By attending a colleague s wedding, he said that he did not give gifts

If you can give a gift, everyone will buy one together. If you attend a wedding banquet, depending on the grade of the wedding banquet, you will pay for your meal.

I don't know why you say that colleagues don't give gifts, just politely. I also don't accept gifts, if I really want to charge only meals and gifts. There are several reasons for this:

1.In my opinion, a wedding is a ceremony, and it is hoped that friends and relatives will witness the marriage, not a tool to make money, of course, some people may think so.

2.If you receive a gift, you have to pay it back, but in fact, it is not about making money, and you may have to pay it back. In fact, in a certain historical period, the reason for gift-giving is that the newlyweds have no economic foundation and need everyone's help.

Just like in the 80s, a lot of gifts were practical things, basins, bed sheets, and money was given later when life was better.

3.People are as thin as paper, I can't say that all the people I know don't give money when they get married, I think that the people who don't get married and give money are good friends, and those who don't give it are not. And if I do give it, I want to express my heart from the bottom of my heart.

I've only given it to two people, one is my best friend in high school, and I think she needs money when she gets married, and the other is a friend who has played together until she grows up, and I gave money and a gift. That's just an expression of the heart.

The more people are in the people, the more money is given, and the favor is getting thinner and thinner. Deviated from the essence. So I suggest you buy a small gift for a few things, or use it as a decoration, and put it in a colleague's house, and you will know that it was given to you when you got married. It's more meaningful than giving money.

Of course, it is necessary to analyze the specific situation you are in.

Above. That's my opinion.

Interpersonal communication is about human affection, so it is recommended that you send it privately. That way there won't be a dilemma.

If those who don't give gifts ask if you have given them, you can pretend to be stupid and bring them over.

In this way, if you have something in the future, others will also remember the original one.

If you want to send it, you are really speechless to that woman, the landlord will send it privately first, and no one will be offended.

It's your business to send it or not, decide for yourself, send it if you have a good relationship, haha.

Sending it to both parties in private is not to offend anyone.

If you don't send it, don't send it.

Colleagues who are not familiar with the unit can not be courteous if they have red and white ceremonies.

Regardless of whether colleagues are courteous or not, the first important principle is to look at relatives from near and far.

If you are the kind of colleague or senior who has helped you a lot in the workplace, you must be courteous at this time, and don't be stingy at this time. You can wrap a big red envelope as a token of appreciation.

But in the workplace, if a colleague you barely know sends you an invitation, don't be cautious about giving you an invitation.

Because this situation is likely to be colleagues to a lot of people regardless of whether they are familiar with the invitation, at this time if you go to the ceremony, one is not familiar, you are very embarrassed, the other is that you are at this time with the gift, give more is not, give less people still dislike you, feel that you pick the door.

Behind. There is a steady state game equilibrium between the price code of each share and the banquet market, and the price code is always on the market, and the rising tide is closely related to the price level and people's living standards. Taking southern Fujian as an example, the sum of the money of the wedding banquet usually has a slight surplus after deducting the banquet expenses, that is, the surplus.

Unless the host insists on waiving the red envelope, it is rare that the party does not have enough money to open the table. Why does this seem to be a well-designed **? The answer is that the price code of the money is calculated according to the joy of wine**, and it is naturally formed.

For example, according to the local prices and wedding banquet specifications, a table of banquet ** 1000 yuan, according to 10 people per table, each person is 100 yuan, and this is how the ** part is naturally generated.

Hello, is it okay for colleagues in the unit to get married without a gift? Of course, this is okay, but this makes you look very different and out of the stream, so it's better to follow everyone with it.

Getting married is a happy event, of course, you should invite family and friends to come to congratulate and feel the joy and sweetness. If you want to invite a colleague with whom you are close, how should you invite them? Do you want to invite a colleague to get married?

1. How to invite colleagues to the wedding.

1. SMS. Notify close colleagues by text message, tell them the good news that they are going to get married, hope to share this sweetness with them, invite colleagues to the wedding, and send wedding blessings to themselves.

2、**。This way shows respect for others, and the specific time and place of the wedding are stated in ** to ensure that colleagues have pre-arranged to be on time to participate in it on the day.

3. Invitations. The invitation is a traditional way of marriage notice, an invitation to know the date and venue of the wedding of the couple, and the wedding invitation in hand is a kind of respect for the guests, and it is also the good news to announce to others that they are going to get married.

4. Invite in person.

Maybe you don't want too many people to participate in your wedding, it doesn't matter, just call a good colleague, brother, classmate, good friend, tell the colleague the news in private, and he will generally be happy to go to the wedding scene to witness your happy moment.

Second, should I invite a colleague to get married?

1. When a colleague invites him to get married, he should invite the other party.

Some colleagues are getting married before themselves, and if he invites you to the wedding, you must invite him as well. This is a basic respect, but also the wedding red envelope recovery, now the happy event is not only about sharing the joy, but also about the gift exchange, you give me a red envelope, of course I have to return the gift with the same amount or more amount.

2. Close colleagues can be invited.

If colleagues are helpful to themselves in their daily work, or need to communicate frequently at work, they must be invited to be guests, not only to tell them that good things are coming, but also to shorten the distance between each other, so that the other party can understand themselves better, which will be helpful for future work.

3. The relationship is generally not pleased.

The company has a lot of liquidity, maybe working here today and quitting tomorrow and going somewhere else. Now the cost of a wedding is getting higher and higher, and the cost of the wedding banquet is also increasing, if a colleague leaves, this favor will not be recovered, and then the cost of the wedding will increase.

Marriage is a thing worth celebrating, and now it has evolved into a drama of human feelings, with everyone scrambling to see how much gift money is given, calculating the normal cost of weddings, and losing its original flavor.

It's all colleagues who can be invited, because the courtesy is still exchanged, and if colleagues don't come, don't think too much.

It depends on the relationship you get along.

In recent years, as weddings have become more and more commercialized, wedding gift-giving has also become a habit in social occasions. In some companies or teams, for convenience, they will adopt the method of receiving gifts in a unified manner. However, would you give a gift money to an unfamiliar colleague or a colleague in the company for the marriage?

This is something to consider.

First of all, for the marriage of unfamiliar colleagues, whether to give gift money is an interpersonal relationship issue for Zheng Jiao. If you don't have a very close relationship with the other person and didn't attend the wedding, it's normal not to give the gift money. Because gift-giving is a way to express emotions, if you and the other party do not have enough emotional foundation, gift-giving will lose its meaning.

Secondly, for the marriage of colleagues in the company, whether to give gift money should also take into account the company's culture and atmosphere. In some companies, gift-giving is seen as a form of workplace etiquette, and this culture is very common in the workplace. If gift-giving has become a common practice in the company, then your non-gifting may be perceived as a sign of disrespect for the company culture.

However, gift-giving should also be generous. If you are more than you can afford to give a gift for, or even cause financial stress, then it's not worth it. Therefore, the amount of the gift should be within one's affordability, not beyond one's financial means, and also consider one's financial situation.

Finally, gift-giving should also consider your own wishes. If you feel that gift-giving is a necessary etiquette, then choose the appropriate gift money or gift to express your blessings and gratitude. However, if you don't feel like giving a gift is necessary, or don't want to give a gift, you shouldn't push yourself either.

In conclusion, gift-giving is an expression of interpersonal relationships that needs to be decided on a case-by-case basis. If it is the marriage of an unfamiliar colleague, you can not give a gift; If it is the marriage of a colleague in the company, you can give an appropriate gift or gift, but consider your own financial means and wishes. Above all, gift-giving should be an expression of sincerity, not formalism.