I think Cancers are mean

I am also a Cancer, a dog in 94, AB type.

First of all, I think everyone thinks that Cancer is very well-behaved and gentle. Indeed, in a sense, we are indeed very well-behaved, that does not mean that we are naturally well-behaved, but sometimes because we are very timid to do some bad things, and sometimes we are too lazy to do some boring things. And for gentleness, only when Cancer is in a warm and friendly environment, will it be strong to show mildness, otherwise in a strange and cold place, Cancer will only hide in the shell very cold, so as to face strangers, Cancer is cold, estranged, because they don't know what to say, because strangers make themselves feel very uncomfortable, so they seem to be very repulsive to strangers, in fact, a little want to make friends, but really can't find a topic with strangers, they will become very cold.

Then, sometimes Cancers are really ruthless, and I usually think that Cancers are particularly ruthless after being injured, or they are particularly aggressive in the face of some sworn enemies.

However, meanness, I couldn't agree more. Cancer is indeed comforting those best friends, but when they are upset, they are not in the mood at all, I can say that Cancer is a selfish sign, but as long as it is human, who is not selfish? At the same time, we also have strong narcissism and low self-esteem.

So we ourselves are unhappy, we think we are miserable, and at this time some people say that they are miserable, in our eyes, their misery is just a drop in our bucket, so at this time we will be very mean.

Finally, I have to say that in fact, horoscopes are only for the personality of the vast majority of people, not that everything is anything, and it has not been scientifically confirmed, but we subjectively like to believe. At the same time, I think that there will inevitably be many stages in the process of growing up, such as the anxiety and rebellion of adolescence, but as we grow up, we gain not only age, but more to sharpen our character to better communicate with others. I used to have an aversion to communicating with strangers, but now I've gradually overcome it and take the initiative to make friends with others.

That is to say, it is not that my personality is inherently indifferent and there is a reason not to change, otherwise the only one who suffers is myself, maybe now I feel that it is really difficult to change, and I also feel that I am very good like this, but I believe that I will slowly grow up in the future There will be one day, you will find that in fact, unconsciously, you have become different from before, and will become better, as long as you begin to change yourself consciously, even if it is only subconsciously, in the face of time, this will be a big step.

No, Cancer is a representative of gentleness and motherhood, how can they be mean? I think it may be because you disguised yourself, in fact, this is not your intention, I am also a Cancer, I have read a lot of information about Cancer, Cancer is very sensitive, especially easy to hide themselves in their shells.

The general Cancer personality is kind, warm-hearted, sensitive, and compassionate; In fact, everyone's personality is slowly changing in the process of growth, and it is not like in astrology, as long as you are optimistic and cheerful, face life with a smile, and be brave, then the subsequent personality will also change. (For the first time, a lot of guarantees!) ）

Why Cancer is obnoxious for three reasons.

Cancer is the first zodiac sign of summer, so they are also endowed with the enthusiasm that summer deserves, and they are honest and humble, careful in their words and deeds, and often make a very good impression. However, sometimes Cancers can also be annoying, presumably because they also have weaknesses in their personalities, they are passive, conservative, dependent, and suspicious, which makes them sensitive and vulnerable.

Too passive: not taking the initiative to take responsibility.

Cancers tend to be passive in social situations, they will not take the initiative to take the first step, and they will not take the initiative to pursue the things they like, and being too passive will make them miss out on many opportunities and many people. And in the process of socializing with friends, Cancers often do not stand up and take responsibility for cooperation because they are too passive, they cower and hide behind the team, waiting to be arranged, and not taking the initiative becomes the reason for their annoyance.

Suspicious: Hold on.

Cancer is thoughtful, often thoughtful and perfect, but sometimes they are too stubborn about some things, clinging to them, and are suspicious. As a friend of Cancer, you should know that sometimes some unintentional actions have long been forgotten, but they will often be brought up by Cancer, and they will also have a lot of their own suspicious opinions, which are impossible to explain and cannot be washed away.

Strong dependence: Friends will feel that the burden is too heavy.

Cancers are very independent, they like to rely on others, they don't want to do anything on their own, even if it's eating a meal by themselves or going to a bookstore by themselves, they need someone to accompany them. Cancer, a sign that is too dependent, is often bored by people, making friends reluctant to get close to them, feeling too burdened, too clingy, and losing their freedom in their lives. Therefore, Cancer's strong dependence has also become a reason for them to be annoying.