Psychology, why do you always like to die, you can t control it at all

Psychology is a science that studies human psychological phenomena, mental functions and behaviors, and it is not necessarily related to death. Death usually refers to risk-taking or reckless behavior, which may be related to a variety of factors such as an individual's personality, behavior patterns, life experiences, etc., rather than the scope of psychological research.

The goal of psychology is to understand human behavior and thinking, as well as their relationship to the physiological, social, and cultural environment. It provides theories and methods to understand the causes and effects of human behavior, as well as how to address psychologically related problems.

Therefore, it is unreasonable to associate psychology with death. Researchers and practitioners in psychology are committed to helping people improve their quality of life, rather than encouraging them to take risks or die.

I don't know which book I read the saying: Desire is like the sea, the more you drink, the more thirsty you get. To be honest, I have long forgotten the name of the author of that book, but this sentence in the book is really engraved on the bottom plate of my heart.

It is an undeniable fact that people who do not have any desires at all cannot be found. Desire is indeed difficult to resist, even the unusually intelligent Eve can't help but all kinds of warnings, and steal the forbidden fruit, not to mention us mortals who walk through the bustling red dust.

The street car of Desire, often quietly driving to your side, although its carrying capacity has a considerable tonnage, you still can't be satisfied: the seat is not at the department level, you think about the hall level; It's not enough for a house to be a three-bedroom apartment, you want a four-bedroom or even a villa; It's not enough to have a bulging ticket, you think that the ring is not heavy enough, and the dollar is not enough to use ......

If life is a difficult equation to solve, we don't necessarily know what its end result will be. But we at least know that a person's desires are always directly proportional to his existing living conditions. To put it bluntly, the worse the living conditions of a person, the less likely his desires are; The better the living conditions of the person, the greater his desires are likely to be.

For example, for a person who is destitute and has not eaten a meal, his greatest desire may simply be to fill his stomach. And for a person in fine clothes and jade food, what he worries about all day long is not the problem of food and clothing, but how to use the weight of desire to weigh the quality of his life on the balance of society. In view of the latter situation, Mr. Dongpo has long pointed out: it is easy to be poor, it is difficult to be rich, it is easy to work hard, it is difficult to be idle, it is easy to endure pain, it is difficult to endure itching, people can endure wealth, idleness, and itching, and there are really people who have the way.

Desire, in fact, is the itch in your soul. The pain can be endured, but the itch is the more you scratch it, the more you want to scratch it.

Desire is an innate thing, people have the desire to live, the desire to eat, clothing, and housing. The unfulfilled desire of the most basic is certainly a pain. However, it is not necessarily a kind of happiness that all desires are satisfied—besides, it is impossible for people to have all their desires satisfied, because the end of desires is still desire.

The heart is servitude, God is the desire to hurt, so why should we force ourselves to pursue those things that are dispensable? Perhaps, only those who have exhausted and walked through Zimo Hongchen, when they pass the last post station of their lives, will they be exhausted and helplessly sigh: desire is like sea water, it turns out that the more you drink, the thirstier you get.

People, it's better to live a plain life, don't always live with gains and losses. You don't have to be ecstatic about the fulfillment of your desires, and you don't have to be sad about the unfulfilled desires.

It doesn't matter if you die, you can't affect your family.