Why can t a daughter burn paper for her father?

Who said that a daughter can't burn paper for her father Aren't the elders of the only daughter's family beautiful people who burn paper and incense for them? Nonsense, I can't get used to it, patriarchy, whether it's a girl or a boy, it's a child, it's also his parents, and they have the right to burn paper for them, I'm also a daughter, my father died abroad in September last year, and it's not good to burn it, so it's not easy to find someone I know and burn it a little bit After returning to China for quarantine this year, I went to burn his house, furniture, household appliances, cars, etc I really miss my dad I really regret that I didn't listen to him well at the beginning The last side was also seen through the ** The hospital is very serious and does not allow people to enter...I said that it was okay, it was much better, and I was discharged from the hospital in **, and said that I would help me watch the child, but I died suddenly that night, and I couldn't accept it, and I felt like my father was still alive, and I cried when I thought about it, and I was really sorry for my father, so I wanted to burn a lot of money for him, so that he would be there and not suffer anymore.

Why can't the daughter burn paper for her father, this is determined by traditional cultural customs, the domestic custom is to marry out the daughter, is someone else's daughter-in-law, belongs to outsiders, burning paper will affect the blessing of the brothers in the family, take away the luck of the family, and the name is not right, unless there is only a daughter in the family, the ancestors can only bless the people who inherit their ancestors, but there are still a lot of differences in many places, some places can burn a year of paper after the death of the father, and some can burn for three years.

In this beautiful small village, there are dozens of families living in Meiyuan Village, and they live very comfortably. Every family lives a life of male ploughing and female weaving. However, this is not the case with the life of a family.

Jiaojiao is mute, can't speak, only babble every day, although she is very beautiful, but she has almost no friends around her.

Jiaojiao doesn't understand the language of others, and is often ridiculed by others, but even so, the kind-hearted Jiaojiao will not get angry, and her personality is still gentle. As long as she sees a villager in need, Jiaojiao will be the first to rush to help them. Jiaojiao had no playmates, so she had to accompany her parents to the mountains to chop wood and collect medicine.

When the father saw someone bullying Jiaojiao, the father would come out to protect them as soon as possible, and he would scold them desperately, and the children in the village were very envious of Jiaojiao's fatherly love. But the good times didn't last long, and my father accidentally fell off a cliff while collecting medicine. Since her father's death, Jiaojiao has to go to her father's grave every day to cry.

One day, Jiaojiao came to her father's grave crying, and brought her father's favorite wine to drink, afraid that her father would not have a good time there, so she burned a lot of paper money.

When she told all the grievances and unhappiness in her heart and was about to leave, she suddenly found that she was crying at the wrong grave. When Jiaojiao saw this scene, she was a little anxious, why wasn't it her father's grave, and after Jiaojiao found her father's grave, she cried for a long time on her father's grave. When Jiaojiao got up to leave, she suddenly felt the mountain shake, and when she looked back, it was the mountain behind her that was shaking, and it should be about to collapse.

Frightened, she hurried back to the village. The village was babbling and screaming, and the villagers didn't know what Jiaojiao wanted to express. Jiaojiao's mind has been flashing the picture of the mountain shaking, and in a hurry, Jiaojiao actually shouted out:

Everyone, run, the village is going to die.

The villagers were also a little worried after hearing this, whether it was true or not, or they were talking about leaving first. Shortly after the villagers left, the entire village was flooded with rocks from the mountain. When the villagers understood all this, they knew that it was the mute Jiaojiao who saved them, and everyone thanked Jiaojiao one after another.

After this incident, Jiaojiao actually spoke, and the villagers were surprised. Jiaojiao also has a lot of suitors around her. It has also become a mystery why Jiaojiao can speak.

What do you think about this?

A daughter must be able to burn paper for her father, how can there be a reason why a daughter can't burn paper for her father?

Unless you don't allow everyone to burn paper to worship!

If there is such a rule, buy some flowers and go to see your father!

Who said that daughters can't burn paper for their fathers, make it up, but our daughter here is to burn paper for the elders the day before the Qingming Festival, and the son burns paper on the day of the Qingming Festival, and the customs are slightly different in various places?

I haven't heard of such a custom that burning paper for deceased relatives has no restrictions on gender.

Hello, maybe the customs are different in each place, some are okay, some are not.

Hopefully, thank you.

Who said it couldn't! It is possible to go to the grave to burn paper. But now there are some places that really don't let it.

I've never heard of such a rule, which is unreasonable.

There is no such rule, girls can't burn paper with their fathers, I don't know why do you have such a rule?

The taboos of the daughter's burning paper are:1. A married daughter should not return to her mother's house to go to the grave, but can only worship the ancestral grave of her husband's family at her husband's house.

2. No matter what the custom is, it is not appropriate for a daughter to go to the grave if she is too young.

2. Don't take pictures, as long as it's a memorial, it's not recommended to take pictures, especially when others burn paper, which may affect your luck.

4. If you don't go to the cemetery to burn paper, you can find a vacant land without grass and wait until it gets dark before burning.

According to folk sayings, women are yin, their own yin is heavy, yang is weak, and the cemetery is the place where the yin is the heaviest, if the daughter goes to burn paper, it is easy to be unclean things on the body, which may lead to illness, and in serious cases, there will be life-threatening conditions.

In addition, daughters who have already married should not return to their parents' homes to go to the grave, so they can only worship the ancestral graves of their husbands' families at their husband's house. Because in people's traditional concepts, the daughter is already her husband's family when she marries, and her mother's family is only her mother's family, and her name and household registration have been inherited to her husband's family, so the married daughter is a member of her husband's family, and she cannot return to her mother's house to worship her ancestors.

Precautions for ancestor worship.

1. Taboo frolicking and criticizing ancestors.

Qingming tomb sweeping is a very solemn thing, in front of the ancestors' tombstone behavior to be cautious, not to make a big noise, there are many friends at the beginning of the more solemn, but after the sacrifice began to fight, you must know that the cemetery is the place where the yin spirit sleeps, even if the worship after the fight will disturb the yin spirit, the ancestors are even more disrespectful.

2. It is taboo to go to the grave to worship regardless of generation.

Worship at the grave should be carried out in order according to the age of the deceased, starting with the deceased with the highest seniority, so as to reflect the traditional virtues of respect and humility of the elders and young in our country.

3. Taboo and avoid stepping on other people's graves.

Friends who go to sweep the tomb know that some graves are relatively close, especially in rural areas, the order of the graves is usually arranged according to the generations of the family, the boundaries of each tomb are not very clear, and a problem will be encountered when going to the grave, more people who go to worship may accidentally step on the graves of other families, especially with children to sweep the tombs, to take good care of them, to avoid "bear children" casually trampling on the graves of other families, blaspheming the deceased, bringing unnecessary trouble.

Customs, local customs. There are people of the older generation who say that it is not good. Because the deceased are different from the living.

It is okay to burn paper for the father, but do not add the name of the child, otherwise the deceased father will laugh and worry about it, and it will affect the ascension of the living child.

Summary. In general, in this case, the elders of the deceased child do not burn paper. It is common to burn paper only one year after the child's death to express nostalgia. This is still a generational division, and the elders can't burn paper for the juniors. There is also a saying to avoid the sadness of a white-haired person sending a black-haired person.

Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while Generally, in this case, the elders of the deceased child do not burn paper. Generally, only one year after the child's death, the paper will be burned to express the nostalgia. This is still a generational division, and the elders can't burn paper for the juniors only if they lose.

There is also a saying to avoid the sadness of the white-haired person sending the black-haired man's finger Jane trembling.

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The taboos of the daughter's burning paper are:

1.Do not step on paper ash. There is usually a lot of paper ash after burning the paper, and if you step on the paper ash at this time, it is undoubtedly a particularly disrespectful thing for the old man who has lost. So in any case, it's best not to step on paper ash when you've just burned the paper money.

2.Don't look back. When you go home after burning the paper, don't look back, even if someone calls your name, because calling your name may no longer exist in this world, so if someone tells you to never look back, it may not be good for you.

3.Do not burn the paper thoroughly. If the Ming slag burning paper is not completely burned, then the ancestors in the underworld will not be able to get the money, and the undead who can't get the money may find the living relatives in the cave and come back, and then ask the relatives for money.

Therefore, when burning paper money, you must burn it thoroughly, and don't let the paper money have any leftovers.

4.Do not take photos at the cemetery. Nowadays, many people like to take pictures, but it is best not to take pictures in the cemetery when burning paper at the grave, because this will easily attract bad things and may disturb the ancestors.

5.Don't say something unlucky. When burning paper money, it is most taboo to say some unlucky words, because it will easily disturb the emotions of the ancestors, so try to say some auspicious words when burning paper money.

Hope the above information is helpful to you.

Those who cannot burn paper for their fathers do not refer to all the daughters, but to these categories: married daughters and daughters who are too young.

1. The married daughter can not go to the grave, and the married daughter should not return to her mother's house to go to the grave, but can only worship the ancestral grave of the husband's family at the husband's house, and can not return to the mother's house to worship the ancestral grave of the mother's family, because in people's traditional concepts, the daughter is already married to the husband's family, and the mother's family is only the mother's family, and her name and household registration have also been passed on to the husband's family, so the married daughter is a member of the husband's family, and she cannot go back to her mother's house to worship the ancestors.

2. The daughter is too young to go to the grave, no matter what the custom is, the daughter is too young to go to the grave. Generally speaking, if a child is under the age of six, it is not appropriate for him or her to attend the grave ceremony. Because the child is too young, the yang energy is weak, and the cemetery, as a place with very heavy yin energy, is easy for the child to see some unclean things, and it is easy to cause some negative aura to entangle the child's side.

Burning paper money is taboo

1. When buying burning paper, it is best not to buy stacks of printed matter, one piece is hundreds of millions, the money is not real, it is not as valuable as the old ruble and VND.

2. To buy yellow straw paper, take a piece of 100 yuan of real money and press it on the paper after spreading it, and feel that this 100 yuan is a poke, from right to left, from top to bottom, row by row, until the whole paper is covered. This kind of burning paper is hard currency underneath, the money is realized, and only when you carry it in your pocket can you have face.

3. Fold the high preparation and burn the paper, divide the paper into seven or eight parts, and fold it twice in a diagonal line, otherwise it is very troublesome to burn it with a stack of paper, and it will be very convenient to fold it and burn it.

4. Before preparing to burn paper, it is best to prepare a lighter and a small stick, so that you can pull up the burned paper pressed together when you burn paper, so that the air can circulate and facilitate burning. You can use a broken mop bar, but be careful not to take it back after you use it up, just throw it away.

5. It is dark to burn, and on the way back and forth to burn paper, try to bypass the burning paper and do not step on it. If you want to go around all the traces and can't get around, then you have to carefully intersperse the past, and you have to say a word before you pass, sorry, borrowed.

Hello dear, stuffy is happy to serve you. In the traditional Chinese culture, burning paper is a way to express respect and longing for ancestors or relatives. In modern society, although many people no longer practice traditional religious beliefs, they still burn paper on some special occasions or festivals to express their nostalgia and remembrance of their deceased relatives.

If your son has passed away, then as a parent, you can do a paper-burning activity to express your thoughts and nostalgia for him. However, when you burn paper, you should respect local cultural traditions and customs, abide by relevant laws and regulations and public order, and do not affect the lives of others and public safety. In addition, if you need to carry out paper burning activities, it is best to choose a suitable time and place, and avoid doing it in public places or residential areas to avoid unnecessary troubles and disputes.

It is best to choose a safe, secluded place that does not affect others, such as a family courtyard, cemetery, etc. At the same time, it is also necessary to pay attention to fire safety to ensure that the paper-burning activity does not cause accidents such as fires.