How should boys in their 20s plan their lives?

First, read well, get in touch with new scientific discoveries, and look at all the information in the world, such as: "Heavenly Gate, geography, archaeology, history, the four major religions, and cosmology......"And so on. To listen to all directions, to do great things, you must first have a wealth of knowledge, as much as others do not have.

Learn to dialectically distinguish between truth and falsehood, don't follow the crowd, and learn to have independent opinions, because there is a lot of knowledge in the world that is wrong.

Second, it strictly controls its own morality. With real talent and real learning, if you don't have the opportunity, you may not necessarily perform in front of people, but you must learn to "real people don't show their faces".

Third, under the above two basic principles, find a way to earn a living, and have suitable people to organize a family (do not take the lead, otherwise it will be difficult to achieve anything).

There are 2 ways to make a living

1. Rely on yourself: Because today's China is still only at the beginning of the quest for wealth, the public is still far from living in a convenient, effortless, and comfortable way. To use an analogy, everyone wants to drink boiling water, and disposable cups are popular!

There are still many products in the service industry that have not kept up.

As a joke, when I was about 20 years old, I designed a wooden airplane and an electric bicycle to wear on my feet based on the principle of a hammer machine. The year before last, I found out on TV that someone from abroad had made it, but the electric bicycle worn on the foot is not available in China, and the world has not found it to this day. It's just that I am a child who listens to the party, and I burned the drawings during the movement to cut the tail of capitalism.

2. Rely on the help of nobles: find a job that suits you to go to work, as long as you are loyal to everything, the boss is the most loved. Generally, part-time workers only strive for small heads and lose big heads, because the most difficult thing in the boss's life is that it is difficult to find a loyal assistant, and once recognized by the boss, he will cherish him like a son.

If you don't have any talent yourself, your parents can't count on it! Then I suggest you get a job first, and then learn skills in your spare time, there will always be opportunities.

I don't want to live like this ordinary life, how should I plan my life? Thank you!!! Question adds: I don't want to have a career that can be reached in one step, only by doing a good job in the industry I have chosen can I have great development...

Or take advantage of your youth to play more, or start struggling towards your goal, start learning and accumulating experience, contact with people, and learn to speak.

You can plan your own development direction in the next two years, and then ask yourself to study, after all, you are only 20 years old, you are still very young, you must have a dream, because that is the engine for us to move forward, I wish you success.

First of all, you must have your own goals, know your own strengths, and do not have to have a high level of education, such as knowing that you have strong communication skills or you have business acumen, etc., and then plan according to your own strengths.

Have long-term goals and short-term plans, make a good life plan, and have the courage to work tirelessly for your goals.

First of all, we must understand what we can do and what we want to do, and slowly do things well and finely, step by step.

For me, my twenties are the best years to struggle, and I will choose a suitable job according to my strengths and interests, earn some money, and travel to see this beautiful country.

Life In order to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tiring and hard Because society is very unfair, life is very helpless Sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring Because life is like this No one's life is smooth sailing As long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just remember: don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait Be brave to look up The sunshine is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!

Clarify your ideals, refine your ideals, and realize them step by step in stages.

Twenty years old is the bleakest time in a man's life, with nothing.

The word "money" may not be very important to a 20-year-old man at this time, but the reverie of the emptiness of "money" makes my eyes dim.

Love "20-year-old they are difficult to experience the test of true love, no material basis for how long is the love very supportive, 20-year-old we are still looking forward to the pure "love" of the campus, reverie ** fairy tale "love", and still looking forward to the "love" of childhood sweethearts. Then these "loves" are in the face of career, family, desires...Can this kind of "love" bravely face the test!!

There are two types of people in this year: one student; One already has a job. Students always want to work, but they have no experience and are somewhat afraid of work, and they don't have the energy and time, and the focus of life is never "work".

They have worked hard to maintain their lives, have too many extravagant hopes for the future, and do not have the courage and capital to make 20-year-old people work hard, no education, no capital, no housing, and they dare not expect how bad "love" is, so they choose to wipe the salty liquid of hardship in the corner of the wall.