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Anonymous users2024-02-12Husband and wife quarrel is also a way to understand each other, sometimes after the quarrel knows the other party's thoughts, understands the other party's dissatisfaction, you can find the cause of the problem, know how to solve it, but quarrel is the worst way to solve the problem, because when quarrelling, everyone will definitely find the most unpleasant words to say, the most uncomfortable words to pick that sentence to say, but after everyone calms down and feel that the words are too heavy. Everyone has been getting along for a long time, and everyone knows that the other party is just unintentional, so they will definitely tolerate each other and forgive each other, that is what people often say about bedside fights and bedside peace.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11People's thinking is complex, will be affected by good or bad emotions, sometimes in a bad mood, want to vent, there will be a quarrel, that is, quarrels, after the heart is calm, it will be fine, because I know in my heart, there is no big contradiction, it is not easy to organize a family, to maintain him, need both sides to understand, tolerate, love. Ten years of repair can be crossed in the same boat, and a hundred years of repair can sleep together!
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Anonymous users2024-02-10It depends on the personalities of both parties. It doesn't matter much if you don't have a husband or a wife. Some people often say that they break up when they are in love, and they are likely to say divorce when they are married.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Yes, in fact, no matter who you quarrel with (except for strangers), looking back, there is no deep hatred, naturally you will be more peaceful, and the past will be over, and you will be reconciled.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08No, if you keep tolerating and changing in marriage, it will not make the other party feel satisfied, but will make the relationship become more and more unequal, and you will be hurt in the relationship. In marriage, although you don't need to argue with reason, you should also love yourself well and don't swallow your anger with others. You should express your concept very clearly, you can back down, but you can't always endure it and live a life of obedience.
In that way, I will also fall into an inferiority complex, this relationship, because of the concession of one party, patience will become more and more unequal, even if the relationship is long-lasting, it has no meaning, let alone happiness.
1. Blind forbearance will make the other party gain an inch.
Although there should be mutual humility and tolerance in marriage, this is all mutual, not forever withering and only one party is humble and tolerant, but both parties can understand how to operate in marriage, if only one party blindly tolerates and changes themselves, the other party will never be indifferent, and the party who thinks it is the one who tolerates will do so as a matter of course, and the other party will have to make an inch of progress at the endure, and it will not make the relationship stable for a long time.
2. Blind forbearance will make you feel aggrieved.
In marriage, the most important thing is to obtain happiness and the value of life, if we blindly tremble and guess and tolerate change, swallow each other's anger, and accept it, we will feel that we have lost the value of life and the meaning of life.
Because we can't get happiness from this marriage, we will make this marriage become chicken ribs, and if we keep tolerating it, we will feel very aggrieved, which is quite detrimental to physical and mental health, and it is impossible to make the relationship last for a long time.
3. Tolerance can't change anything.
Many people have the traditional idea that patience is needed in marriage, but for any modern person, patience has a limit. Blindly forbearance will suppress one's body and mind, which is not good for one's physical and mental health, and it will not be good for this marriage. Forbearance is useful if one's own forbearance can be exchanged for the understanding of the other party.
If the other party doesn't understand, they will think that the tolerant party is easy to bully, and the relationship will never last long.
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It's not that you don't love, some people may not have such living habits, chopsticks are fine, using your own chopsticks to clip others is unhygienic, some particular families may not have such a habit, parents so children have also continued the habit, not to give each other vegetables is not not not to love but feel unhygienic.
Husband and wife get along, the most important thing is to trust each other, and secondly, you must put your heart at home, especially gay men, don't think that paying the money every month is an obligation, your heart is not at home, home is not home. Couples should do more common things, such as cleaning together, cooking a meal together, and when you both feel the happiness of the family, you will find that the feelings of husband and wife are very integrated. The main reason for getting along is mutual accusations, each other is too self-conscious, always feel that the other party is wrong, always feel that they are very wronged, in fact, home is not a reasonable place, no love, there is no tolerance, of course, it is difficult.
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