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There are several reasons why you can't look back after burning paper for a dead person:
1.One way of saying is that you are afraid that your deceased relatives will see you turn back, knowing that you are reluctant, he will be uneasy, or it may be that after you look back, you will see that you are reluctant, and some dirty things will go back with you, in short, you can't let the deceased ancestors cherish you to affect the family.
2.Another theory is that after the burial of the deceased, when everyone goes home, they should not look back, so as not to see things that should not be seen, especially those who are weak and have supernatural constitutions, it is forbidden to look back, not only can not look back at the funeral, but also the clothes worn by the deceased during the funeral must not have pockets, which means that the deceased must not be allowed to take any generation with them.
Taken together, these taboos or customs reflect a unique understanding of death and funeral, as well as respect and remembrance for loved ones who have passed away.
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Many old people in small villages will say, burn paper money.
Sometimes there is some money scattered on the side of the road for those who pick up money, they will not block the way when they pick up money, they will not hinder their dead relatives from going to another world, if they turn around and see them picking up money, they will be angry. The folk say that people who are weak in eight characters look back and see some situations that they shouldn't see. It will disturb the dead or wild ghosts, so don't look back when burning paper money, so as not to cause some unnecessary trouble.
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Superstition says that when you look back when you burn paper for the dead and leave, he will not be able to do anything, and he will look for you endlessly
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Maybe I'm afraid that he won't be willing to let you go.
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Whenever there is a Qingming Festival, we have to go up the mountain to worship our ancestors and bring some dark coins.
Burn it for the ancestors who are far away in the sky. For many people, burning coins and burning some paper folded money or ingots to their deceased relatives is just a custom of the Qingming Festival. So what is the ** of this custom?
1. The answer of the ancients to the world after death.
The ancient people did not know that there was nothing after death, they believed that people had a soul after death, and the soul would go to the underworld.
When people go to the underworld, they also need to rely on money to send away some evil ghosts, otherwise they will encounter a lot of evil ghosts to disturb them, so on the Qingming Festival and the death day of their ancestors.
It is a day to burn paper, which is a day to send money to the deceased ancestors. And when we burn paper, we usually draw a circle on the ground, and in this circle the paper is burned to mean that the paper is given to us, and the deceased ancestors are meant not to be snatched away by other evil spirits.
2. Cultural legends.
It is said that in ancient times, there was a Xiucai after the death of his mother, because the family was very poor, he couldn't even afford a coffin, so he temporarily parked the body at home, a friend asked him why he didn't accompany her mother's body, Xiucai was embarrassed to say that he had no money to bury his mother, so he had to tell his friend that because he didn't want his mother to leave, he wanted to leave his mother at home and spend a few more days with his mother. Friends thought that what he said was reasonable, and he was a dutiful son, and after the news spread, people followed suit. As a result, one day, the mother of the local county order died, because the weather was hot and it was really inappropriate to put it at home, so the county order put the mother's body in the temple to take the monk to guard, and the monk handed it over to the little monk in the temple to guard, the little monk accompanied the dead man, and he was really afraid of the smell of the dead man, so he took a few handfuls of straw and burned it to dilute the smell, and after the straw was burned, he found some yellow paper and burned it, and the county order suddenly came to find it, and the master who accompanied the county order saw this scene and explained for the little monk, This is to send money to the old lady to the underworld, and the money used in the underworld is all the paper of the underworld.
Since then, this burns paper money.
The habit remained.
3. A form of commemoration.
Make some amends. This special way of commemoration has now spread abroad, and some foreigners will do the same to make their ancestors in heaven better.
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I know the reason, because the living people want to send some comfort and warmth to the deceased in this way, which belongs to feudal superstition.
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It is an ancient sacrificial ritual. It is a kind of remembrance of the ancestors, so be sure to burn paper.
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I know that in this case, I want to send some good wishes to the deceased, which belongs to feudal superstition, and there are many places where such a policy has been abolished.
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In order to commemorate these deceased, paper will be burned after death. It is also a ritual that has been passed down for a long time.
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It's boring enough to find dead people to brush traffic.
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Hallelujah, great luck.
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The burning of the door paper by the dead indicates that the person is gone forever, showing the care of the deceased and alleviating the pain of the deceased.
During the period of mortuary, by the son.
The daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law burn the door paper in the morning, burn the door paper when they go to bed, and keep the lamp on for ever.
Oil. After burning the door paper, the body is buried and the body is moved into the prepared coffin. If the deceased is a woman, the maiden brother or nephew will carry the hammer and wedge.
After the completion of the big collection, it is necessary to cut the mourning rod for Qingyin to stimulate filial piety for men and women, commonly known as "mourning stick". The mourning stick is about a meter long and is generally made of willow wood.
Funeral instructions for the deceased before burial
After the death of the elderly, they sent someone to inform their relatives separately.
The name is "funeral", and the socks are commonly known as "sending down the letter". Relatives and friends who heard the news went to the funeral, which was called "crying and falling down", and they had to bring a knife of paper.
Wearing filial piety clothes and hats is called "finished clothes", also called "wearing filial piety". In the past, there were five kinds of filial piety clothes, which were divided into decay, Qi decay, great merit, small merit, and hemp, called "five clothes."
In the Zaozhuang area, a sentence often said in the family is "I haven't come out of five clothes yet", that is, wearing filial piety clothes near the door and near the branch. After the funeral of the closest relatives, the people who are close to the clan will break the filial piety and filial piety, and make a gift before relatives and friends, and present filial piety clothes and hats.
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It is said that the spirit of the deceased will wander outside for a few days after the burial, and if the children and relatives look back after the burial, the soul of the deceased will follow the person, so that the deceased cannot rest in peace. It is commonly used to prevent the soul of the deceased from going back, so as not to suffer the suffering of samsara.
You can't turn back after you bury it, one is afraid that your deceased relatives will see you look back, and you will be uneasy to leave. The second possibility is that after turning around, seeing that you are reluctant, some dirty things will go back with you.
Therefore, the custom in some places is to find another way home after the burial, and not to go back.
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Chinese custom is not to burn extinct paper. That is, don't burn the paper when you burn it, keep one or half a sheet and take it back. It means that the cigarette will continue forever.
Generally, no one takes a lot back, which is too inconvenient, but it is nothing to get back.
It's just a lighter.
It's okay to take it.
It's all your dad's stuff, and he'll worry about you.
Glad you asked, this dream could mean:
I will be complained by my partner for being indifferent! Today, you are quite emotional, and if something is wrong, you really won't be considerate of others at all, and the words you say are also hard and hurt other people's self-esteem. You should pay special attention to the fact that once a boy's self-esteem is hurt by you, it will be difficult for him to feel love for you!
Hello, dear acquaintance.
It's not right for your mother-in-law to do this. You put this paper money here another day, burn it outside the house at night, and don't leave it at home for too long, this is a bit of a saying.
Older or older people; elderly parents or grandparents; Since the implementation of health records in China, the definition of the elderly is greater than or larger than the 65-year-old elderly, and special management for the elderly is implemented.
It can have grown up but girls are better off not to.
Dear, don't think too much, everyone will have all kinds of dreams, and some dreams are incredible, it is difficult to explain, don't be superstitious about this, don't think about it, calm down and adjust yourself, so that the quality of sleep will also improve, I wish you a happy day. Hope it helps, hopefully.
It's better to burn it out! You are so stingy with the dead, what a revelation to the living!
There are many ways to pay tribute to the ancestors, but it is better to follow the customs of these things, and some things can be done according to local customs.
This kind of thing folklore says, the paper money is not burned out, and what you receive over there is not all, or what you receive is some change, there is no other obstacle to the person who burns the paper, just a folklore, don't take it too seriously, I really help you look forward to it,
Who said that a daughter can't burn paper for her father Aren't the elders of the only daughter's family beautiful people who burn paper and incense for them? Nonsense, I can't get used to it, patriarchy, whether it's a girl or a boy, it's a child, it's also his parents, and they have the right to burn paper for them, I'm also a daughter, my father died abroad in September last year, and it's not good to burn it, so it's not easy to find someone I know and burn it a little bit After returning to China for quarantine this year, I went to burn his house, furniture, household appliances, cars, etc I really miss my dad I really regret that I didn't listen to him well at the beginning The last side was also seen through the ** The hospital is very serious and does not allow people to enter...I said that it was okay, it was much better, and I was discharged from the hospital in **, and said that I would help me watch the child, but I died suddenly that night, and I couldn't accept it, and I felt like my father was still alive, and I cried when I thought about it, and I was really sorry for my father, so I wanted to burn a lot of money for him, so that he would be there and not suffer anymore.
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