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Hehe, on the one hand: he doesn't want to use facts to cause a bigger misunderstanding, and thinks that a lie can be solved, so why not do it......Second, the worst-case scenario, then not much to say.
Also, my advice: don't be quick to doubt, whatever the outcome is certainly not what you want, is it? Otherwise, you wouldn't have bothered like this......Girls, sometimes it's not smart like this, unless you want to break off with him, then continue to track down ......But just a meal, so what?
Is it not possible to have a boyfriend and girlfriend to eat with the opposite sex, you will make your boyfriend feel constrained, everyone is independent, needs their own space, want to be a very handsome guy, you have a good impression of the kind of invitation to dinner, you go to eat ......Maybe you'll lie to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings......It's just that in the same way, your boyfriend lied, but you thought you were smart to refute it......In fact, you're ruining your relationship......I don't know if I've said so much, do you understand? Are you better?
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Trust is the foundation of two people together, it is really tiring to live together without trust, if you really love this person, you are sure you don't want to lose him, I suggest that you don't have a confrontation with him, there is no solid evidence, just say "I believe in you", so that even if there is something, what he has in his heart is guilt, and it won't happen next time, because I think if he really has something with others, why be with you? It's better to break up with you directly. Don't be suspicious, it'll only get someone else involved
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Questioning, suspicion, digging up the truth, it's better to believe him, maybe he really has something to do outside. Trust him to be good for both of you, and if there's something you have to figure out, why not find a time to sit down and talk about it. I wish you all affection and beauty
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Observe first, as the saying goes, there are only three things, and if you find out again, you have to ask him. Ask Him for an answer ...
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In fact, does it really matter if he really lied to you? If you really want to be with him, you don't need to worry about this, sometimes it's not the easiest to play stupid.
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If you don't trust you, you won't be able to do it, so divide it.
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It will cause him to be disgusted, since you love him, you have to trust him, since you love him, you have to make him feel very comfortable with you, only in this way can you keep your boyfriend's heart and wish you happiness!
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Trust is the most important affirmation that both parties in a relationship need, and if you continue to do this, it will gradually cool you down and lead to a breakup.
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Since we are together, we must maintain the most basic trust, otherwise why be together.
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There is a very popular sentence on the Internet: What about the most basic trust between people?
It can be seen that trust is very important for people to get along with each other.
This will cause him to distrust you as well. Trust is mutual. I can tell that you and he are very distrustful, and love without trust will not last long.
If you still love him, then do something as soon as possible that can show that you trust him, a person is not trusted, people will be indifferent to you, this is whether it is male or female. What's more, his girlfriend actually doesn't trust him, and the man can't stand it.
If he is sad now, or has no love. Then it won't help you to redeem it. It's all my own doing. Let's have a long memory.
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This is a rather tragic story, and I feel sympathy and regret for what happened to the man. What would I do if I had a situation where my partner didn't trust? I can give you some personal perceptions from the following aspects.
Look for the cause. I would first think about it, why would my partner not trust me? Is it because I did something that made him or her misunderstand or suspect?
Or is it because he or she has some psychological or emotional problems? Or is it because of some communication or understanding barriers between us? I try to identify the source of mistrust so that I can act accordingly.
Communicate openly and honestly. I will take the initiative to communicate openly with my partner, explain my true situation and position, express my feelings and demands, listen to his or her thoughts and opinions, dispel his or her doubts and dissatisfactions, and enhance mutual understanding and trust. I will try to use a rational and gentle tone and avoid heated or emotional arguments that can cause more harm or misunderstanding.
Actively improve. If I find that I do have some behaviors or habits that make my partner distrustful, I will actively improve myself, keep my promises, respect the other person, be transparent, and not give the other person any reason to be suspicious or worried. If I find that my partner has some psychological or emotional problems that do not trust me, I will try my best to help him or her solve or overcome them, give him (her) more care and support, and let him (her) feel my love and trust.
Be respectful. If none of the above methods can get the other half to trust me, I will maintain my respect and bottom line, and will not sacrifice my principles or values to please the other person, nor will I do dangerous or stupid things to prove myself. I will seriously consider whether there is still the possibility and necessity for us to continue, whether there is still a common basis and goal, and whether we can still give each other happiness and joy.
In short, encountering a situation of mistrust in the other half is a tricky problem that requires the joint efforts of both parties to solve. I hope mine can be of any help to you.
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If your boyfriend doesn't trust you, it's a very tricky situation that requires patience and time to work through. First, talk to him candidly and wonder why he thinks and feels the way he does. Listening to him speak up and say what he really feels may bring clarity to your relationship and help you face problems together.
In addition to this, you can take the following steps to deal with this:
1. Maintain a sober, honest and honest attitude. By maintaining an open, honest and honest attitude, you will be able to help him see you for who you really are, increase his trust in you and his ability to trust you.
2. Prove your honesty and reliability. By proving your honesty and reliability with practical actions, such as not lying, going home on time, and taking responsibility for yourself, you can gradually build a relationship of trust between you.
3. Try to eliminate or solve the cause of trust problems. If something causes him to distrust you, then you need to do your best to eliminate or fix those issues and avoid similar situations from happening again in the future.
4. Give the other person some space. Sometimes, if your boyfriend doesn't trust you, it may be because he has his own problems that need to be solved by Stobashi and have nothing to do with you. Give him some space to deal with his problems and then try to talk to him.
5. Consider seeking professional help. If the problem is very serious, or it is difficult for you to solve the problem on your own, consider seeking the help of a professional psychological counselor or ** teacher to help you deal with this problem.
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