After talking to a man who doesn t take the initiative, there is no problem with what to do

For a man who is not active in the love stage, it is difficult to expect him to change greatly in the future, the reason why he has such a performance may be related to many factors, such as the previous failed relationship, personal character, work reasons, etc., this situation still has to be cautious, to change a man can only be before marriage, after it is difficult to change, the man must first see whether he is responsible, and then see whether he cares about you, otherwise, you have to consider this man carefully, You also have to think about what kind of life you want to live, whether he can give you the happiness you want, love is very simple, but marriage is very realistic ......

He just laughs because you took the initiative to ask him such a question, which is not done by a girl first, and he thinks you value him very much. Happy. He doesn't you because he doesn't love you, you really want to marry him, he can too, why don't you send it to the door.

39 years old, unless he is very rich, has a car and a house, and thinks he is not a fool to marry. Such a home will not have any love in the future, and everyone will be busy with their own happiness. I owe you not to rush to marry him and see what other shortcomings he has that you don't know.

Good luck and I'll introduce you to two when I get the chance.

Pretend to break up with him first, or make a different choice, see how he reacts, if he is still indifferent, you pretend to do it and really leave him.

Landlord, do you want to ask for advice on how to play tricks or how to have boyfriends and girlfriends?

It's playing, I don't really understand what you're saying.

The time is too short for more contact contact.

If a man keeps answering you questions and refuses to give a sincere response, then he may just pretend to love you. If a man loves you with all his heart, he will not easily run away from the questions you ask. When the relationship between you matures, you ask him a man:

When are you going to marry me? "And he is hesitant to talk about other things, and he is unwilling to face up to the situation you have raised, which means that he is uneasy, and he may not be ready to marry you, she is just playing with you. If a man truly loves you, his problem mentality will also seem extraordinarily sincere.

Even if your question might touch on his personal message, or if you're talking about something he doesn't like, he won't easily look at you impatiently. In turn, it will tactfully remind him that this is also his private information, and it is inconvenient for him to respond. In a relationship, if a man keeps answering the wrong questions, there are two main reasons.

One is that he is deliberately avoiding his own problems, and he pretends to be stupid with understanding; The second is that he doesn't understand his own questions at all, he doesn't know what you really want to know, and he lacks common topics and necessary tacit understanding between him and you.

No matter what the reason or motivation is, it shows that she is just pretending to love you, and he is not really understanding and loving you. When we meet such a man, how can we protect ourselves?

I think there is a saying that makes a lot of sense, women hate being deceived by others, but they like to deceive themselves. Sometimes, women also understand that when a man is going to deceive himself and ask others for help, although he already understands that the man does not love him, he just doesn't dare to admit it, and he always wants to deceive himself again. Just like my little sister Liuliu, when she was in college, Na Li got along with a flowery man, everyone knows that this man has many girlfriends in addition to Liuliu, not only accounting for Liuliu's cost-effectiveness, but also always letting him pay for himself.

Everyone is upset about Liuliu, but Liuliu doesn't listen to anything, every time she asks her boyfriend, do you love me? Men just have to say, commodity, how could I not love you anymore? He could continue to exist like an ostrich.

In the end, her boyfriend met a girl who was particularly fond of coarse years, so he immediately broke up with Liuliu, and said everywhere that he and Liuliu were actually nothing, it was all Liuliu's wishful thinking.

All of a sudden, Liuliu became the object of everyone's teasing. Look at how ruthless and rational a man is, when she doesn't love someone, it can be said that she doesn't even want to deceive me. Therefore, women, please be sober in the face of love, if a man doesn't even want to be positive, then you have to be careful, if you insist on going your own way, you can only be scarred later.

No one in this world is worthy of hurting yourself like that, and that one who perfunctory your man is even less worthy.

Because he's running away from the problem.