How do I turn down a guy who pursues me? without breaking his heart

Updated on psychology 2024-06-08
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You just said to that boy, although my boyfriend and I are not very good, but the relationship is still deep, I know you are good to me, but we can't be together, I believe that a good boy like you can find a better boy than me, if you can't find me to help you find it, you just say to that boy, I think it should be okay... If it doesn't work, there's no way.,Boys chasing girls.,It's normal when a girl rejects.。。。

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Break up with your boyfriend and date this person.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Now that your boyfriend is starting to get bored, accept a new relationship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love will always hurt, refuse, don't procrastinate, it's not good, it's good for everyone to be direct.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let's put it directly, this kind of thing can't be delayed, the possibility of refusing is very small, and basically there are very few people who can be friends in the future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When he sees him, he will know what his relatives feel to him, what he calls his brother, but if he keeps insisting, you might as well think about it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Seriously. Rejection is sad. All you can do is minimize the damage.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You ask the guy out, go with your boyfriend to meet him, introduce him to your boyfriend, and if he has the heart, he should give up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Rejection always hurts, the deeper the love, the deeper the hurt, how can there be a good thing to have both worlds!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can directly tell the other party that the two people are not suitable, so that a decisive refusal will make the other party change the goal and will not cause some trouble to yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Girls may feel that it takes a long time to reply to the message, or read it several times before replying to the message, which seems to be an attitude of rejection, but some boys will feel that there is still a little hope, and may even arouse the fighting spirit to pursue because of your indifference, so just say: Please don't send me a message. For objects that are impossible to intersect again, you can also choose not to read or return to speak directly, and use more drastic means to make the other party understand.

    If you don't want to continue developing with your partner, don't accept any flattering gifts.

    It doesn't matter if the gift is light or heavy, it is a favor. If you accept a favor, you will feel pressured to reciprocate, which can easily make the other person feel an opportunity to do more. In the workplace, as a girl, don't talk alone with a boy, no matter how a male colleague in the company pursues you, don't give a chance to be alone, because once you are alone with them, they will have the opportunity to say to you, if you agree to their career, then you will be laughed at by your colleagues in the office; In the future, we will also be the object of ridicule among our colleagues.

    If you don't agree to his confession, it will be awkward to get along with him at work. Therefore, in order to work in the workplace, we must keep a certain distance from homosexuals and not be alone with them. If you don't like this person, you have to refuse decisively, don't be indecisive, you will get yourself in trouble.

    If you don't want to reject others for the sake of face, and you feel embarrassed to refuse, this kind of procrastination will only make the other party have a good impression of you. If you don't like it, just refuse, tell him that you are not suitable, and let him understand what you mean.

    The above is a detailed interpretation of the problem, I hope it will help you, if you have any questions, you can leave me a message in the comment area, you can comment with me, if there is something wrong, you can also interact with me more, if you like the author, you can also follow me, your like is the biggest help to me, thank you.

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