A boy was pursuing me, but I didn t want to, but I was afraid of hurting him. What should I do? 20

Then don't contact him.

Time can dilute everything, maybe it will forget you after a long time.

Since I didn't say that I didn't want to hurt him, then tell him directly, lest the more you get to the end, the deeper the hurt will be, take advantage of the early and quick knife to cut through the mess, and the long pain is better than the short pain, and your indecision will only add trouble to yourself and the other party, and deepen the pain of each other

A: Only say it to him once, euphemistically. Ignore him later.

B: Tell him that he should go back and learn from the experience of chasing girls.

If you don't like people, just make it clear. Don't let this infatuated boy sink deeper and deeper

A love story. Life is the process of finding love, and everyone has to find four people in their life.

The first is yourself, the second is the person you love the most, the third is the person who loves you the most, and the fourth is the person you spend your life with.

First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then experience the feeling of love;

Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most;

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not your favorite or the person who loves you the most, it's just the person who appears at the most suitable time.

How many people will you be in someone else's life?

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he is with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession, you like the moon, it is impossible to take the moon down and put it in the basin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is—love his good and love his bad

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

What about you? How many did you find?

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again?

If you don't like people, make it clear as soon as possible, don't hurt him more in the end.

Be cold to him, don't be cold.

You can try to reconnect with this guy, but there is no regret medicine in this world, so the two of you are likely to be completely out of line.

The reason why I say this is mainly because many boys don't take the initiative to turn back when chasing girls. If the two of you don't have feelings or fate in the first place, even if the two of you forcibly increase the contact, because the two of you are likely to have no results. For many girls, girls may feel that they have just agreed with the boy's pursuit, but the boy has stopped pursuing, so it is a pity, but this situation itself belongs to the girl does not know to cherish.

One, you can continue to contact this guy.

I don't know why you regret it, but if the two of you feel better together, you can try to keep in touch with the guy and learn more about the specific problems of both parties. When two people are not together, you may only value each other's strengths, and ignore each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, I think the two of you need to look at the relationship problems of two people with a more objective attitude. <>

Second, you can also choose to continue to look forward.

For most men, if a guy doesn't get any response when he pursues a girl, he does just give up, because he doesn't think he needs to waste time on someone who doesn't have a result. As a girl, since you didn't feel it at the beginning, I don't think you have anything to regret, and you can just move on. <>

3. What is my personal opinion?

Some girls will always try their best to test each other when the boy is pursuing them, only to find themselves tossing and turning in the end. Some girls are more introverted and are always cautious when looking at emotional issues, so they miss out on their own feelings. Whatever the reason, if two people really don't have a fate, you actually need to spend more time on yourself, and at the same time look forward to meeting someone who is more suitable for you.

You should take the initiative to call the other party ** to show that you like him. He should talk to a friend around him and let him convey it on his behalf. He should get to know his parents and let them do the work for him.

You can use it to contact the other party, you should also tell the other party what you think, and you should clearly tell the other party that you have regretted it, and you should also let the other party give you a chance. You can prepare some beautiful small gifts for each other.

You can chase the boy backwards, or you can apologize to the boy and give him some gifts to keep the boy.

There's a guy who's fanatically pursuing me, but I don't like him, what should I do?

If you don't like it, reject him explicitly. didn't accept gifts, didn't make appointments, kept a distance, and completely broke his thoughts.

It's best not to break the thread when you feel emotional, if you like it, if you don't like it, if you don't like it, it's just crisp. The more afraid you are of hurting others, and the more embarrassed you are to say it, the deeper the hurt will be in the end.

When my friend Xiaoli was in school, there was a boy who chased her very closely, and it was her senior Wang Peng. Wang Peng has love letters every day, and small snacks and gifts are constantly there.

If she didn't accept it, she quietly put it in the desk, Xiaoli was also very distressed, feeling that she was still young and just wanted to study and didn't want to fall in love. But I don't know how to refuse, and I'm afraid of hurting others, so I've been dragging it out and embarrassed to talk about it. The things were not moved, the gifts were not opened, and I thought that after a while he might forget about it himself and return it to him.

Who knew that after a while, not only did it not forget, but it became more and more intense. Wang Peng saw that she didn't refuse, thinking that she agreed, so he told his friends everywhere that Xiaoli was his girlfriend.

In the end, the teacher also knew, and called Xiaoli to talk.

After clarifying, the boy felt hurt and dropped out of school. At this time, the rumors not only did not stop but became more and more outrageous, Xiaoli felt embarrassed, and finally stopped going to school. (Countless towns).

Later, whenever I talked about it, I said that if I told the boy clearly early, I wouldn't let him misunderstand, and I wouldn't let myself be stupid enough to drop out of school, at least I could learn more knowledge.

Xiaoli did not explicitly reject other people's feelings, which brought harm to others, and also brought a lot of trouble to herself, and she also learned a lesson.

Because they didn't reject an inappropriate relationship in time, both of them were hurt.

If time could be reversed, Xiaoli said that she would definitely reject him clearly and tactfully in time.

But life is not a dress rehearsal, there is no chance to start over, and everyone has to bear the corresponding consequences for all their choices.

Every age has its own way of doing things, and I am willing to protect myself and not hurt others.

If you don't like him, you have to reject him, no matter how fiercely he pursues you, you have to refuse, you can't hang others, so it's not only you who will be hurt but also him.

If you don't like it, you have to reject him decisively, and you must not drag him, because dragging him is not good for both of you, talk about it early and disperse early.

Make it clear. Don't deliberately be ambiguous, be sure to find out the impossible, and don't let people's efforts be in vain.

If you really don't like him, don't deliberately hang him and refuse his pursuit directly.

If a guy is fanatically pursuing me, but I don't like it myself, I think I should just say no and not waste each other's time.

You shouldn't promise him, because you haven't been in contact with him all these years, you don't know him well, and if you do, it will be bad for you.

Do you like him, accept him if you like him, ignore him if you don't like it.

I think you should resolutely show your own attitude, even if it hurts his heart, I think you have to explain what you really think in your heart, so that you can get rid of this person.

If you don't like it, you should tell him the truth, and you can't be indecisive and not refuse for fear of hurting someone's self-esteem, which will only hurt him more and waste each other's time.

Be honest about your thoughts and expectations for your future partner, and be tough.

At this time, I think you should ask this man out, talk to him properly, and tell him that you don't like him, and you hate him very much.

It's better to act than to move. If you like it, go after it.

Summary. This question is up to me, it takes a little time to type, so please be patient.

There is a boy who has been chasing me for half a year, I have clearly rejected him, he is still very good to me, I don't want to delay him, I like him a lot, how can I persuade him.

This question is up to me, it takes a little time to type, so please be patient.

You can say, don't be so persistent, I really don't like you. Don't waste your feelings on me.

You want to pursue your own happiness, and don't disturb my life.

The next day after I came back, I still felt that my personality was a little weird, and I didn't feel very suitable, and I deliberately reminded him to go forward, and he said that he didn't know what it meant, and that it was not good, so don't waste time.

It's that he's embarrassed to say it.

Don't waste your time.

That's what I said, and he used to be like that, and he didn't understand it, and he had to explain it again.

Maybe I still can't let you go.

Maybe he thinks that if he is sure of the relationship, he is his person, and he doesn't need to work every day, and he is busy.

Forget it, I didn't like it very much.

Maybe that's the case.

Thank you. You're welcome.

If a boy is pursuing you, you are embarrassed to refuse, so you don't reject others, and then don't associate with others, then you are not right to do this, you can directly explain that you don't like each other, so that the other party gives up the idea of chasing you, because sometimes you can't bear to refuse, which is the real hurt to others.

I think if you don't like him, you should make it clear to him as soon as possible and reject him, don't leave him any room for illusions, this is respect for yourself and respect for him.

If you are embarrassed to refuse, you should refuse, you should not drag other people's feelings for the sake of being embarrassed, this kind of thing is not good for yourself in the end, if you don't like him, firmly reject him.

If you don't like him, I think you should have the courage to say no. After all, if he didn't refuse at that time, it would have caused him a lot of harm.

For the pursuit of boys, I don't know how to refuse at home, and the best way is to keep my distance.

If a guy likes you so much, then you should promise him and don't let him be discouraged, after all, he has been chasing people for a long time.