What should an 11 year old girl do if she has to sleep with her parents all the time?

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The child is 10 years old, but he always has to sleep with his parents, is there any way to solve it?

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It is long overdue to sleep in separate beds, around 5 years old, you should be divided into separate beds, even if it is in one room, 7-8 years old should be divided into separate rooms. Today's children are so precocious, you think they don't understand anything, but they all know. Give him a separate room, decorate the room, the room of the adults is even better, at first the father or mother (male and male, female and female) go to the new room with him (her) to sleep, and then often wait for him to fall asleep before leaving the room.

Slowly, I became independent.

Now don't be in a hurry to separate, because it's ten years old, it's impossible to sleep separately at once to let him accept it (especially when he falls asleep, it's absolutely not okay to take it out, and the child will have the fear of being abandoned), generally speaking, such a child is less courageous, insecure and independent, this kind of thing needs to be done slowly, and then let him sleep in separate beds (there is also a prerequisite, parents accompany him to sleep and then let him sleep alone), and then go down to sleep in separate beds normally.

Under normal circumstances, when the child is six years old, he should have his own independent room, sleep alone, start to tell stories and accompany the child for a while, or let the child take his favorite plush toys or favorite quilt towels with him, sleep without closing the door, tell him, we will come when something is called, let him overcome the initial fear, three months later, it is time to go back to the room to sleep.

There are only two reasons why I still sleep with my parents at the age of 12.

First, the conditions in the home cavity are limited, and there is no condition for the child to have an independent room;

Second, parents are too doting, but you must know that this is also harming the child, so that his personality does not guess and is independent, and the child will go to college in a few years, and what if he still can't divide it when the time comes? Take your parents to college can't be, otherwise you can't sleep, in this case, you don't know how to sleep when you leave your parents, you have to change slowly, first intentionally tell the child that your mother and father are a little busy these days, let him sleep by himself first, and wait for your mother and father to come when they are busy, say a relaxed and happy casual feeling, don't let the child realize that you are intentional, you can accidentally arrange a business trip for a few days after a few days, let the mother and father tell a story or take the child to watch the pad before going to bed, and then the child sleeps with the father ( The girl let the mother accompany him, the boy let the father accompany him), walk away when he falls asleep, let the child sleep by himself, slowly get used to it, it doesn't matter if he is alone, besides, it is so old that it is easier to accept.

In fact, the biggest problem is in parents, and there is no problem with parents self-regulating.

The son is 12 years old and it is not recommended to sleep with his parents. Because children should have their own room when they are older, they should have privacy.

Of course not, children don't care about boys and girls, and when they reach the age where they can dress themselves and eliminate Jane, they must sleep separately from their parents, which helps children grow up independently, and it is inconvenient to always sleep with their parents, which is not conducive to children's growth.

Let me tell you why, a child can sleep alone when he can get dressed on his own, and if he can't sleep alone at the age of 10, it's either a waste, a dementia or an imbecile, and he can't live a thrifty life.

You can sleep with your parents, maybe your child is afraid of the dark or cold on her birthday, so it's okay.