When playing with a friend, I am always criticized, have low self esteem, and am depressed!

If he was really a good friend of yours, then he really said this for your own good.

From another point of view, you are not her girlfriend, he will still care about your clothing style, care about you, and be good for you.

But in fact, as a woman, the most important thing is not how to dress, but temperament.

Clothing is important, but beautiful clothes are not something that everyone can have. Not everyone has such a life, born in a wealthy family, without worrying about food and clothing, and when they grow up, they can go abroad if they want to. A lot of things are done on their own.

Cultivate your temperament and read more often. Walk upright.

He says you, and you smile.

Don't feel inferior, no one is worse than anyone else, you have beautiful beauties, you can also have what they don't have, you are the only you, irreplaceable. Blessing.

Some people think they are high, and their temper crushes people to death. Since they are friends, what do you care?

As for people, you can't look at appearances, you can be a person as you should be, so as not to be soft-eared and make yourself have no true colors.

Go your own way, don't think too much.

Being yourself is the best!

Maybe you're doing what he says and doing well, but the rest of your friends may not be used to it, so what if they're gone?

Which is more important?

When I am with my friends, I will talk about them like this, not really to show themselves or suppress them, but to hope that they can improve their own highlights, and have the taste that they should have at that age so as not to be said by others, because others say that they must be behind the scenes, not in person. Second, it's ......The friends are together, shopping, eating, what are you talking about if you don't talk about this? So you don't take it too seriously, you think you're so good, and the important thing is to wear beautiful clothes don't have to be expensive or good, the main thing is to be good at matching, you can pay more attention to other people's collocation, you can learn when you buy clothes yourself, or simply buy models when you buy them, I am such a ......Appearance problems, girls focus on clean, refreshing and confident, really, my friends don't have makeup, and they are not beautiful women, but because of their self-confidence, sometimes they will be amazed.

Hope it helps.

I'm just like you, but I don't take money too seriously, but it may change when I grow up.

Then you have to change this problem.

Knowing your shortcomings can still be saved, but not knowing that you are still narcissistic is irremediable.

Contempt and cruelty to oneself can be expressed in different ways, and inferiority complex is the most common hatred of self. In life, it often happens that many people lack a certain ability, and it is common to assume that everyone else has that ability. As a result, many of us feel inferior, unable to live with ourselves, and despise ourselves, which is the root cause of many tragedies.

We want to live like everyone else, buy the same clothes, the same furniture, and talk and do the same thing as they do. We put ourselves under the personality of others, whip our own souls, criticize ourselves, we infinitely exaggerate the abilities of others, and this exaggeration reflects our own insignificance, which is fatal to hurt ourselves. We feel that our personality and imperfections have all kinds of shortcomings and shortcomings, while others are flawless and appear calm and confident.

This feeling is extremely ridiculous. We should understand that the inner world of others also bears the scars of past failures. Knowing this, we will no longer take our ruptured wounds so seriously.

Li Bai chanted in "Will Enter the Wine": "I am born to be useful!" "What a heroic momentum!

When psychologists read this, they will definitely add: what self-confidence this is! Modern people are surrounded by competition, and there are often opportunities in front of them, and trying has become a very fashionable life creed for modern people.

Whenever people move on to a new challenge, they always show the challenger or competitor: I am born to be useful, and this victory is mine! However, on the stage of life, some people lament in a low voice:

I was born with talent. Useless. This "confession" of inferiority creates a strong contrast with the self-confident person:

Confident people believe in their own strength and strive to be the protagonist on the stage of life; People with low self-esteem think that they are incapable and only suitable to be spectators. Low self-esteem is the emotional experience of despising oneself and thinking that oneself is inferior to others in some aspect or other aspects due to some physical or psychological defects and other reasons. Low self-esteem is a serious psychological obstacle that affects communication, and it directly hinders a person from going to the group and associating with other people.

Complete one thing or one piece according to your interests. Try to do something to encourage yourself, communicate with people more, and live in the sun. People with strong self-esteem are easily injured, and injured people are prone to low self-esteem.

So there are many times when you don't care too much about what other people think, think about your relatives, think about your parents, and you will understand that this is nothing at all.

Society is a big dye vat, no matter how pure it is.

People go in more or less zhi

will be colored, dao see that you are a just participated.

Girls who work inside, I and Rong you say, the woe comes from the mouth to talk less and see more, but you can't say a word a day, every time you meet, come to a sentence, good morning and noon, good leader, or you also come here, you also come to drink water or something, remember to smile every time you speak, and over time people around you will think that you are a warm person.

A living petite woman, it's okay, it's no big deal, except for colleague relationships, more participation in friend gatherings, socializing, outdoor activities. Everything will be fine.

If you have just joined the work, you should learn more and enrich yourself until you become good enough In the eyes of others, you will have prestige You don't have to say some useless words Sometimes listening is a way Learn to listen I believe that you will have your friends in the company If the company has activities to actively participate This will be of great help to your social I hope my answer can be helpful to you.

Your shortcomings are your strengths, and your character will definitely be happy in the future.

Blame your bad fate, no one outside will help you, except for your capable family, no one else can be relied on!

Dear, don't be in a hurry, take your time, or communicate with everyone more, and don't talk more in one sentence.

Communicate with other people, even if you listen more, and you'll learn a lot.

Take the initiative to reach out to them, chat with them, don't be too sensitive, actually.

Sometimes your first feeling may be wrong. In fact, I have the character when I answered, and it may be like this. But after a few days, it's good to get used to it. Open your heart and communicate with others. The world is actually very beautiful, may you be happy every day!

Do your own thing, love whoever you love!

We must go out, contact more people, enrich ourselves, believe that I am born to be useful, and don't feel inferior. It will be fine in the future!

Your emotions are too easy to be swayed by others, be happy, force yourself to smile more, and just be yourself.

Go out for a walk, chat with friends more, go to play and eat together, or something

Find some hobbies to do, don't hold back all the time, go out for a walk.

Reach out to friends.

You have to open your heart.

Only then will others accept you.

You say it's not um.

You definitely won't drink, and all friends will be friends of life and death after a glass of liquor.

This kind of friend is not worth making deep friends, Since you can't stand it, then don't have too much contact, so as not to conflict one day and hurt and angry is not good, I don't like this kind of person very much, arrogant, self-righteous, this kind of person says what I usually say in my left ear and out of the right ear,,, don't compete with him, it's boring.

In fact, this is the same principle as falling in love, if you get along, you can play together, if you can't get along, you will separate, and you won't have lifelong friends.

Then it's wasted, it looks like this.

Great, it's been so bad, your parents are also disappointed in you, you have a better life if you waste them Friends don't like you or anything, they will be much happier if you waste them After you are wasted, donate all the organs you don't need There are so many disabled people who want to live normally, and you can be regarded as contributing to society It's good.

Do you dare to make friends with this kind of person?

With a grateful heart, relax your mindset. Thank you to the people who have helped you, and equally to the people who have hurt you, who have given you the opportunity to grow!

Talk more, joke more, and people will think you're talkative, and if you don't talk, people will think you're withdrawn and weak.

It is determined by your personal personality, your personal personality is dull, when others talk and chat, you always can't interject or there is no topic to discuss, others are talking, you will seem cold, don't feel that others are deliberately doing to yourself, just relax.

Actually, it's good to open your heart and accept something outside of you.

Believe in yourself. I used to be like that, and it would be nice to spend more time with my friends.

It's not self-contained, it's autism + phobia; It is recommended to go out and see more often, and get in touch with nature.

One of the most important things in life is the ability to control, and you can strengthen your exercise in this area.

Don't care too much about other people's attitudes, no one has so much leisure to care about you, you still have to be your own good.

Think more about the good things, and at the same time communicate with everyone more.

Try to communicate with them and integrate into their lives. It would be nice to have more friends.

I suggest you watch Guo Degang's cross talk more, some of the things he said are really good and will help you.

Be confident, and other people's opinions are all floating clouds ......

Communicate more and communicate more yourself, and it will be good!

Read more, learn more, have the ability and knowledge, and people will become confident. Smile in the mirror every day and tell yourself that you are the best.

I wonder if you have any other hobbies, such as sports, playing or playing football, and you can find your good friends in the exercise? If you don't communicate well, start with the people around you, at the same table, before and after, and so on.

Going to an event is the kind that can improve your self-confidence.

You can't be too willful.