Seek help! Find a psychiatrist to address emotional issues in your senior year of high school.

What I feel from your text is that this kind of emotion that exists between you and your girlfriend is a bit special. I'm talking about it in particular, which has broken through the boundaries of ordinary friends, but has not yet reached the realm of heart-to-heart love.

People are prone to breed a special emotion during important periods, such as before the college entrance examination and before the postgraduate examination, some people will have revolutionary comrades-in-arms like emotions, and some people will breed a lot of ambiguous feelings. However, after the special period, the mood is different. Because the two have experienced the college entrance examination together, their relationship is stronger, and when they come together, the more they experience, the stronger their relationship becomes.

Maybe the aura on his body has faded and is no longer dazzling. However, the relationship during this period is very pure and beautiful.

You said that you and your girlfriend were together in your third year of high school, and you don't know if you were close in the first two years? From your description, the original intention of the two of you to start a relationship may be different, you may be comfortable with two people, and your girlfriend may choose to say goodbye to being single because she wants to change her environment. Because the original intention is different, in some subsequent experiences, the things that suffer from gains and losses may be different.

After being together, you get what you want, you don't want to lose this comfortable feeling, and you don't feel that this feeling will affect your learning; However, your girlfriend may feel that after the two of you are together, the original pressure is not significantly reduced, and there is more guilt, but more gains and losses, so she is more anxious than you.

The above is what I wrote after reading your text, and I don't know if it fits your situation.

If it does, I suggest that emotional things go with the flow, and the key is to adjust the review environment and review well.

You can imagine the happy days after being admitted to university, and the external pressure will be reduced a lot after the usual revision is planned and efficient, and the external pressure will be reduced a lot after the fulfillment is fulfilled. If you have the energy and time, unleash your girlfriend. Perhaps the crux of her problem is that she didn't find the kind of revision environment and state she wanted—maybe she didn't know what she wanted.

Whether it is separated or together, this is only an objective definition of relationship, the key is to be subjectively separated or together, and it is OK to be stable in mind.

Love! It is the most beautiful and purest feeling in life! Especially in the youth season, the relationship established in this way is especially precious when they treat each other with their hearts and minds, without any strings attached.

I can understand your feelings! I analyze that your girlfriend may be under too much pressure for the entrance examination, her thoughts are mixed, and she is afraid that falling in love will affect her college entrance examination results, so she has the idea of breaking up! Originally, going to university is a big turning point in life, and it is normal to be apprehensive and worried, so I suggest that you convey my words to your girlfriend, don't lose the most beautiful love and regret each other on the spur of the moment!

In addition, I suggest that you should let go of your mental baggage and devote yourself to the general review! Strive for a double harvest of love and career!

Well, maybe you imagined the college entrance examination too terrifying, maybe I was like you before, mixing grades with feelings, and I always felt that the fluctuations in grades were related to feelings, maybe it was a misunderstanding of college entrance examination candidates.

In fact, in the third year of high school, there is a simple relationship, two people work together and work together for a goal will be better than the relationship you will encounter in the future. The feelings you encounter in the future will not be so simple.

I just want to say that it is good to persevere, in fact, it is good to have a relationship, because in the face of pressure, you will also have someone to share and confide in, after all, it is really difficult to find someone to talk to in the third year of high school.

It is recommended that you communicate with her well to find out the root of her fear, and what kind of pressure does she put on herself? Is it because I am afraid that feelings will affect my studies, or something else, I believe that as long as I get out of the misunderstanding that feelings will affect my studies, I want to say that there is a simple feeling, and two people can work hard together, which is not something that can be had at any time.

You firmly added that she didn't feel uncomfortable because she was worried that love would affect her studies, and you also said that she had this kind of discomfort from the beginning when she was with you from the beginning, and you also mentioned the environment and the pressure of studying in the third year of high school, so I think she may have a sense of guilt, and a girl like her is very good, and she should have some tendency to be perfect, and if she does her best, she will feel guilty that she fell in love in her third year of high school, and she will feel guilty that she didn't devote herself to 100% in high school, and then she will have an anxiety that may not have anything to do with you Even if it weren't for you, assuming her boyfriend was someone else, she would have this anxiety of guilt.

Or maybe it's really related to you, like you're not quite to her liking.

You can ask her, if it's not you who are in love with her, but someone else, will she still have such discomfort, if there will still be, then it is likely that this excellent girl is anxious about her guilt about falling in love in her third year of high school, if people will not feel uncomfortable, then it is probably because you are not in line with others.

Classmates can see that your girlfriend is also very involved in this relationship, if she can let go, there is no need to think about dividing, she is entangled in learning and feelings can not choose, girls and boys are always different in men can make their hearts more lenient, girls if they are invested, it is really very distracted, the college entrance examination is under a lot of pressure in her heart, it should be said that she may have encountered some difficulties, but at this time she has to divide her mind into feelings, some difficulties, so she wants to give up, you can talk to her, Solve his difficulties, help her in her studies, time is allocated by her, don't bother her when she wants to study, encourage her more, the girl's mind is delicate, as long as she doesn't delay her studies, she will accept your wishes for a happier relationship.

In my personal opinion, your girlfriend may have an inexplicable fear of the future, and needs more people's support and encouragement, such as her parents, brothers, sisters, and you, the third year of high school is a very sensitive age, she is so good, the pressure is definitely not small, communicate more, this is the best way.

Giving the two of you a common good goal, to get into a good school first, uncomfortable? Learning where is not uncomfortable, with the same conditions and motivation, it will be a sudden opening, life is originally a difficult and happy process, now it is only a part of your hardship, and when you are happy in the future, it will be a memory that you will always miss, come on. Cheer for your own future, cheer for your future

Actually, it's all due to stress

We all know that girls are generally a little worse than boys In addition to the pressure of exams, there is also pressure from the environment, as well as family pressure Hope that the son will become a dragon, and the girl will become a phoenix, this is what every parent expects....Come on o !!

People in their third year of high school are mentally ill, (Khan!) Me too! You can try not to contact for a few days so that everyone has a little space!

Love and revolution will not clash (pure red), let alone a college entrance examination?

Now you are a little bit of a self-inflicted mess yourself: if you can't concentrate in class, how can you master the newly learned knowledge, and how can you improve your academic performance? Your problem is that seeing others running ahead of you creates anxiety in your heart, and anxiety directly affects your learning.

In fact, each exam reflects everyone's learning and examination status, and everyone's learning status is constantly changing; This time someone else ran in front of you, it means that someone else has adjusted their learning status, and after you have adjusted, you can also run in front of others again. The rankings of one or two exams don't tell much about it. But if you are too anxious, you don't pay attention in class, and you can't sleep well, it will cause big problems.

So, don't care too much about the current ranking, adjust yourself to a normal state, don't put too much pressure on yourself, and your grades will continue to improve.

Let me give you an example to illustrate the above point: My child was often at the bottom of the dozens of students in the class because of illness in junior high school, and the situation began to slowly improve after he recovered from his illness in the first year of high school. However, the best result in the third year of high school was only 8th in the class.

But because there was no excessive pressure, I was finally admitted to a famous 211 university; After completing his master's degree at the University of Hong Kong, he is now pursuing a PhD in the UK.

First of all, it is certain that there is a bottleneck effect and a highland effect in learning. You won't be able to get a significant improvement in a short period of time, but as long as you stick to it, you will be able to improve after this hurdle. Secondly, in the review of the third year of high school, what must be avoided is impatience and comparison.

In this way, you will not be able to calm down, so that the efficiency and effectiveness of learning will decrease, and your grades will be affected. Finally, you need to calm down and stabilize yourself, so that you can get through the bottlenecks and plateaus smoothly.

My sister also suddenly dropped in her grades when she was in her third year of high school, but I always maintained an optimistic attitude, and I told myself every day that I said that I was the best, and I didn't give up working hard, and finally I played for a long time in the college entrance examination.

As long as you like to study and persevere, I just finished the exam this year.

Scores are only for people who like to see scores.

If you love to read and study, life will be naturally open.

It's safe to say you're too nervous and too unconfident. But you're self-motivated, you know how to solve it, you need help. I'm telling you, the more worried you are now, the worse you will be in the exam, and if you don't worry now, you may (probably) not do well in the exam. Do you understand???

There are two decisions for exams: the first is mindset. The second is the usual learning situation. Your usual grades are what they are, but if you have a bad mentality, you may not be able to perform your usual results.

Next, I will tell you about the motivation method of the world's masters: take many deep breaths, breathe steadily, and breathe in and out slowly. In addition, it is implied to oneself when it is spoken in the heart or in the mouth, and it is constantly said to oneself; I'm happy, I'm confident, I'm playing well. Wait a minute.

I think you're like you're racing with people right now, someone is behind you and someone is in front of you, you want to catch up, and at the same time you're afraid that others will overtake you, so you keep looking backwards, unconsciously wasting your time and energy, since you're in a good class, the foundation must be good, don't put too much pressure on yourself, it's normal for grades to fluctuate in the third year of high school, but you have to understand that the college entrance examination is not only about the grades, but also about the mentality, put the right mentality, and respond calmly, you will definitely succeed, come on.

The first thing to say is that you're off to a really good start, you're studying applied psychology and there's a platform to do that.

I can see your enthusiasm, your foundation is very good, and I am glad to be a peer. I'm sure you'll be a great worker in this industry.

It's just that maybe, you will be a little mistaken, because the word "doctor" is brought in the psychology, and there is no relevant professional setting in China at present, and if you want to be a doctor, you must go through the medical system training. The national unified examination of the Ministry of Health only has psychiatrists and psychologists. Under current mental health laws, counselors are only allowed to do general community work.

So the distance from that divine psychiatrist in you may be a little more separated.

However, because I am also a professional psychological counselor and a nationally registered psychological supervisor, I can give advice on the personal growth of counselors.

We counselors place great emphasis on personal quality, because the people and things we come into contact with are often negative, which tests our attitude towards life, world view, and technical skills in dealing with emotions. It is important that we can use what we have learned to guide our lives. At the same time, the counselor should also be like a sponge, trying to absorb all kinds of natural and humanistic knowledge, and not facing the client with a pure liberal arts or science attitude.

Therefore, when we have a philosophical foundation, we should try our best to understand the knowledge of various sciences and disciplines. If we refer to the training of foreign psychologists and teachers, counselors are a profession that accumulates time and money, which requires a lot of time and energy. Be prepared.

Hello! At least you need a certificate as a psychologist, in which city do you live and work? This can be studied at the Shanghai Mental Health Center. In addition, I need to read a lot of books on psychology.

It's very good to be a psychiatrist, you can read more books by famous psychologists, and there are a lot of columns in this area on TV, which will be of great help after watching it, there are theories and practices, and it is easy to understand. Hope your wish comes true!

I think you have to take the psychological counselor level 2 exam first, and then find a hospital with a psychology department.