Is it so hateful for parents to send their children to school at the beginning of freshman year???!!

It is normal for parents to accompany me at the beginning of my freshman year, and the classmates around me are basically sent by their parents, and some of the students in the city or even a large family have come, and they will not have a backache when they stand and talk.

It's normal! Parents accompany them safely, anti-theft, and can also point fingers at themselves, I agree.

Nothing hateful.

It's a normal thing, there's nothing hateful, I think I was like that at the beginning.

Is there such an unsympathetic person?

Because parents are very worried about their children and want to be able to bring all their luggage to their children, they will send their children to school.

Because many parents want to see what their children's college is like, and secondly, because they are not worried about their children going far away.

Because many people choose college, they are far away from home, and parents are not at ease, so their children will send their children to school.

Parents do want to send, just send the child into the train; When new students arrive at the school or bus station, they will be picked up by the institution. Chinese parents think too much about their children and don't want to let go; And after all, life has to "go to the road alone", from going to college alone to signing in to college gradually! If the child's college is closer, there is no need to send it, take this opportunity to exercise the child's ability to cope alone, and parents take this opportunity to know their child further, so as to give their child a lot of education in the future study and life.

If the child is in a remote area of other provinces, send a child, from the psychological state of the child, to the parents are all a kind of comfort, must compete for the child to go to college, parents and children will have fewer opportunities to meet, send it can enhance the relationship between the child and the parents. If it is a girl, to send, men's pants fierce children, according to the child's ideas and the child's slow grasp of the child, should not be sent, send the child, parents can personally understand the child's employment of the college, including the learning environment, location, professional advantages, future development direction, etc. Parents who have been working hard at home for a long time can take this opportunity to relax.

Every year when new students enter the school, many parents will send the new students to the school, some families and even the whole family go out, seven or eight people send a child to the school, in fact, there is no need at all! Freshmen can sign in alone, parents can send their children into the train, colleges and universities will pick up people at the train station, assign staff and transportation tools to take students back to the college, new students will appear in the high school after the college (youth volunteers) to help students sign in the relevant documents. The suitcases of freshmen can be delivered to the college by the company, and the fact that parents send their children to college does not actually make much difference.

Parents send their children to college, and parents will feel that it is a good heart, <>

In fact, it is increasing the pressure on universities, which will increase "excess spending" in areas such as transportation, hotel accommodation, and food and beverage services! Parents of students are also equivalent to "new students" after arriving at the college, and the reception staff of the college also need to assign "youth volunteers" to entertain parents; During the beginning of the new semester for new students, the hotels around the campus will be "bursting", and some universities are forced to set up indoor stadiums for parents to stay in hotels. If the child is going to college, it means that the child has grown up; Parents don't have to care too much, let alone think too much about their children, they must let go of their children and let them grow up on their own.

For example, some parents send their children to college and have to "distribute refrigerators" to their children in the dormitory; Some parents ask colleges and universities to live in a single room, etc., which makes people speechless! In addition, it is not a great thing for a child to go to college, and there is no need for the whole family to send the whole family to send the child to college, etc.

This question cannot be said whether it is necessary or not, but it should be determined according to the wishes of parents and children.

Parents want their children to become dragons and phoenixes and be admitted to your dream university. So when their children are admitted to college, parents can't wait to send their children to school. Because that's when my face is the brightest, the most proud.

Every year during the beginning of the college season, some touching things happen, such as parents who are thrifty and bring dry food to send their children to school, parents who are not afraid of long distances to send their children to school, and so on.

Parents sending their children to school is a kind of motivation and hope in life, they will feel that their children are promising, it is the hope of the whole family, and their hearts will feel very satisfied. No matter what their family's situation is, they will work tirelessly to send their children to college.

Of course, some children do not need to be sent by their parents, and some children will think that they have been admitted to university and have grown up. They will see their entry into college as a milestone in their own growth, so they do not need their parents to send them when college starts, but choose to go to school alone. I remember that there were also children in the news who chose to ride a bicycle to the city where the university was located when college started.

There are many such cases, such children think that they have grown up, and parents will be full of joy to send their children on the road, and their mood is also excited and proud.

Whatever the case, no matter how you choose to send your child to college, it's a blessing for a family. Children are the hope of the family, but also the motivation for parents to work hard, parents work hard, in order for their children to be able to promising.

It's a blessing to be excited to send your child to college, and it's also a blessing to watch your child hit the road on their own.

I am already in college, the child is already very old, has his own independence, as a parent should let go, should not send the child anymore, let the child go alone.

Personally, I think there is still a need to send children, after all, now children are only children, relatively speaking, social skills are still relatively poor, college starts, the most important turning point in life, at this time it is also meaningful to send it.

Absolutely. Nowadays, many students go to college after graduating from high school, and their minds are not very mature. Coupled with the fact that it is the first time to go on a long trip, there are many dangers that occur. It is necessary for parents to send their children to school safely.

Necessary, in addition to studying or studying in high school, children don't even know how to take the subway and plane, how can they go to school thousands of miles away by themselves?

I don't think I should open here, because now that I have grown up, I can already do the process of going out.

Growing up needs to deal with some things alone, when you don't have the ability to deal with things alone, you really can't help yourself, because you have become an adult, you are about to start college life, and when you grow up, you will find yourself more lonely, because at this moment you understand that you have to think about others, not always let others think about themselves.

If it's a girl, then it's normal for the family to send it over, because this process needs to mention a lot of things, and one more person can give more help, if it's a big boy, the process of going to school doesn't need to be sent by the family, because a process can prove one's personal ability, and this thing makes parents see that their children have grown up.

There is no need for parents to send them when the university opens, the child is an adult, and he can be responsible for his own behavior, and he should leave his growth and experience to the child to complete, and parents should completely let go.

I don't think it's necessary to let parents send it, because college is an independent start for many people, so at this time we can develop our ability to handle things well, and the first day of school is a good opportunity.

This is more from a security point of view. Many of the children had been in their hometowns and towns before going to college, and many had never been out of the province, let alone far away. Therefore, most parents will choose to send their children to college in person for the safety of their children.

At the beginning, my parents were afraid that their children would get lost, so they had to take time to send me to school even if they didn't have time, even if they hadn't actually been out of the province, never traveled far away, and never took the train...But my dad sent me on a long trek, and it took me three or four days to get to school, and it was a smooth one. Dad dropped me off at school at two or three o'clock in the morning, and then I went to the dormitory, and it was almost five o'clock, so I took my dad to the cafeteria for breakfast, and my dad went all the way back.

It was very hasty, because my father didn't have a mobile phone at that time, and my mother was worried that my father was lost, so I didn't stay, and I didn't go to school for a month like other parents, and by the way, the whole family went to travel around to see the scenery. Later, Dad came home without any problems.

How to say, I think this move of parents still cares about their children, even if it is the first time for them to embark on a long journey, they don't want their children to go through this first experience. Of course, there are also parents who also go to see how the school is doing, and then take their children to travel around the area to see if their children can adapt to it in the next four years. In short, parents are for the safety of their children, and everything is because of love.

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From the time I knew that I was going to study at the university where I am now, I told my parents that I wanted to go to school by myself and let them not go, but unfortunately they couldn't resist them, they had to send me, and afterwards I thought about why they were so persistent about sending me to school, and I think there are two reasons.

1. Too far away from home and worried about safety.

At that time, when I learned about the university I was admitted to, I was confused, although I applied for it myself, but it was also a ...... to make up the numbersIt's all tears when I talk too much, and I have to finish studying at the university I applied for. My home is in the south, and I die of heat in summer and cold in winter, and the school is in the cold north, so I don't know anything about the place where the school is except cold. This south and north, the span is not ordinarily large, my mother heard that it would take more than 40 hours to do the train immediately quit, saying that it is so far how can you go alone, no matter what I say, I will refute unconditionally, what do you say that you have not been far away in case something happens, I want to say that I am such a tall person and I am afraid of losing the ......

2. Curiosity about the new school.

Yes, you heard it right, but I was curious, my parents were more looking forward to going to my new university than I was, and they asked me when they were okay during the summer vacation: "Hey, you said that your school is not big, the surrounding infrastructure is not complete, I don't know what your teachers and classmates are like blabla......."”

I ......I don't want to know what school is like at all, because it's not what I want, they all say that distance produces beauty, and the thought of my parents seeing my constipated expressions after college feels funny and feels sorry for myself.

In fact, in the final analysis, they are afraid that their children will meet bad people on the road, and many children are also going out for the first time, leaving their parents, and living a zz, and going to school.

When the university starts, we will see many parents bringing their children to school, some fathers, some mothers, some parents come, and even more, the whole family comes. Actually, when I started school, my dad and my cousin both sent me to school, so why are there so many parents sending their children to school at the beginning of college, which should be normal.

For many people, this is the first time we have gone far away, the first time we have been far away from home, to a completely unfamiliar city, everything there is unfamiliar, if you go alone, you will definitely feel very lonely, for a road idiot like me, you will even get lost. As parents, they will also worry about the safety of their children, they are reluctant to have children, and they are willing to spend a little more time with them, even if it is just for a day.

On the day of school, it must be a big bag, my dad and I can't take it, my home is far away, I brought all the things in summer and winter at one time, and my mother stuffed me with a bag of food on the left and a bag on the right, Dad, I need you.

When you go to school, you have to pay for teaching first, and it's better not to put so much money on your children. Although I brought a lot of useful things, I still had to buy a lot of things at school, and I still needed the help of my parents to buy this and that. I remember that my cousin made my bed, and after my dad left, I couldn't bear it, I really didn't know if I could do it if they didn't come so much.

Although it is said that as a student who is about to enter college, he should be self-reliant, and should not rely on his parents and trouble them to send us to school, but after all, it is the first time, there must be a process, and it is okay for parents to send their children on the first day of college, so parents send their children, if their parents do not come, the children's hearts will be empty.

In fact, as we all know, universities are basically accommodation, and students only go home once a month or two. Students who go to other places will only go home on a long vacation Since ancient times, there has been a saying that "children travel thousands of miles and mothers are worried". The child who has been by his side for a long time is going to study far away all of a sudden, so I have to send him anyway

If you live at the school, you basically live outside of the school. In addition to firewood, rice, oil and salt, almost all other daily necessities must be prepared, quilts, basins, boiling water bottles, and a lot of changes of clothes, all of which must be brought to their dormitories. Honestly, can you do it alone???

It's done, but it's more troublesome, the day is to sign up, and to find a dormitory, and to sort out things, the time is very tight, and one more person is naturally different.

In fact, when your child comes to a new environment to study for a few years, as a parent, you must go on a field trip. What's the school environment like? Is this school in**?

How's this school going? Don't you feel at ease here? Anyway, all kinds of problems, parents have to think about it in their minds.

Naturally, he came to send his child in person

Generally, when you go to college, you go to other places, do you say that a person carries so many things with his parents? Of course I'm not at ease, I'm not at ease myself, I'm so scared... Anyway, when I was in college, my father came to see me off in person, everything was ready for me, I felt happy, that is, after he settled me, when I turned to leave, I saw his back, and then looked at all the strange faces around me.

I cried, I missed my dad, I was alone, so lonely