How do I talk to my roommates How do I talk to my roommates?

What is the ring, happiness together is the most important thing.

She's your friend, you just have to be honest with her.

Are you mentally uncomfortable? Or do you think she's going to be uncomfortable?

Your boyfriend didn't buy a ring for yuan to perfunctory you, that's your happiness, how do you know if her ring was bought for her own yuan (it's better not to think like that, after all, she's your good friend).

Now that she's balanced with the ring mentality, being honest with her will only make your relationship better.

Don't scruple too much, if she can't understand you, then it can only be said that this friend is not the most confidant.

Self-happiness is the most important thing.

Envy you and your boyfriend, I wish you happiness.

Let's be honest!

It doesn't matter. She won't look down on you for that. If so, you can see her as a person. It's a test.

What's more, everyone will lie. She had nothing to lose.

There's no need to be verbose with this kind of person.

I hope you and your boyfriend are happy.

In this world.

A piece of truth is far more valuable than a ring or necklace.

Selfishly said. Do you love your boyfriend Love doesn't matter.

It's just that I advise you to be honest.

Your words should have been stopped in the first place.

In this world.

A piece of truth is far more valuable than a ring or necklace.

I used a resin ring to make my girlfriend happy

Whatever she thinks, how can everyone in the world take care of so many people related to you? Since he is original, there is nothing to say, as long as you and your other person are happy, it is the best! I think if he really loves you, he'll keep his promise anyway, it just takes time.

As for that friend of yours, it seems that she wants to compare herself to you, so ignore her. Trust your boyfriend and trust him to give you true happiness1

The ring was sold to my mother's doctor.

According to what you wrote, it's not that your boyfriend won't buy you a ring, but that he didn't buy it for various reasons. If he bought you a ring and delayed his mother's treatment, would you be safe to wear it? Would you choose such a boyfriend?

I'm sure your friends can understand, here: I wish you happiness!

If you love him, you don't need to say much, true love is better than anything else.

Don't be blindly vain

Either tell the truth, or don't.

What's this, can't you just find a topic to talk about?

Just looking at the title, I think it's a normal thing.

Sleeping needs to be as dark and quiet as possible, I believe this is true for everyone, so it is understandable that everyone wants the environment around them to be in a quiet state when they sleep.

But since this question is asked, I would like to take the liberty of extending it, and there may be a misinterpretation of the meaning of the person who asked the question.

First, the question of time.

If it's time to go to bed at night, such as 10 o'clock at night, one of the roommates has to sleep at 10 o'clock, and the other roommates are night owls, generally don't sleep until 12 o'clock or even early in the morning, in this case, the roommate who sleeps at 10 o'clock wants the other roommates to be quieter, I think it's also reasonable, even if you can't guarantee complete quiet, you should minimize the sound, and I think this is a sign of respect for each other, and if you want to go to bed early one day, you can also get the other party's understanding and concession.

There is also a lunch break at noon, sometimes after a morning class, after eating at noon, there may be roommates who want to sleep for a while, if you don't have anything special, you don't want to sleep laughing ruler, you can put on headphones to watch the drama or something, it's understandable.

2. Incidental events.

For example, there is a roommate who has a little cold in the past two days, and always wants to sleep after drinking medicine, and then may tell other roommates during the day if you can be quieter, I think everyone has compassion, and this kind of accidental incident is also understandable, I was quite distressed when I saw my roommate sick and not mentally leaking when I was in college, so I hope she can get better quickly.

I think the above two situations can be viewed normally and understandably.

Of course, college roommates are like smoking blind boxes, they may encounter the situation that they ask the whole dormitory to be quiet when they sleep, and they don't respect others when they sleep, and they are very loud, and there is actually no good solution to this situation, because generally this kind of person will not be useful if he says it, and he can only choose to change the dormitory or move out if he has the conditions, or he can only hurt each other.

People who gather in groups, people who are hungry in groups, and who do not agree with each other, I think it is better to have less contact as much as possible, especially not to have particularly deep contact, so as not to cause all kinds of unnecessary contradictions and problems, and make both parties unhappy. However, it is not up to you to choose who to live in a dormitory with in college, and if there are really people in your roommates who do not agree with you, it should also be based on the principle of harmonious coexistence.

The first is to respect each other. Everyone has their own different views on things, not necessarily the same as others, if they are all the same views, then what is the difference between people? You can have different opinions from others, you can have your own opinions, but as long as other people's opinions are reasonable, they should also be respected and understood.

The second is to be with roommates who don't agree with the three views, on the surface, you want to go, but try not to study what the problem is, because, your three views are inconsistent, so if you discuss the problem, you hold a point of view, he holds a point of view, so that the views are different, and it is not interesting to fight around, make a blushing neck, and you can't fight for a meridian, so try not to argue, so that everyone is at peace with each other, and each sticks to its own point of view, which is also a way to get along.

Third, it is necessary to minimize conflicts of interest and people who do not agree with the three views, and do not have personal exchanges. Because there are great differences between you, and sometimes even the views are opposite, once there is a fuse, it will cause contradictions and conflicts between you. Therefore, try not to interact with each other, do not communicate.

If you really can't avoid the situation, you can tolerate it, and there is a saying called taking a step back and opening up the sky.

Fourth, we must learn to exercise restraint. Under normal circumstances, it is taboo for people who do not agree with each other to get along with each other, but in real life, due to all aspects of the sail, two people with different views are likely to work together, at this time we should learn to forbear, learn to restraint, and learn to live in peace. Restrain your attitude, restrain your words, restrain your actions.

If both sides think like this, there will be no contradictions and conflicts, and both sides can get along harmoniously, thank you.

College roommates are our closest friends in college life, so we should be open to each other, and of course, we must also have the awareness that others do not deceive me and I do not deceive others.

1. Try to maintain the same work and rest time with your roommates, and be tolerant and understanding in daily life.

2. Do not engage in small groups, we should treat everyone in the dormitory equally and maintain an equal relationship with them.

3. Learn to praise and don't be stingy with praise to others.

4. Give care to others and help when they are in trouble. Helping each other is a traditional Chinese virtue, let alone friends who have lived with us for many years.

5. Do not violate the privacy of roommates, everyone has their own privacy, and cannot use others without the consent of roommates.

6. Actively participating in dormitory activities and building a good relationship with roommates is also part of our growth.

7. We must pay attention to the trouble coming out of the mouth, and don't be happy for a while, and then cause others to be disgusted.

Finally, the dormitory is a small home for college students, we are all part of the family, and everyone has the responsibility to maintain this home, so let's work together to build this home better.