Is distrust of a lover the cause of love obsessive compulsive disorder?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-15
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Indeed it is! Infected with the virus of love obsessive-compulsive disorder, people will lose their love and health because of their excessive initiative, both parties in love with love obsessive-compulsive disorder patients do not believe each other, whenever the other party does not reply to messages, do not answer **, they will think a lot; After learning about the lover's previous affairs, he often holds on to it, and constantly uses it as a point of quarrel to make the relationship between the two parties in a tense link; Sometimes, without the control of their own consciousness, they will investigate the opposite sex who has been in contact with their lover. In the long run, the other party will eventually find it unbearable and escape from the shackles of love, and they will also lose their normal mind, and even lead to self-harm and suicide.

    The appearance of love obsessive-compulsive disorder is fundamentally due to the patient's bad mood, so in the process of love obsessive-compulsive disorder, the most important point that cannot be ignored is psychological counseling and intervention. Of course, if you take some drugs with recuperative effects at the same time, the effect will be better. 1.

    ** or text messages that care about each other's whereabouts every day are more than single digits "What are you doing now? "What time will you be back today?" "It's like spying on the other person, but if you don't know all the whereabouts of the other person, you will feel uncomfortable in your heart; No matter where you are, 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, as long as you want, you will immediately take the initiative to contact each other; I can't wait to buy the other party a special mobile phone that only you can contact with; Even if you break up, you will continue to play that kind of silence**, or send blank text messages, etc.

    2.If the other party doesn't call back or text back immediately, they will be very anxious Even if it's not a big deal at all, as long as the other party doesn't respond immediately, it may develop into a continuous ** other party, and finally get in touch with each other, regardless of the three-seven-twenty-one, and get angry. 3.

    No matter what the other party receives, they will seem to ask casually: Who called? When in doubt, further questions will be asked, and it will slowly develop into logging in to the other party's mailbox, peeking at the mobile phone call history or receiving and outbox; If you know that it is a call from the opposite sex** or a text message, it is possible to go back to the past on your behalf, and interrogate the relationship and so on.

    4.Like to write a blog and send ** to show your happiness Update every day (especially now, you can take out your mobile phone scarf anytime and anywhere), and send the link address to all relatives and friends to follow and share. If this continues, it will become a "debriefing fetish", "now I'm up", "I'm on the subway", ......Report your actions to the other party in the form of text messages; Once the other party changes his mind, he will immediately show the other party all that is not suitable for public.

    5.Don't live together, but get used to picking up and dropping off each other every day Even if you quarrel, if you want to see each other, you will rush over to wait and knock on the door; handwritten letters, but not thrown into the mailbox of the other person's house, but stuffed through the crack in the door; When you go out, even if the other person goes to the toilet, they will wait outside the door. View the original post

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You know, don't try to please others, it's important to be yourself. Because, if he is with you because of your pleasure, then, what he likes is not the real you, how long can you tolerate him, sooner or later, second, if he likes you, you don't please him he also likes you, if he doesn't like you, you can't help anything. Be yourself, don't think about it!

    If you decide that it is very painful, you can go to Chengdu South Asia Research Institute to find a psychiatrist!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Depression experts point out that obsessive-compulsive disorder is a group of neuroses with obsessions and compulsions as the main manifestations. People with OCD are generally overly nervous and self-examining, which is very painful. Love obsessive-compulsive disorder is mainly manifested as strong jealousy, suspicion, and inability to tolerate the other party to talk more to others or have any close behavior, and will feel extremely lost and dissatisfied because of this, which will seriously affect the emotional life of the two people and affect the patient's personal physical and mental health.

    So what are the manifestations of love obsessive-compulsive disorder, and what should I do about love obsessive-compulsive disorder? To this is the answer from a depression expert. What to do with love obsessive-compulsive disorder 1. Trust the other person and give the other party enough personal space.

    People with love obsessive-compulsive disorder don't trust each other, and whenever the other party doesn't reply to messages or answers, they will think a lot; After learning about the lover's previous affairs, he often holds on to it, and constantly uses it as a point of quarrel to make the relationship between the two parties in a tense link; In fact, love is based on mutual trust, if you don't trust each other, how can you form a future family, and at the same time, love needs to give each other enough space, to learn to give each other freedom. 2. Give up machismo and learn to appreciate your girlfriend.

    There are two ways for men to convince women that they can do it: first, to show their strengths; 2. Denying the merits of women. Therefore, patients with love obsessive-compulsive disorder should give up their machismo appropriately and learn to praise their girlfriends more while affirming their own rules, after all, everyone likes to listen to compliments.

    3. Pay to pay off before you can focus on skill. Pay without expecting anything in return. This may seem great, but it's a deep narcissism.

    People who think this way don't actually see the real existence of the other party, and they give for themselves. His giving is his own need, not necessarily the needs of his lover. Giving is an important part of their sense of worth, and it is their obsessive habit that makes them not pay, but it has become a problem.

    Sometimes there is also the implicit message that since I have done such a perfect job and I have a clear conscience, then any problems in our relationship are not my responsibility, but yours. Tips: The above are a few solutions for love obsessive-compulsive disorder by depression experts, I hope it will be helpful to friends with similar symptoms.

    Love is a science, which can make people learn to communicate, understand, appreciate others and how to get along with others happily, people in love please give themselves more self-confidence, give each other more appreciation and encouragement, so as to reduce the occurrence of love obsessive-compulsive disorder.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The relationship between husband and wife must be based on mutual trust, mutual respect and mutual understanding, and suspicion is precisely contrary to these principles, it is the killer of the sincere feelings of the husband and wife. If there is suspicion in a marriage, tragedy can arise, and there have been many, many such cases in life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on whether he is really worthy of your trust, if it is your personal problem, then you can say to yourself more, the other party did not lie to me, we are in the same trouble, just give yourself more of this security.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, I can tell you for sure that this kind of thing cannot cause a person to die in love. On the other hand, if you think about it, if she said such things, would you die to him? In addition to trusting, loving someone is also to forgive the other person, no matter what the other party has done wrong, as long as you still love her, you will forgive her, do you say?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's right, the most important thing for a couple of lovers is trust, if you don't trust each other, then this love is no longer as good as before, I suggest you apologize to her, and then tell her that you love her very much, only then can you have a chance to redeem this love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's because you don't trust her enough, and his ex-boyfriend was with her after all. People have feelings. Feelings are not so easy to forget, sometimes it is best to give the other person more trust!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If she can tell you how she feels about that person, it shows that he trusts you. If you don't have a generous heart, don't doubt the dedication and choices that others have made to you. You --- have no rights.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, there is a problem with the foundation of this love, most of the words in love are lies, maybe she has changed her mind, and she just gave you an excuse. I think we can get back from the root cause of the problem. Go for it!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes! We must have trust in each other's love, so that we can better maintain each other's feelings!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I feel like you've been fooled, she's playing tricks on you, leaving you guilty in your heart, so that she can leave as she deserves, and then make you feel like you owe her! Silly boy, look at what you say, what is inseparable from others, love others, people don't love you too much at all! It's been a year, and you're looking back and thinking about it now!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It depends on what you think. True love will definitely suffer a lot of setbacks, and she is thick-skinned to coax her.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love is always blind in the hearts of all people.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Love needs space, trust.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Advise you to think well. Whether she can bear your love. In addition to love, marriage cannot lack reason.

    You haven't been together for long, so you should calm down at this stage. Pay attention to the rest of your life and keep in touch. Don't worry, with fate and feelings, you can come together.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you don't want to, don't trust it, don't delay the youth of both parties, find a person who is willing to do so.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you love her, you should trust her, what is love, is that the two of them take care of each other together, trust!

    If you can't do that, just forget it!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There is a degree to everything, she is too much, you can bear it too much, if the pain of love is let go, I contacted my ex-girlfriend, and my girlfriend got angry, even though I chased her for four years before! For the sake of my current girlfriend, I deleted my ex-girlfriend's number and promised not to contact her again, because I love her now, there is no choice in some things, she loves you, she should think about you more.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You are a third party yourself, and that woman's ex-boyfriend is the most pitiful, if you rob his girlfriend, someone else will rob your girlfriend.

    And this woman just keeps changing men.

    You're just one of them, it's a process, nothing special.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Forget it... You are not suitable, in fact, the other party doesn't like you, no matter how much you chase it, it's useless, the other party likes you, you don't need to dig out your mind to chase it. Maybe one day he will be moved by your sincerity, but most of them will break up in the end. Because love is not moving, you are not the ideal partner in his mind, even if you accept you for a while, you will leave you when you meet the one he likes in the future.

    Of course, for someone who likes you, you still need to spend some effort to please him, because this is like patting and procrastinating, and it is romantic.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You love her too much, you are too afraid of losing, and your distrust will hurt both of you in the end.

    Why don't you relax, she doesn't love you anymore, she will leave, and when she is still with you, cherish it and don't blame it anymore.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you don't trust it, it's divided, are you willing to live a life like this for the rest of your life?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    She doesn't deserve your trust, and maybe you were a mistake in the first place.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Since there is no trust, let's disperse!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The symptom of OCD is that it is not controlled.

    For example, someone thinks their hands are dirty, and then washes them more than a dozen times a day. He himself knew that this was not normal, but he just couldn't control himself.

    Love obsessive-compulsive disorder refers to those uncontrolled behaviors in love. Knowing that it is meaningless, knowing that it is wrong, just can't control it.

    It takes the form of another person in my head who is controlling myself to do something that I don't think makes sense or doesn't make sense, and I don't have the power to stop it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Love shouldn't be obsessive-compulsive, don't have anything to do with obsessive-compulsive disorder. How is your love forced??? Nowadays, there is no such thing as love obsessive-compulsive disorder in psychology

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's about making yourself like someone you don't like.

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