It s 20, is it early to introduce your boyfriend to the house?

It's early. I'm a boy in my junior year this year, and I like a girl very much, and I really want to be with her for the rest of my life, but now I'm a little confused about where my future is, so now I'm just friends with her, you're only a sophomore, you can talk, but I don't think you should take it home, you know it's a little bit to take it home"Husband',,,At least the people around your family may think so,,, but you're still a sophomore and haven't graduated yet,,, so it may be a little unpleasant,,, you say your parents are feudal, then maybe the people around you will too, and the small talk may not be very good,,, and are you sure that your future one is him? If so, don't take it back, because bringing it back now will only make your parents have a bad impression of it

Parents are the same all over the world I started my freshman year and went to my sophomore year My parents said the same thing, but they didn't object to me falling in love, saying that they should protect themselves and don't mess around with boys After all, it's still early to get married, and when I go to work, I will find that there are many people who are right.

It's better not to bring it home, after all, when you're a child, you have to think about your parents, a white lie, don't tell them, and do the right thing at the right time.

It's better not to have parents who don't like it.

Otherwise, it will be miserable for you to break up with him.

It's not good to bring it home so early, and it's a thing to do when you graduate.

Since they're against it, you're waiting! Anyway, it's still young, so get along with him for a while and observe more.

At twenty years old, you're an adult, and you're capable of taking responsibility for what you do! Don't know if you're at work anymore? If you are a student and your family members pay more attention to your studies, you can listen to the following views on your friends during your time at school.

If it's strongly opposed, it's best not to tell them, and when you're about to graduate, find a time to tell them! If they don't object so much, then tell them how he is, and then find an opportunity to take him back, provided that you plan to go on with him all the time, girls don't take boys home casually, if you accidentally break up, you can also avoid the other party's entanglement!

When are you going to get married?

Do you think your boyfriend is reliable?

What do you think of your family's family traditions?

How long has your boyfriend been talking to you?

Did your parents ask you about this kind of thing?

Did your boyfriend try to take you back to his house to meet his parents?

When did most of the relatives you know meet their parents?

If you don't see your parents now, will you be afraid that you will be asked to break up later because your parents don't like this type of son-in-law?

I'm only 19 years old, so I'll wait a little longer, shoot for a few more years, it's not bad, I'm from the same era as you, and I've been with my girlfriend for more than a year. We all love each other, and I told her that we're going to get married for eight years, and she looks a little helpless, but we all love each other. She said she would still support me, and now I think it's too early, two more years...

It's all together, what are you afraid of if you love each other?

Fortunately, parents are most afraid that their daughter will not tell the family if she has a boyfriend outside.

If you don't study, you won't, I'm not nineteen or twenty, and I'm going to take that one home next year, heh.

The post-90s generation doesn't know how thick the sky is, and now it's not time to talk about marriage, just say it's a friend, anyway, your parents know it.

Look at whether you go to school or not, and are there still parents who are open-minded? You can try these by tapping on the side first.

Dizzy. You haven't even seen it now, how can you talk about development?

If two people want to have the possibility of development, they must have a certain understanding of each other before they can talk about development, right?

After all, the other party is still studying, and you are already working, the mentality of the two people may be different, maybe you will be much more mature than him.

I think I can get to know each other as ordinary friends first, and then consider whether there is any possibility of development.

Unlikely.

He was in college and could meet a lot of better ones.

That's what his mother meant, not his.

Eight good I think. You have to feel it, right

Don't go to see him, he's in school, you're at work, you live in different worlds, there won't be much in common between the two of you, and the prospects are not optimistic. If you want to find a partner, instead of wasting time with a student who can't take care of you, look around you to see if there is someone who is good to you and you don't hate it.

It's better not to, you are affected by different environments, and there will be a lot of conflicts when you are together, and no one knows what will happen in the future, so it's better to talk about it yourself.

No. Let's choose another couple.

Hehe, anything is possible...

This will have to wait until you meet and feel for each other, and this will not be done!

Let's take a look first.

After trying it, I know if it's suitable or not.

If it's not suitable, just separate.

It's time to accumulate experience.

It's up to you to decide, if you feel that you and him have reached the point where you can meet his parents, then go and meet his parents, or if you think you are sure of your relationship with him, then go for it. In fact, you can wait until you have worked for a period of time before going, after all, people will change a lot after work. In fact, meeting parents is just a formality, and you don't have to think about it a lot.

It depends on what you think, as long as you decide to live with him, sooner or later you will have to meet, and it is better to go on your birthday, because you can behave well on that day, blessings, help with things, the first impression is very important, very profound. Not the other way around.

Not early, to his father's birthday.

Marriage is not like falling in love, you can be together if you want to be together, and let go if you want to separate. Like you said, it's a bit too child's play to get married not long after we got together. Do you really know each other?

Someone once said: Men are good, but it depends on who he is willing to be good to, there is an old saying that is still good, and after a long time, you will see people's hearts, if you think he can really give you happiness, get married. But looking at what you're posting here today, it's enough to prove that he can't give you a 100% sense of security.

Look at what you just mentioned, you don't dislike him for being poor, and I praise you on behalf of all my male compatriots. To speak in good conscience, many marriage changes now come from the decision to get married in a hurry. It's all the same old saying:

Look before you leap. Seeing what you added, I can tell you clearly, if he doesn't give you a **, don't pay attention to him in the future.

He wants to save face and refuses to admit that he pursues you in front of his friends, so he says that he was introduced by his family, and it doesn't matter, you ask him if he wants to save face but ask him in another way, don't tell the person who passed the word.

Just ask him, if he really loves you, he won't care too much.

Your boyfriend said that he was introduced by his family, and there are other girlfriends.

How you feel, marriage can't be decided casually.

Otherwise, after you get married, if you feel that you can't do it, will you divorce?

You can try to get along.

But I saw his complaints, and it was a little bit like he had just come out to do something!

Hello friend:

Not to mention anything else, just from complaining about work, it can be seen that he is not mature enough, and if you get along in the future, he may vent his work emotions on you, whether to continue or not, or you have to grasp it yourself, this is just my opinion, in fact, it depends on yourself.

Do it yourself.

This doesn't seem to be a good suggestion.

Do you think you have a family background, or is he himself unmotivated?

Ask your heart, do you have a good impression of him, leave if not, don't delay yourself and him, find your own happiness,

You don't deserve to be with him, so it's better to cut it off as soon as possible.

It's okay little sister, if you don't have feelings for him and really don't want to associate with him, then you can ignore him, you don't have to reply to his text messages, don't take the initiative to talk when you call, be cold, refuse him anyway, he will understand himself, and he will slowly stop looking for you. Don't think about your family, because it's a major event in your life, and if you marry the wrong person, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Think about it

Advise your parents first! If it doesn't work, just say to the man, you are too bad, I don't like it, or put forward some high requirements to make him retreat. It's okay for him to think you're vulgar. Unscrupulous! Ha ha!

You lie to him. Wouldn't it be nice if you had a boyfriend?

Then you can make it clear to him!

You hurry up and find a boyfriend.

I like to continue, I don't like to say goodbye.

My ex-boyfriend said that he wouldn't look back, I think you should think about your own problems, he went so decisively. Find your own problem and pay attention next time.

You shouldn't care too much about your appearance, and you shouldn't use beauty as a weight for your pursuit of happiness, because for a man, although a woman's beauty can attract him, what can make him willing to pay for her is her inner beauty. I used to know a girl, and to be honest, she wasn't good-looking at all, but there were a lot of guys who liked her, just because she had a good personality.

There is also to cherish the people who cherish you now, don't wait for you to be old and yellow before you think of some people, it is estimated that they are already fathers at that time.

If you are young enough, do what you think in your heart; How to have a certain age, then you have to face the reality, it is not easy to find someone who is really good to you. Life is always firewood, rice, oil, and salt are more important than poetry.

I don't think you're a good fit. If you don't have an eye, you will still have regrets in the end. At the very least, you can't look at it. Also, stop thinking about your ex-boyfriend and miss that you don't have fate in this life. Don't force it. Good luck.

Because your ex-boyfriend is handsome, so you will often think of him, one meter seven is not bad, and a gentle man is even more difficult to find.