A group of nasty people in the dorm, what if there is a nasty person in the college dorm?

Actually, they didn't mean it, when they were in junior high school, they all felt that the world was mine, and they could play as much as they wanted, and they didn't know how to take into account the feelings of others. I was bullied when I was in junior high school, but there were so many people who helped me. I'll give you a trick.

Be friends with people who don't usually have much of a council, but will quietly help you. In fact, everyone was confused in junior high school, but in the third year of junior high school, you will understand that the past will be a good memory. Don't retaliate, it's not worth it, it's better to change the way, since it's dirty, just let it go and play, and then wash it together, you can also enhance the relationship.

Ignore them. These are all unqualified people. Don't be a little bit of a guide. 3 years passed quickly. The most important thing to figure out now is to learn.

If you really want to take revenge, sue the teacher or get them to do the same, just say that you are careless, if they sue the teacher, the teacher will not treat you if you are a good student.

It's fate that everyone is assigned to the same dormitory, and you think that you have different personalities from them and can't play together, have you told them? Have you ever put yourself in their shoes? If you don't communicate with each other, the problem will never be solved, so just put aside your face and explain it to them.

Apply for a dormitory or day study, which affects the mood, and the later it goes, the greater the impact on the mood.

It's a bit annoying indeed. So be it. You see if you can find a teacher to change the dormitory, since you study so well, there is no reason why the school should not take care of you.

Talk to them calmly.

People don't offend me, I don't offend people, I think that's it.

You can choose to be a normal friend, or you can choose to stay away from it.

1. Adjust your mentality, maybe your roommate said something wrong, maybe she did something wrong, in fact, think about the other party's good, these are nothing. Learn to understand others and give them a chance to make mistakes, while at the same time being your own.

2. Don't take advantage of this kind of thing, if you do it once or twice, you believe that the other party will not be willing to play with you. Don't take your roommate for a fool, and don't lower your worth. Getting along with roommates generously is the long-term way.

3. Respect each other's privacy When it comes to privacy, privacy must be some secrets that you don't want to disclose, and if you chase after a roommate and ask He Que about something that the other party doesn't want to tell you, it may be annoying. On the basis of a good relationship, the limit can be appropriately magnified, but everyone will have a bottom line.

4. Don't care about roommates borrowing money and borrowing money is quite emotional, I believe you don't know it, I won't go into detail about the reasons.

And college, like a small society, allows you to start to get in touch with more things about the social level, interpersonal relationships, it seems to be more complicated, if you can make a confidant, then you are lucky, but most of the time, you will feel that most people, and you, are in two different worlds.

In this regard, my advice is not to sentence you to death for the relationship with your roommate based on your feelings at the beginning, if you always reject your roommate in your heart, then you will not be comfortable staying inside, so you can change your way of thinking, you are not unable to get along with them, even if you are not good girlfriends, you can become friends with good friends because of some common interests.

If you have a good relationship with your roommates and you make a big warm family, then you are in luck. If you have a roommate who has a good time, then you can be with her and block out others.

But if you're staying with a group of people who don't have anything in common at all, you're going to be very awkward over time, and I suggest you choose to move out at university.

I don't agree with changing the original self in order to fit in, but the premise is whether that self is a good self.

Figure out the root of the problem, whether it's your problem or the other person's problem, and then adopt different attitudes to solve different problems.

1. If it is her reason, you can express her shortcomings to her euphemistically through friends, and at the same time express that her shortcomings have affected your life, and hope that she can correct this shortcoming herself, and in general, she will correct her shortcomings.

2. If it's your own reason, try to change your attitude and face your shortcomings. You can change yourself for the better by changing yourself to forgive others.

3. If both of you have certain problems, you can communicate frankly, say your heart, and it will be easy to understand each other, and it will change her and you at the same time.

4. If you can't solve it yourself, it is recommended to introduce a teacher to adjust, and you can apply for a dormitory change or apply for a teacher to judge to solve the problem.

Precautions: 1. If you decide to solve it yourself, you should consider the feelings of others when pointing out the shortcomings of others, and euphemistic expression is a key to solving the problem.

2. When solving problems, don't be rash, and take solutions calmly.

I believe that many people have lived in dormitories from junior high school to university like me, and dormitory life is one of the most important memories of our student days.

As the saying goes, "When the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds". In the dormitory, we also saw the strange behavior of all kinds of strange roommates. Now take stock of your roommate's strange behavior, which one do you hate the most?

Do not flush the toilet. I really can't stand this, and I can understand it if I forget it occasionally or stop the water. But some people just don't like to flush the toilet, and they often don't flush when they go to the toilet, and they don't flush the key large size! Don't rush on the tuba! Are you going to save it and eat it hot?

Rub things for use. Some roommates like to take advantage of small things, and usually like to use other people's things. I like to eat snacks, but I never buy them.

I didn't even say hello. I also like to use roommates for daily necessities, never buy laundry soap, shampoo and shower gel all the time secretly use my roommate's, and even wear my roommate's slippers to class. Stealing someone else's things and being bumped into can still say without changing your face, what's wrong with me using it?

Go to bed late and don't let others get up early.

Playing games every night, crackling and even yelling and playing until one or two o'clock before going to sleep. Then when we got up the next morning, she told us to be quieter and complained that we disturbed her sleep.

Curious baby. Curiosity is bursting, you have to ask you what you do, and I like to watch it. While you wash, she watched from the sidelines

Hey, what are you doing? ”。While you're reading, she comes over:

Hey, what book are you reading? ”。When you were eating, she appeared:

Hey, what are you eating? ”。When you go online, she asks:

Hey, what are you looking at? ”。Finally you close the curtain to avoid her, and she pulls the curtain open and asks

Hey, what are you doing? ”

Don't turn off the alarm. The night before, she set several alarms at once, and the next morning, the magical alarm woke up the entire dorm, but it didn't wake her up.

Owed money is not repaid. It seems to be very forgetful, and when I go out with my roommate, I can remember to bring everything, but I forgot to bring money. When it's time to pay, I'll ask you to help with the pad.

Later, he selectively forgot about it, and when you asked him for it, he would gently say to you: "Oh, I forgot about the twenty dollars, are you embarrassed to ask me for this money?" ”

Don't love hygiene. Some roommates have smelly feet and like to play basketball, but they just don't like to take a shower and don't bother to do laundry. Every time I changed my dirty clothes, I threw them in the corner of the dormitory, and I had to wash them until I had no clothes to wear. The whole dormitory will smell of him!