's not that you must give him enough face and belittle yourself in front of his friends, so that he will look like in front of his friends, just love him and respect him. It's about not deliberately belittling him and showing yourself, but holding each other and saying it, so that others will feel that you respect each other and are emotionally equal.

Lovers should cultivate common interests and hobbies, and make progress together through mutual encouragement from both parties, so that they can have more common language, and also let each other see their good side, affirm and support their own abilities, which is also worthy of appreciation between each other. You must know that you are lovers and have not yet married, and if you want your relationship to be more harmonious, you should be financially independent, so that you will not look down on each other. You will earn what you want, you can buy what you want, and the other party will not feel that he is a money machine or a burden when he is with you.

There will always be times when lovers get along with each other, but if you blindly don't give in to each other, it will only make the originally small contradictions gradually rise to a higher place, out of control, if you love, please learn to endure, give her, give yourself a calm thinking space.

Love is one of the most beautiful emotions of human beings, but love also needs careful care of words and deeds in order to bear sweet fruits, there are some practices that are not advisable, it is the poison of love, we must be careful to avoid I believe that there are many lovers who have been troubled by this, today we will take a look at it, I hope to have a deeper understanding and cognition of love

First, don't quarrel all day long Two people like each other to walk together, living together is for happiness, not quarrelling, endless quarrels will only destroy the warm relationship and feelings between two people In this regard, both parties can seek common ground while reserving differences in life, and respect each other's different views and opinions

Second, don't easily say that you break up The most taboo between lovers is to threaten each other with a breakup, which is basically irreparable for the damage to feelings Young people prefer to joke, but there must be a bottom line, the speaker is unintentional, and the listener is intentional If the other party takes you to break up seriously, then the bitter fruit of love can only be tasted by yourself I believe that many lovers have encountered this situation, so don't do irreparable things in order to selfishly possess each other

Third, there should be their own independent space and time If lovers are tired of being together every day, it will affect their studies and work, and it is not conducive to their further development, over time, the novelty is becoming less and less, and the lack of discovery is more and more, which is very detrimental to the development of feelings Therefore, Liuli hereby reminds everyone, don't delay both parties in order to covet a short period of dependence Some people are afraid that their lover will leave you and force him (her) to leave you if he is not by his side, then I want to tell you, This will only have the opposite effect What lovers need most at this time is trust, trust him (her), trust him (her) more in your love so that he (she) will only love you more

Fourth, love must not be at the mercy of others Love is a matter for both people, others can only give advice to their interactions, but no one has the right to interfere with them, even if it is the opinion of parents, it can only be used as a reference, because only the parties know best whether the other party is compatible with themselves So you must have the courage to pursue love, don't wait for love to be lost and let yourself be in regret for the rest of your life And the love that has experienced setbacks and survived will be more firm and strong

Fifth, don't force people to be difficult to change, temperament is difficult to change, human nature is difficult to change in a short period of time, so when you find that the other party is not perfect shortcomings, don't have too high expectations for the other party's speed of change If two people love each other, they will try their best to correct their shortcomings for each other If you force the other party to change, it will make the other party have a rebellious mentality, and you may feel that the relationship is a burden after a long time, so that it will be a big loss because of a small loss