The first strength is the temper, the first strength or the ability first

Appreciating a person: it starts with appearance, respects talent, fits character, is good for a long time, and finally character begins with appearance The ancients also attached importance to appearance, but the appearance in the eyes of the ancients, not to judge the hero with beauty and ugliness, but to pay attention to the complexion. During the Three Kingdoms, Cao Cao once wanted to meet the Xiongnu envoys, and felt that he was short and not outstanding, so he asked the tall and handsome Cui Jiqi to pretend to be himself, but Cao Cao himself stood next to him with a knife.

The king was dignified and elegant, but the man who stood aside and carried the sword was a hero. It is recorded in the history books that Cao Cao "has a short appearance, but the gods are heroic", which is true! Respecting talent In the Tang Dynasty, Meng Di's "Poems of Ability" recorded that Li Bai's first hometown went to Chang'an, Kyoto, and lived in a hotel.

The secretary and supervisor He Zhizhang went to visit him and asked Li Bai to take out the poems to read. Li Bai took out "The Difficulty of Shu Dao" and gave it to He Zhizhang. Before He Zhizhang finished reading, he praised it several times, and called Li Bai "an immortal" on the spot.

Li Bai loves to drink, so He Zhizhang untied the golden turtle tied to his body, used it as a mortgage for wine, and drank with Li Bai. He Zhizhang fell in love with Li Bai at first sight out of reverence and appreciation for Li Bai's talent. Fit the character of the Book of Changes:

Respond with the same voice and seek the same breath. When the water is wet, the fire is dry. Things of the same kind sense each other.

The same is true of people, people with the same personality are easy to get along and lose their temper. And to be able to get along with the vast majority of people, you need to be cultivated, gentle and serious, as the ancients said, "Hope is like it, that is, it is also warm"!Some people may not be amazing, they may not be outstanding, but they have a charm of personality that makes people comfortable and makes people want to be close to them.

Being with such a person is like listening to a soothing **, sipping a cup of mellow hot tea, and watching a flower bloom quietly.

Appreciating a person begins with appearance, respect for talent, character, kindness, and finally character. It is also to respect, trust, appreciate and learn from his virtue, and deeply understand, tolerate and accept his love.

The meaning of this sentence is that a person's appearance is very important, and his talent is based on his character, but it also depends on the person's kindness to see the quality of this product. It seems to have come out of a great mission.

Started with appearance, respect for talent, fit for character, long more than kindness and loyalty to character, I finally found all this sentence, this should be a sentence written by someone else.

It seems that a blind date variety show said it.

This is obviously the slogan of the mate selection criteria!

It starts with appearance, falls into talent, is loyal to character, and fits character.

Love begins with appearance, falls into talent, is loyal to character, discounts is material, and is defeated by reality. Tu Lei said.

Tu Lei said in the battle of love.

Ability is the prerequisite for strength, and this ability contains material and spiritual aspects.

Ability is a comprehensive embodiment of ability, and ability is only a part of strength.

Ability is strength, strength and ability are definitely not low, experience it yourself.

It's a logical thinking, both.

Ability is the only way to have strength, but ability is only part of strength.

1. If I treat you the way you treat me, I'm afraid you have already left, and if you are me, you may not be as generous as me!

Second, if you don't have the ability to live a good life, then lower your standards first to live a good life, and then pick and choose after you have enough ability.

3. If you learn more skills, you will say less words to ask for help. I always believe in one sentence: only if you are strong enough, you will not be trampled on by others.

Fourth, don't try to spy on my life, what you can see, is what I choose to let you see.

Fifth, if you don't have the ability to clean up the mess, please don't indulge your fickle emotions, otherwise you will only hurt yourself in the end!

Sixth, I want to work hard to make money, not because I love money, but in this life, I don't want to be with anyone because of money, and I don't want to leave anyone because of money.

7. You can cry, you can be tired, you can be aggrieved, you can be upset, but you must try to stand where you want to stand the most.

8. For those who don't understand me, what qualifications do you have to point fingers at me; People who don't know me, why do you say anything to me?

9. You can not stab someone, but there must be thorns on your body. Don't be a bad person, but never be a good person who smiles and dedicates silently in the corner.

10. "The past" is a place worth visiting, but it is by no means a place where you can stay for a long time.

Ten. 1. A strong life does not need to be explained. As long as you get to your destination on time, few people care if you're driving a Mercedes or a tractor.

Ten. 2. Don't let those people who have little to do with your life affect your mood because you are embarrassed, let them get out when it's time to let them go.

Do you say marriage? That's a complicated thing. Temper, ability, I personally think it has little to do with the quality of marriage, but values and living habits. Personality and temper come after these two.

In fact, marriage has nothing to do with ability and temper, regardless of men and women, the first thing to consider is.

Sense of responsibility, as well as character, good character, and a sense of responsibility. Such a person basically will not have problems, and secondly, the outlook on life and morality of the two people, if they maintain almost two people, they can live very well! In any case, responsibility and character must come first.

All in all, either you have the ability to have a temper, or if you don't have the ability, you have no temper.

To put it simply, it is a combination of grace and power.

Grace is to give incentives to be appropriate: 1. Arranging appropriate work according to their abilities is also an effective way to motivate (after all, learning a skill is to find a place to use); 2. Reward based on work performance rather than ability, which will be more objective; 3. We must respect them, listen to their suggestions patiently, clarify their ideas, and take corresponding countermeasures (is the top-level design combined with the practice of the masses!). ）。

4. Put forward a higher goal, so that they have room to display their talents; 5. Responsibilities and rights are consistent, dare to let go, dare to take responsibility, be generous and tolerant, seek common ground while reserving small differences, and have a sense of goal, as long as the goal is completed (who will do it with you: who is willing to do it if you have no goal and do not give benefits?). ）。

Wei is to draw the bottom line: 1. The regulations are clear, and if you cross the line, you will be punished, and you will never be soft; 2. Maintain fairness and objectivity; 3. Help them change, surpass, improve, and realize their own value; 4. Those who do not obey the management or the management cost is too high shall be removed immediately.

To hire is to hire capable people, not mediocre talents. This is the last word of development, you need to maximize his potential, people without temper can rarely be capable, few people without temper can do things. What this kind of person wants the most is respect, give him space to develop, but the premise is to ensure your interests, although it is said to be a part-time job, in fact, everyone is a cooperative relationship, and whoever leaves will not be very good.

3 allDu Yuesheng once had a saying: First-class people, have ability, have no temper; second-class people, with ability and temper; The last person has no ability and has a temper. Only those who are really capable can learn to keep a low profile, and will not easily lose their temper with those who are not capable in his eyes; I have just changed from having no ability to being a capable person, my vanity is relatively strong, I feel that no one is as good as myself, and I haven't learned to control my temper, so this is an average person.

And a person who has no ability and a big temper, such a person is nothing, he will only pretend to be good, because he doesn't want people to look down on him, and he is barefoot and not afraid of wearing shoes, so he has a great temper.

Take care of your temper when you don't have the ability, because this is the starting point of your success; Control your temper when you have the ability, because this is the umbrella of your success. There is no need to be angry if you don't have strength, and there is no need to be angry if you have strength.

No, anger is a human emotion, and everyone has the right to choose any emotion. If you don't have the strength, it's not right to not work hard after being angry. But if anger makes people see themselves clearly and become harder, then anger is worth it.

I think it's right. If a person does not have strength, his anger is worthless relative to the people around him. This is a particularly harsh reality.

I feel right, because you don't have the strength, no one will hear your anger, and even if you shout your throat, no one will notice you, let alone care about you.

There is some truth in this sentence, because anger without strength will not attract anyone's attention and is useless

Correct, without strength, even if you are angry, it is useless, it will only add trouble to yourself, so you must learn to control your anger, anger will hurt your body.

Personally, I think this sentence is correct, anyway, you don't have the strength, and it doesn't make sense for you to be angry, so you must work hard for yourself and for the future.

Yes, basically most of the anger in life is due to the anger person's inability to solve the problem, because he is not able to solve the problem, so he will cause trouble.

This sentence is true, anger without strength will only make you angry, but you can't change anything, so it doesn't make any sense.

To be precise, if a person does not have strength, then his anger is actually a personal emotion.

Whether it's people and things you don't like or people and things you don't like, if you get angry, it's not worth it. It is not easy for people to live for a lifetime, and if life is too serious, it will be very tiring. I think what Mr. Li Xiaoyi said, "Life is precious, our time is used to love worthy people, it is not enough to live for ourselves, and we can't punish ourselves with other people's ignorance", which is quite reasonable.

Teacher Wu analyzed, which is more important than ability and academic qualifications?

It should be a character, to put it in layman's terms, you can still be a beggar if you don't have enough ability, you have a bad personality, and if you eat the poisonous rats, you will have nothing.

Of course, it's the ability, the character can be changed slowly, and the ability must be there

Character should be everything that character feels about you.